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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I kissed a co-worked. Feeling guilty and don't know what to do.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I am completly to blame for what I've done but I need advice. About 2 months ago a new guy started working in my office. We hit it off straightaway and flirted, it was harmless and I have a boyfriend and he has a girl friend. We we...

Wife wanted voyeurism, ended up being a threesome...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Ok, I let my wife open a can of worms and now I regret. My wife said she didn't want a threesome, BUT she was interested in a bit of voyeurism. She said she wanted to have sex with me in front of someone. I finally agreed, not too eager ab...

Two lovers, One Broken heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - ok so this is how it is. im lost between two men that i am deeply in love with. the first guy i met 4 years ago we dated and do to uncontrolable stuff we broke up and decided to stay friends, and until a couple days ago we were just friends who ...

My husband is infatuated with his half sister!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I have a dilemma, my h is from a broken home and spent part of his life in children's homes, so he has issues from his past. His father recently passed away and that brought the estanged family back together for the one day, he met up again with his ...

Should I try talking to him about his texts to this other woman or just leave it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Okay so, I have already asked readers of this site two questions on this topic. I want to give a brief prologue, about two months ago my bf started getting texts from another woman. When he realized I noticed it he told me that she is a friend in ...

My friend is planning on breaking up with her and I am besotted with her! Should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - ok, so I'm a bit confused romantically right now, I'm currently single, but my best friend has been dating this girl for a few weeks now. I find her completely beautiful both physically and mentally. He however does not feel the same way about her ...

Can I trust this man to take photos of my girlfriend and her friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5311 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - First of all I should start by saying that I have trust issues to begin with that I'm not proud of, but they're hard to get rid of. Basically the story is this, my girlfriend told me she was bisexual and we decided that it would be a nice way to ...

I can't move past the fact he slept with someone else while we were not together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I posted a question about my issue here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/cant-let-go-of-a-past-one-night.html I have discovered something else now and I'm hoping some of you can help me For those of you who don't want to read t...

Does he love me and is this girl more than just a good listener?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi,Im 17 this year and my bf is 19 this year. we had been together for 3 years plus going to 4 years. For the past 3 years,I think I've treated him badly, Im always nagging and angry him over a small thing. We breakup many times but ended up tog...

Where and how can I fit in to this womans life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I am currently in an on/off relationship with a girl who is a single mum. While I care for this woman and enjoy her company I'm scared of commiting as I can't see things working out long term. Her little boy is a really good kid and I don't see any ...

Friendship, love... I'm getting confused here!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Hi everyone. I have asked for help previously and got some pretty good advice so I thought I'd try again. I think I made a terrible mistake last night and want to know what I can do to fix it. I have recently broken up with my boyfriend an...

Does he love me if he feels the need to cheat?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I were dating for 4 years, until about 2 months ago. We broke up due to mutual decisions, which we both realise now are trivial compared to how much we love each other and want to be together. While we were broken up, I slept with ...

What do I do if another guy is flirting with my girlfriend and wants to get with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I'm 14 almost 15. I'm a freshman and this guy keeps flirting with my girlfriend. We have been together for a while now and my girlfriend says she loves me. I truly love her too. My girlfriend is the shy type. She doesn't want to be mean or n e ...

I thought I understood women but I guess not.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

27 April 2010 (M) - 6 1/2 years ago, I met, fell in love with and married the woman I know I will always love. I’m a man in my early 40's, professional and for both of us, it was our first marriage. After a couple of years just being together, we decided to start a ...

My current boyfriend makes me happy but I still long for my ex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Right I'm confused. I'm in love with my ex (let's call him X), I miss him so much. But I didn't realise this until recently. He broke up with me about a year ago. This upset me a lot. Since him I've dated 3 guys. Two of those relationships...

I like them both but which one do I choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5312 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - i have a boyfriend who on the scale of 1-10 i like him 8. but i like this other boy loads and on a scale of 1-10 i like 9. i thought i loved my boyfriend, but he really really shy and im getting really bored of it, we have snogged once but he hasnt ...

He's a colleague to my ex but I do not want to lose him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5313 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - well i have dated a guy for about eight months and a half,then we broke up, the relationship was so amazing and fair to the both of us since there was nothing complicated until we broke up over a simple thing..let not take this part of my love life ...

Husband moved out with another woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5310 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - Me and my husband have been together since 2003 and married in 2004. We knew each other as friends for at least a year before. I was the one who initiated everything pretty much but he also wanted the same thing. We were crazy for each other at the ...

Did I open Pandora's box?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

27 April 2010 (F) - I find myself in a bit of a jam. I have been dating my man for some time now. We have had threesomes in the past, however I do not want to do that anymore and I want to be in a committed relationship with him. A.K.A. monogamous. Thing is he knows ...

2 men and I don't know what to do!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - Okay, I honestly dont know where to start.... well lets just jump in I have a 2 month old lil boy with a man i have been with for 3 years but for the past month i have been havin a emotional affair i have not slept with this new man but i have ...

I don't want my sister to date my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

26 April 2010 (F) - I really need advice. My problem: My sister is constantly texting my ex-boyfriend and hanging out with him. People that don't even know them or me have come up and asked me if they are dating. It's really awkward for me. Plus, one of my friend...

He likes this girl and wants me to like her too, but I love him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - I attended a university where i met this guy at a little party and I fell in love immediately. That same night he dropped me home. Then he started comin over regularly. We palyed together laughed told stories about our past together. It was jus fun. ...

She, me and him--I don't want to be in a relationship with 3 players!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5315 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Hands down, my biggest problem with my boyfriend over the past 4 years has been his ex-girlfriend. I want to tell him that I am not comfortable with him maintaining a friendship with her, but I also do not want to control who he can and cannot be ...

I think my ex still loves me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - my ex and i have been divorced for 2 years, he is in another relationship and very unsettled, we have an intimate relationship that he "hides" from this woman, we still love each other, am i wasting my time waiting for him to take me back and ...

I really want to start something with her but scared to make a move just in case she thinks I'm insane or causes trouble with her boyfriend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - hello, i have a major problem; having left main school 2 years ago obviously there are some people that i have not seen for a while. randomly the other day my old friend asked me if i was up for going round to her house to keep her company, so obvio...

There are 3 guys in my life and I love them all! Who do I pick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - 2 people; my boyfriend and S (i hate him but at the same time i love him). i love my boyfriend but i also love S. S told me that he loves me but doesnt want to love me. my boyfriend says that he loves me but he doesnt show it at all, he is very ...

Is she cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

25 April 2010 (M) - i recently found out that my girlfriend dont want me to read her smses nor listen when she talks on her cellphone.when i asked her about it she said its a dude that wants her.they stay in the same town while im at university,should i dump her?...

I think I am in love with my best friend's boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5225 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - i am in love with my gay best friends boyfriend lets call him jake (not his real name) me and jake had become really close and the other day i stayed round my bestfriends called alex (not his real name) and while i was round alex's jake was there ...

In a twisted situation......

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5113 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 18 months 16 days and for a period of time,recently,i felt indifferent towards him and wasn't calling him like i did before. Before all this, i had developed a lot of affection and like for a guy who ...

Is it rude for two people to have sex while you're in the room?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5314 days ago

25 April 2010 (F) - Does anybody else think it rude for two friends to have sex whilst your in the room! It made me uncomfortable, but, I perhaps I'm taking life too seriously or something. How would other people react? Btw it was a group if us sleeping at a mate...

Boyfriend is in prison but have fallen for someone else! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - okay I've been with this guy for a year and a half and he is in prison and I met this other guy about four days ago. The guy that's in prison is ten years younger then me and he has been in there for over a year I have deep feelings for him but he ...

My crush has a crush on my friend...any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5316 days ago

24 April 2010 (F) - I have a crush on this guy, but he has a crush on my friend. And he admits it. But he's flirty with me too. I'm not sure... I did get out of a relationship about a month ago... BUT! I really like this guy. His personality meshes with mine so ...

Confused and hurt with a holiday on the way!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

24 April 2010 (M) - Hey everyone, My girlfriend and i have been together for over 2 and a half years and its basically both of our's first proper relationship... We had booked a holiday around 3 months ago and fully paid it off together for our first holiday together...

His mother hates me and controls him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5316 days ago

23 April 2010 (F) - I am almost 22, and have been with my boyfriend, my third 'long term' relationship, for about two and a half years. We have an amazing relationship when it is just us, he got around a bit before me, but I was the one he chose to settle with. We ...

In love with my friends mom but getting mixed signals!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

23 April 2010 (M) - Hi Im 32 Ok what started out as a crush , over the last few years I developed feelings for my friends mom 53 at first it was innocent . I once left my cell with her because we cant talk in private because her husband found out I slept with one of ...

Should I comfort him in his time of need or wait to see if his girlfriend wants out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5317 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - ok so there's this guy me and him went out a couple months back and we recently started back talking . I believe that my feelings for him are coming back and I want to go back out but the problem is he has a girlfriend.he already knows I still like ...

Should I even try to save my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - Hello everybody, I need some advice so i turn to you. I am in a relationship with a good person for 2 and a half years. We've had our ups and downs, as everybody i guess, but every time we managed to get through it. I am 20 he is 21 and we've li...

My boyfriend is jealous and doesn't respect me, but I want to try.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5319 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - I am undoubtedly a hopeless romantic. I'm kind of traditional in the sense that I want my man to court me and not the other way around as it happens to be so popular these days. I do like to be my own person; be an individual and not a clone. So h...

I really like him but... he's got a girlfriend.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

22 April 2010 (F) - So I've been really having a serious crush on this guy.. I have been told that yeah he is flirting with me and seems to be interested in me. There's only one problem he has a girlfriend. I don't know how long they been together or anything. These ...

Should I end our close friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - I’m in love with my male best friend. We’ve known each other for a while and we flirt and have it all. We have tons of inside jokes, and tease each other. We smile at each other all the time. We share everything with one another. I know things a...

Boyfriend cheated on me with my friend, can I trust him again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5292 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We have been extremely happy together. We hardly have even have gotten into fights. Recently I have noticed that he has been a little more distracted. Our friend did move in with us a month or so ...

Damsel in distress is threatening my relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

21 April 2010 (F) - I recently published a question on here about a woman texting my boyfriend everyday that I was with him. We finally had a real talk about it last night and he opened up more and told me why he texted her. She told him she was suicidal, she also, ...

She's curious about a girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5320 days ago

21 April 2010 (M) - recently i have noticed a string of changes between me and my girlfriend. on sunday evening, she opened up and told me while she is in love with me, there is another person who she shares feelings for. i am male, the other person is female. s...

Does this mean our relationship has run its course???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

20 April 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my partner for 4 years, it hasn't been the easiest ride ever and has had it's abusive moments but not present anymore. we have 2 children together but there is a big question mark over the relatonship, on my part ...

My Girlfriend knows I'm crushing on another girl....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

19 April 2010 (M) - I told my girlfriend that I have a crush on another girl. That other girl is also a very good friend of mine. She is also the girlfriend of one of another good friend of mine. Now I don't like this girl, my girlfriend knows that. it's just a crush ...

Why do they always find someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5322 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - hi, im fed up of being along its really making feel down, all i want is a boyfriend but every boy i get close to having a realtionship with either finds someone else or gets back with there ex girlfriend this has happened to me 4 times now in the ...

Classic love triangle

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5322 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - So, I've been in a relationship with a man I love very much for about a year now, and we have plans to get married. Whenn my best friend had one of her exes around, who she was about to start dating again, we started talking a lot, mostly about my ...

His mom is sufficating us, how do I make her disappear?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5323 days ago

18 April 2010 (F) - I am currently living with roommates and one of them is my best friend. Whenever him and I want to spend some alone time together, his mom throws tantrums and calls him and I very nasty names. My friend has tried to spend some alone time with his ...

He won't let go of his separated wife for me.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5320 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - Hi, i am a 41 year old woman, i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and it has been a very up and down relationship, he has always been a very angry man and i have found it very hard with him, we have a 2 year old child together of which he ...

What should I do, continue or break it off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

17 April 2010 (F) - dear cupid, Recently i have broken up with my partner of 22 years and have been contacting my ex-lover who which we broke up over 25 years ago we have now decided we want to get back together agian because we still love each other a lot. the only...