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26-29,
anonymous
writes:okay prepare yourself, it's a long story... well, last summer I got my friend's older sister's boyfriend's messenger address, I got to know him really well and ended up going out with this guy myself, but this guy is 2 years older than me which makes a big difference in secondary school, Everybody called him things like a 'cradle snatcher' and a 'paedo' and it got really hard for us to be together without getting dirty looks from people, he broke up with me because he apparently had a lot to deal with at home back then ): , I was so upset, I really really really liked him, 4 hours later he told me he was being stupid and asked me back out again and said he would understand if i said no, But I hated what it was like at school and panicked and said no 'for now' because our relationship was much better before we even started going out, because it was mainly flirting because we both knew we liked each other, the thing is, I shouldn't have said 'for now' because he's waiting for me to ask him out again, I can tell, but i'm too shy to ask him out, we're so in love with eachother now and i dont want it to get ruined again ): and lately im starting to fall for this other guy who, last week, told me he was in love with me, I dont want to hurt either one of them, and I dont know what to do about the first guy, help me please! ): xxx
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reader, girl from bristol +, writes (24 January 2010):
hi i think you should just ask the first guy to be your boyfriend again i am pleased you have found a nice guy
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