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Is it rude for two people to have sex while you're in the room?

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Question - (25 April 2010) 11 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *olaroid93 writes:

Does anybody else think it rude for two friends to have sex whilst your in the room! It made me uncomfortable, but, I perhaps I'm taking life too seriously or something.

How would other people react?

Btw it was a group if us sleeping at a mates flat and there were three of us in the room, they knew I wasnt asleep, and they weren't drunk etc

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2010):

Saying those people are rude is a major understatement. I would have stormed out and never spoken to them again. Who needs perverts as friends?

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (25 April 2010):

Not My Name agony auntHmmm, at the age of the poster, I had been in many a room with other people having sex. That said, it was usually a party scene, eveyone half drunk, lights out, and they would try to be quiet and sneaky about it, not just going for it like a couple of horn dogs. Some had even done it and I did not find out till later they were that sneaky. That did not bother me.

Then again, been to some parties where I have seen people openly having sex, or guys lining up in the yard for BJ's off the local drunken slut, and that I would think rather disgusting, (more the multiple line up than anything)but it hardly ruined my night or anything.

Guess it depends on the circumstances and how they went about it if I would care, ...but it is well within anyone elses rights to give a shit and be peeved. If yout think someone is doing that , or just know they are, and it bothers you, then leave the room, ... probably making a comment on the way just to put em in their place. :-)

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A male reader, Myau New Zealand +, writes (25 April 2010):

Myau agony auntA further thought, if you do stay there again, bring a cam corder. That way you can make some money

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

Why didn't you take pictures of the event to gauge whether they consider that rude? If they did not like it you could have retorted in the same way.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

I agree, they were rude and should have at least discussed it with you prior to jumping each other. Offering to let you leave (i.e. asking you if you minded giving them some room) or asking if you minded if they did it with you in the room.

Offering to let you join is a bit much if they're about to go at it- those kind of discussions should be had well before the play starts.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (25 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntBoth of them are exhibitionist.It is very rude and indecent .

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A female reader, SugarCookie United States +, writes (25 April 2010):

I find it repulsive. I would be pissed and I would have given them a piece of my mind. They could have gone outside or just waited until another night. I am 20 and I have never done it with someone else in the room and I have never been in the room while someone else did it. Its disrespectful and immature. Your feelings are normal!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010):

Wrong on all accounts! I would have run as far away from the place as possible. Gosh, that's awful having to watch that...

If I were you, I wouldn't be staying with them again unless you want to watch a night of steaminess in the love shack...

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (25 April 2010):

person12345 agony auntNot only is it rude, it's disgusting and shows a pretty severe lack of boundaries on their part.

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A male reader, Myau New Zealand +, writes (25 April 2010):

Myau agony auntIt is odd. A couple of friends of myne used to dry hump alot in front of me but I just thought that was funny as they looked so rediculous.

I wonder if you should have raised a score card lol...5 or 6 out of 10?

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A male reader, Rasher United Kingdom +, writes (25 April 2010):

Sounds pretty rude to me. If everyone was drunk it would be ok-ish but if everyone was sober it does seem very strange.

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