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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

Please help me, I'm so confused...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I met my ex on a dating site after a few months of chatting. We decided to meet our first date went very and end up dating. For nearly a year all was going well until I went out one night I was raped was a virgin. After that I went through ...

"Fake" friend hitting on girlfriend - what should I do so she doesn't speak to him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - im an 18 year old male. i have a girlfriend and my friend is so messed up and says stuff to her behind my back. he asks her to send him sexual pictures. he asks her for kisses to cheer him up. and to bite her ass and stuff. the thing is i promised ...

I want her but she has a bf! Any advice on how to make her mine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Never really knew what I wanted in a Girl, but now i do. The only thing is she already has a boyfriend. Another thing to add is she already knows i like her. Im in desperate need of help and any advice on how to make her mine. Any tips?...

I admit being OTT about hubby talking to another woman, but he says I am nasty and vindictive!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have recently got married for the third time. My new husband speaks daily with a woman we both know and I asked him to stop. He told me that I was trying to censor him, nothing is going on and that he won't stop contact with her as there is no ...

What sort of man would do this to his child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5437 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have had a married lover for over 25years, when I met him he was not married, anyway I have 1 son with him and he has 3 sons with his wife, he paid child support for the child for 19 years, But he (my son) caught us talking dirty on the internet ...

I had a dream that I caught them they were together & that girl was laughing at me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - ...why do i feel like i hate my hubby's female friend? i don't wanna prolong my agony, please help me...should i sit down and talk to her (female friend) just so i can get over with it or just ignore the fact that she is my husband's friend and no ...

Why is it that when I start dating one guy, I start to like another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Can someone please explain this to me: When I start dating a guy, it's great...except I start to like another guy. Every single relationship I've been in, it's good for awhile, but then I start to like someone else. What is wrong with me? Why do I ...

My husband's friend keeps sending different information and pictures about my husband's first love.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5409 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My husband's friend ,who actually, my husband has no connection with ,at he last 20 years, keep sending different information and pictures about my husband's first love. He ,the friend is in contact with this woman,and seemingly the woman probably ...

I'm in love, he loves me.. But he lives with her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - So I have known this guy Dave* for a little over a year. I don’t know when it happened but somewhere along the line we became attracted to one and other and began some sort of relationship. Slight problem? He lives with his girlfriend. There was a ...

He said he would do oral on a guy if I wanted him to. Does this make hm bi?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Ok need some advice on a few things. Me and my boyfriend have been together for a little over a year. He has always said that he loves having sex with me but wishes I would get more involved. I had major issues getting involved because of some ...

I have a boyfriend but like another who I texted, but I get no reply

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - okay, i went to a club the other night for my friends birthday. my friend also invited some other friends of his who i didn't know. i started talking to one of them and he was so funny and sweet. he was good looking and had a really nice smile. i ...

I don't feel like having sex with my boyfriend any more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend had fantasy sex with his friend (girl) he knows. It looks like every time he is imaging to have sex, he will think about this girl. But he told me he will never have sex with this girl in real life. Is he lying to me? He loves me...

His best friend is a woman and we are jealous of each other.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5436 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend has a BFF that he had as a child. When his wife was killed a few years ago, she reappeared. She had been a daily/hourly part of his life since the death. He and I started seeing each other last spring and she judged me from day one. I ...

I do not trust that this girl isn't going to attempt to sabbotage our relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I posted a question yesterday about a mutual friend sending my boyfriend love letters and that my boyfriend is still friends with her, and im not, she lied about sending them after i found them, and threatened me to report me to the police when i ...

I have a boyfriend so how do I deal with these feelings I have for a mutual friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I am in a terrible situation and I have no idea what to do. I am usually so focussed in life, knowing what I want but I am actually torn between what I currently have and what I can potentially get. I have been in a relationship with a man for a...

Did I deserve to be treated like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5441 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - This is my story. I came to know a girl by wrong number(she is 20 year), slowly we stared to like each other and she used to share everything to me( im 26)..i was feeling good ,she used to talk to me daily for 1-2 hours and i asked many time that ...

I had to be stupid and ruin it by kissing his best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Okay. i really need help... my life is so complicated.. i know this is a love/dating site but i thought someone on here might be able to help me.. I was dating this guy for 2 years and then i had to be stupid and ruin it by kissing his best...

She's replying to my texts a day later... is there still a chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5442 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I need help...and I hope you can help me! It is a bit long winded but I'll try and keep it short. In early Nov 2009 me and my then girlfriend of 3 years split up, well I guess you could say I left her! The reason for the split is as follows - ea...

I'm attracted to her sister and my gf is on to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5429 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - My girlfriends sister and I have had a "relationship" for a couple of weeks now. My relationship with GF has been shaky lately and I am really attracted to her sister, who has already said she loves me and would give up everything for me. Now my GF ...

I want sex more often than my boyfriend, what's up with that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5443 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I am looking for some insight into my boyfriend so if you think you can shed some then please do! What I don't understand is how he can really enjoy sex yet not want it very often. He is about 40 years of age, enjoys sex, finds my attractive ...

Love triangle and a baby!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

27 January 2010 (F) - hey huge problem, i a 19 yr old mum with a 2 year old lil boy. i have a fiance in bristol which ive been with 7 months now...before i got with my fiance i was seeing some1/not in relation but we had sex and other feelings, i was hed over heels for ...

His ex is causing trouble! Is he telling the truth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - i`m having a bit of trouble i talked to a girl who claimed to be my boyfriends ex girlfriend and she told me that he asked her out a few weeks ago when we have been going out for 5 months he has already been out with her and she went out with him ...

I want her but she is hanging out with him and I'm hurt...what can I do?

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26 January 2010 (M) - ok so i posted only last night and got one answer that was kinda helpful but you see the girl i like and want (my house mate and my best friend) shes got a guy in her room she said hes just a friends from work and that they are hanging out but ...

I cant have the girl I want because she is with another guy and is afraid that she will be blamed for my break-up with my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - Hello, there is one girl called H that i loved for 1 year. And H loves me too. But right now H has a boyfriend called J and she is afraid to hurt her boyfriend J. And second thing H is afraid of is that other people will think that the reason for ...

My online guy already has a girlfriend, what should I do before we get any closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Dear All, I am getting divorced from my husband (our marriage was dead for a long time, this is only making it formal) and broke up with my boy friend of 3 years . I have been single for close to a year. Now there is this guy whom I met on facebo...

She reads old sexual emails from past boyfriends and says I have no reason to be upset. What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5442 days ago

26 January 2010 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for almost two years now, and for most of that time I've known she finds sexual literature a huge turn-on. I don't have any problem with her buying sexy fiction to read, but some time ago she started looking up erotic ...

I introduced my husband to my bi g/f now he can only perform sex with her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 January 2010 (F) - Okay, to start off with, I am a bisexual female....I have been with my husband for 10 years...I am 27 and he is 29...We have a wonderful relationship but since I have gotten with this girl and let him join in, he can only get hard and stay hard ...

Help! I have a crush on my boyfriend's younger brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a silly, on-going crush on my boyfriend's younger brother. He doesn't know, and I'd NEVER tell him or do anything - but I secretly fantasize about him, and I always have dreams about him if I've seen him during the day. ...

Wife had anal sex with another man, how should I react?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5441 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - Mod note: had some language and sexual content not suitable for younger aunts and uncles, changed to make it... more friendly. I went to a party with my wife and I forgot to eat beforehand, well I got drunk and passed out. I woke up a couple o...

What should I do? Giving up is not an option!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (M) - hey guys/girls,, i will make it simple and not that big but i really need your help i know a girl that im close to (going out, filtering, feeling jealous, calls, texts) but i had a problem and i hurt her because i couldnt talk with her for 3 w...

Boyfriend slept with his step sister - what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4315 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Ok so this is a tricky one... My boyfriend slept with his step sister. It was a long time ago but since it happened the two of the became really close and - best friends even. twenty years ago her mum stole my boyfriends dad from his mum - I'm no...

Should he get the DNA test or should I leave the situation alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - Ok so my bf and I have been going out for about 10 months, in that time we broke up and got back together. Well i guess during that breakup period or while we were still together(still trying to figure that part out) he met some girl and they were ...

I think I have broken up with him one too many times, but now I realise I miss him and want him back but he wont talk to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5444 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have dated this one guy before, he said he loved me and i said it back, but when his best friend told me he regrets breaking up with me he was also asking for me back. Both of them were but when i got with the best friend, the guy i truly love ...

Lapse of judgement or liar

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

25 January 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man for about a year. He recently moved in to my house. He tends to be a bit odd he has been cheated on and so- he tends to peek thru my phone and I don't mind because I have done nothing wrong. I had anouther ...

I don't want to hurt either one of them... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

24 January 2010 (F) - okay prepare yourself, it's a long story... well, last summer I got my friend's older sister's boyfriend's messenger address, I got to know him really well and ended up going out with this guy myself, but this guy is 2 years older than me wh...

He is taking his friends advise not to get back with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5445 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - He goes with me at school. We hang out together and my friend told me he talked with her and told her that he STILL loves me after i broke up with him twice and the truth is i still love him to. She told him to talk to me but he still has'nt ...

I met an old beau online, we wined and dined and then his wife phoned me ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - I was on an online dating site. I decided to delete my account because I wasn't happy with th contacts I was getting. Anyway, I had one wink and when I decided to respond, it was from a guy who I had been in love with when I was 18. He came to see ...

I think my husband's best friend is attracted to me...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5444 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - First of all I got married 2 years ago, and I love my husband to death. I am 23 yrs old. I believe my husband´s best friend is attracted to me, or he´s just trying to play some kind of a game thinking that I will fall for it. He is 30, married a...

My bf's friend is jealous. How can I not come between them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5416 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Right im in a relationship, and have known the guy for over a year so i know all his friends, in particular his closest friend. But this friend at first wasnt too sure about me and has gradually warmed up, but i found out that he gets jealous of me ...

My b/f says he doesn't know what he feels for me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend says he doesn't know what he feels for me and needs to see me to help him decide. I went overseas and he had to move back to his hometown cos he lost his job. We had discussed we could manage a long distance relationship cos...

I rejected him twice but now he has a g/f I think I want him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5440 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - Okay I know it sounds weird, but I have no other option. I like a guy that I have rejected about 2 times because I was scared to be in a relationship. I wanted to be, but i couldn't face it. He's told me he loves me, but I was to scared to adimt...

In love with my manager but he has moved in with girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5446 days ago

23 January 2010 (F) - So I love this boy and he was my manager. He is 25 and I am 24. Two years ago, he started working at the theatre since he replaced our previous manager that just got fired. In the beginning, we didnt really talk, the only time we even spoke was a ...

I want my married lover to leave her husband for me

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - I am having an affair with a married woman. If you are reading and feel the need to tell me to stop or find someone who is not married, you can keep your comments to yourself because I don't care. We are both crazy in love for one another. She ...

My Wife's Boss wants an affair with her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4296 days ago

23 January 2010 (M) - My wife attended her work Christmas party and her boss said he wanted to have an affair with her and other comments, such as her body it so hot he want to Fuc* her etc. I was furious and confronted her boss. He said it was all in kidding....

A love triangle...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - i just got over a guy I liked for two years, and found i liked a new guy who likes me back, i went on a group date with him as friends and we were planing another when my best friend told me she liked him too. This was of course after I agreed to a ...

Help! Did I make the right decision...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Today i broke up with my long boyfriend called Sean who lives in ireland and who is the same age as me and i got asked out by a boy that goes to my school and he is called Fraser. Fraser was one of my ex boyfriends in the past and broke my heart a ...

I just want to experience being in a relationship and being loved...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5447 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Hey i need some advice Every time someone fancies me i go off of them and also when i go out with someone it is the same. i just cant seem to become attracted to a person. ARGH someone please help i have been single for ages and i seem to be happi...

Wife hints at a threesome, should I surprise her one day or keep it as a fantasy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5420 days ago

22 January 2010 (M) - I have always been turned on with the idea of a MMF threesome with my wife. Not Bisexual in anyway, just for her. The other day we had a couple drinks and we started fooling around, the topic came up and she told me the type of guy she would wa...

Am I just fantasizing about other people due to boredom in this relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - Ive been in a relationship for 13 months and it has been quite turbulent to put it politely. The guy im with i have been friends with for 4 years before we got together. I have recently stopped smoking cannabis after years of smoking it and i am ...

How do I choose between two men?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5445 days ago

22 January 2010 (F) - I feel like my whole life depends on the decision I need to make and yet I'm completely unable to actually make it..... I'm 23 yrs old. I have a 2 yr old daughter. My boyfriend and I have been together since we were 16 except for about 8 months a...