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writes:2 people; my boyfriend and S (i hate him but at the same time i love him). i love my boyfriend but i also love S. S told me that he loves me but doesnt want to love me. my boyfriend says that he loves me but he doesnt show it at all, he is very quiet and is very shy. S wanted me and my boyfriend to snog and wouldnt tell me why until we had, he explained it like this: "you see i caught i wasp in a tissue and killed it but before i killed it, it stung me, i know i won't do that again because i know what it feels like, and so thats why i wanted you and your boyfriend to snog, because if i feel the pain then i won't want to love you any more because the pain will hurt that much that i can't bear it, just like the wasp basically you are the sting, it wont go away until you calm down and leave it alone", he has left me before, because he said that the pain was too much, i went a week without him and i cried myself to sleep every night.My love for him is unconditional, but the thing is that i couldnt go out with him because i am scared that if things dont turn out good then our friendship would be effected. Now onto my boyfriend, i sorta love him a bit, but i feel that at the moment i cant let him go, its really frustrating. Oh yeah there is one last person, N, he is an ex of mine, i like him again, and he told me that he likes me, he said that he doesnt want to get in the way of me and my boyfriend, he said that he will wait, he is the most popular boy in my year, i really do like him and its really annoying.who do i pick? what do i do?
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reader, Starlite2k10  +, writes (25 April 2010):
CaringGuy couldn't have put it any better.
You don't love any of them.
If you did love one of them, it wouldn't be a question of who you would pick, it would be a question of "how do I let the other two down as gently as possible?"
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 April 2010):
You don't really love any of them. The heart only has room for one. You have three, which mean none are right for you. Quit dating for now, end things with all three and spend time focusing on yourself and work out what you want from your own life. None are right for you at all.
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