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36-40,
*weetie1
writes:I attended a university where i met this guy at a little party and I fell in love immediately. That same night he dropped me home. Then he started comin over regularly. We palyed together laughed told stories about our past together. It was jus fun. We went out all the time. During the semester he text me one day and told me we were getting to close but he still never stopped coming. Over the christmas holidays we talked all the time and he told me we will see how things go next semester. THis semester now he came back from anguilla and told he is going to be home alot and wants to do things proper. In february on his birthday he me this gyul and jus started telling me how he likes this gyul, I got jealous cause I am in love with him and he cant see. He spends all his time with her and hardly comes over again. He calls me from his phone and spend hours on it with me when the gyul is there. Now mi emotions have gotten in the way and i Love him very much. But he also like the gyul and wants me to like her also. He always tells everyone that he really like me and am jus like one of the boys on the block. Everytime he is around i keep telln him bout the gyul and i always ignore her we she says hi to me. He says he cant take mi behaviour anymore and he has had it. I think now i have loss him for good
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (26 April 2010):
 Unfortunately he sees you as a friend only and you see him as a lover. If you can't reconcile this in your mind it probably will end up going sour. I once had a friendhship like that only I was the one who wanted to be friends and he wanted something more. We ended up falling out because it got too uncomfortable but we are friends again now.
It's a really hard situation for you and I think the best way for you to deal with it is to minimise the contact you ahve with him and start hanging out with other people as much as you can.
Good luck to you let us know how you are getting on.
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reader, jhawk2817  +, writes (26 April 2010):
mi? gyul? where are you from lol
Well its called the friends zone and welcome to the club.
Now that im 20, i tell all the girls im interested in that 'hey, i like u and i dont want to do this whole friendship thing, when we can get together and give this a shot; so if u dont think u can take a chance here with me, just let me know and it'll be whatever'.
I rather not have her as a friend that suffer watching her with another man in front of me being just friends. Hope I could help.
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