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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

I am in love with my best mates girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6204 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Hekp me. I am in love with my best mates girlfriend but they have only been going out 2 weeks. She is a great person and i really fancy her. But this is my best mate who is a great guy and deserves her. I haven't told them. What do i do, what do i ...

I'm getting married next week, do I tell my fiance I have slept with his best friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - me and my fiance are getting married next week but i have slept with his best friend, what do i do, ruin there friendship and my wedding or stay quiet...

The ex bf or the new guy? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I have an enormous dilemma! Here's the background: I have been with the same guy on and off for just over 2 and a half years. For a long time I have wanted nothing but to be married to him and build a family together. After 11 months of dating he ...

He keeps asking about threesomes. I've had them and they're not a good idea at all! Should I be worried?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Okay i have been with my boyfriend for four years. And yes our relationship is somewhat good. But a few days ago all my bf did was ask about a threesome. I have had them in the past and they are not the greatest idea at all. he kept on begging me ...

It kills me that I might lose her to another guy..how do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I was dating a girl for 3 years, from my sophomore to senior year in highschool. She was my first "real" girlfriend, and i was her frist everything pretty much. There were a lot of times through our relationship that I didn't feel like it was ...

A colleague fancies me, but he knows I love my partner with all my heart, so as a result, he wants to quit his job! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i am 24 and in a happy relationship with my partner to with im engaged to i work at asda and i have friend called mike we are good mate and have been there for each other at our time of need but resantly i have resived text messages frome him sayin ...

2 years together. I had to go to New Zealand for a while, and she cheated. Now she's really mean towards me. Do we have a chance at all??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6246 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Hi My now ex and me had been dating for 2 years and known each other for 7 years (since she was 14). She was always really into me and talked about marriage and kids and how much she loved me and couldnt be with anyone else. She has had a few b/...

He didn't explain what was going on.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 21, female and I met a guy a few months ago at work. I asked him to go out and we went out a few times. We went for drinks at the bar. But he always waited for me to ask him to do things. After a while he seemed more interested and started ...

She's 19, married, and wants to give her husband a 2nd chance.. But I want her to be mine

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

28 September 2007 (M) - Ever have this feeling, if so what'd you do? met a girl, she's everything i'd ever want... our chemistry is amazing, like we were meant for each other... we make each other happy... but she's 19, no kids, married and is gonna give him anot...

I think my bf has been hanging out with my ex! It's weird, b/c when I introduced them they didn't get along! This is so odd! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Last week a friend of mine told me that my boyfriend has been spending time with my ex-b/f. I asked her if it was true, and she said, yes, she'd seen it several times during the week. I've only introduced my boyfriend to him once, and they ...

I met this guy who had not long come out of a serious relationship. We got on quite well, but now he's ignoring me!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6255 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Guys feel free to give me your opinion..please! I met this guy who had not long come out of a serious relationship, we really liked eachother and met up a few times. He text me all the time, called late at night, always wanted to hug me/ see me and ...

In a new relationship, but still horribly in love with my ex-boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6153 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - I really love my Ex boyfreind and i'v tried everything to move on, i'm in a relationship right now and my boyfriend knows how i feel about my ex. I think about my ex all the time and everything reminds me off him, i cant seem to get over him and ...

Her ex who cheated on her twice is back on stage and just proposed her! My gf is now very confused, what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - I've been dating a women for a month and things were going great until her ex started pursuing her. A bit of background on me. After marryting at a very young age, I was divorced 2 yrs ago. No children. I have dated many women since then and ...

She said she can't continue the affair though but values my friendship, I can't seem to let her go though!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - I love her but she's married...After close to a year she's told me that she can't continue and she can't give me what I want but she values my friendship more than anything. I dunno why but I can't seem to let her go. What do I do? Am I wrong for ...

Am I wrong to ask her to cut all contact with her ex? Did we get together too soon?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

27 September 2007 (M) - Hi, Im after a nuetrals point of view on my dilemma so i thought i would ask you.Ive been going out with a girl for about 4 months now shes 22 im 28 just before i got with her she was still in a 2 year relationship but going through breaking...

We've broken up and gotten back together so many times, I don't know if he will really stop his sideline tricks!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6254 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Hi I apologize for this question being so long in advance.I met my bf last year septemeber,he got my number and called me,at this time he had a gf which i knew about. She lived in another town, so he only saw her on Sarutday nights.We rarely...

It's been a year, I still love him, but now he's with my so-called friend. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Ok so i went out with this one boy for about year and we deeply fell for each other i loved him alot and he "said" he loved me in which i belived so after a while of getting to know each other very well he decided the relationship was getting old so ...

Do I try to make my relationship work? I can't stop thinking about this other guy but is that because of the thrill of it that I enjoyed it all so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years and over the last year or so things have been becoming very strained. Our sex life is non-existant - due to an unwanted pregnancy which we chose not to go ahead with and since then I have become ...

Does he want me, the new girl, or the rebound? How do you know when someone is genuine?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - Hello, I need advice. I am still in love with my ex, and I know this, I tried to deny this but it's true. I think of him every minute of the day, and have for the past few years. We are on again off again...And He says he really loves me, but I ...

He's been texting another woman b/c he's depressed. He said they've never met, but I feel cheated! Help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I recently found text messages on my hubbies phone from some one called D, they were signed with a x. I confronted him and he admitted it was from another woman. He is being treated for bad depression and said he only did it to feel good. He sai...

He turned 40, became obsessed with going to the gym then left me for another woman!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - i was with my partner of 15 years,for ten years of the relationship we spent most of our time together and went everywhere together.then when he hit 40 he changed and started looking in the mirror all the time going to the gym and it all became a ...

I think my wife wants to try saving the marriage but her friend is pushing her back to the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - my and my wife were trying to save our marrige so she left her bf for me, a week later she back with him after i walked in on them. she will not talk to me about it 5 days later, all she has said is that she loves me but not in the way i want as ...

Am I just relishing the attention or am I seeing 'Stuart' as a replacement for what I could have had with 'Michael'... ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - Total dilemma. I've known this guy 'Michael' for about five years. We've been to uni together and become really good mates. We have the same sense of humour, like the same bands, he is without a doubt my best male friend. Both his mates and mine ...

She says the emails to another man aren't actually from her! Do you think she's cheating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

24 September 2007 (M) - Recently me and my girlfriend have been arguing alot, we've been together for a few years and have always gotten along just fine. I've always trusted her 100%, and we shared everything; Myspace, cell phone, car, email, everything. We had access to ...

How will I know when I'm in love? And I feel like the guy I just met is my bf and my bf is my bestfriend, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6259 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - dont quite know how to put this down... i started university last week. i met these really nice guys n from the min i saw this one i was sort of drawn to him. hes not good looking or anything. we went out a couple of times and i feel like ive known ...

He's seeing a girl who lives over in South Africa... But I don't want him to go because I like him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - i am in love with a guy who is in a realtionship with a girl in south africa! the thing is we have been seeing each other for the past few months and now he is going to see her in october and i dont want him to go! he says he has deep feelings for ...

My husband had an affair and we got through it but he still has pictures of her. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6258 days ago

24 September 2007 (F) - I would like your opinion. I have been with my husband almost 7 years, married 3. We love each other very much I know. But the first year of our marriage he became involved with his employee. He also admitted to me he was 'obsessed'. I don't know ...

My ex is still in love with me and I feel sympathy for another boy who also asked me for a date. How do I know if I love the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

22 September 2007 (F) - I once dated this one guy for a while, then broke up. He is still in love with me though, and asked me out again. I feel sympathy for another person who asked me on a date as well. It is all so confusing! How do I know if I love my ex-boyfriend? ...

What do people think about dogging?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 6073 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - ok how does people think about dogging my husband of 20 yrs wants us to go he thinks it might spice up our sex life his fantasy is to see me with other men. sound weird my fantasy is to see him with another women. trouble is he has recently been ...

He said hes begining to like me but he has a wife and child. What am I going to do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I like this guy and he said he's beginning to like me too..but the problem is he has a wife and a child..what am i going to do?..should i believe him?...

Do I give my boyfriend up for the guy I lost my virginity to?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - Im confused!! I have a boyfriend and STILL In love with thee guyy I lost it to! Ive been going out with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and everything was perfect THen I saw him[[myy loveer not my boyfriend]] I mean we are in the same click an...

I'm paranoid about his ex and now he isn't replying to my txt asking for us to talk! Can anyone help me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - hi. i wrote in yesterday about the contact between my bf and his ex, and how i went through his phone. i decided to ask him straight out about his feelings for her.he told me that he speaks to her on the odd occasion as he is grateful to her as she ...

His ex wants him back and is using emotional blackmail. He's confused. What can we do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I recently got involved with a guy I met a while ago, after swearing that I will never fall for another guy after my last break up 6 months ago. He has also been single for 6 months and also has a son out of the previous relationship. It was no ...

My boyfriend keeps me a secret - I think he's ashamed of me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together for 7 months, he still wants us to remain secret while he tells his parents about taking his ex out..when i told him i don't like him telling about his ex and keeping us secret, he told me that, loads of things ...

I love my girlfriend, but I have feelings for someone I consider my soulmate, too!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I have been in a relationship for a year now and I love my girlfriend to death. The only thing thats bothering me is I have began to have feelings for another girl. I feel like she is my true soulmate but I know that I can never have her. As long as ...

He cheated and while we made love and I climaxed, he told me the graphic details! We're sick about it, but it's a turn on! What's up with that?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - my husband of 10 years had sex with our next door neighbour. he had told me he was attracted to her. neither of us could understand why because she really is not at all attractvive in any way. on my birthday he came home and told me they had just...

I'm dating a married man who cheated on me! His wife refuses to divorce him and I don't know what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - What can i do now? I am a 26 year old girl, pretty and independent. My college boyfriend left me when I went abroad for my further degree. I had another boyfriend two years after I came back to the country, but i found he married, he cheated on m...

Should I tell my wife's friend that I love her so I know whether or not to stay w/ my wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6261 days ago

19 September 2007 (M) - I love my wife but I am also in love with her friend. I would give everything i have to be with her friend and don't know whether i should tell her that i have fallen for her. Will she tell my wife, would i be better to tell her to clear my thoug...

He married his ex to "shut us down," now he wants to get back to me. Crazy to consider it, am I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and I got into a huge fight. He got married to his ex girlfriend 2 weeks later to "shut us down". Now (6 weeks later) he says he made a mistake and wants to get back together. Am I crazy for considering it?...

I don't think he cheated, but I'm still insecure b/c of two incidents that occurred w/ him and other women! Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - The long and the short of it is this... I have been with my husband for over 8 years. In the beginning we were both young and immature and both of us did some things that weren't totally "kosher" but nothing serious or abnormal - harmless flirting ...

He said he will move out and I have sold my flat, but he's very aloof about it now (and married.) Do I walk away or give him a chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Hi, I am in love with a married man... and yes I know that this is wrong and I am not here for judgemet I am here for some advice. We have been together a year, he has been married three. No kids. I know he loves me and that he is not h...

Is it normal for a guy not to let go of the last relationship when he's involved in the next one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6265 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupids I have been with this guy for four months now. He is wonderful and very appreciating of me. We are very good friends and the relationship is progressing well. When we started he told me he was dating someone who is 1000 miles away ...

Is my boyfriend over his ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Is my boyfriend over his ex? We've been together over a year, living together for 6 months, but he is still in contact with her through texts, email, and occasionally phone (She lives in another country). Thing that bothers me is he hasn't told her ...

After what she's done, how can I keep us together?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

17 September 2007 (M) - My wife and I have been happily married for almost 2yrs, last week she meet with a male work friend for coffee. When she got home it had turned into a flight, coffee and a movie. I was ok with the coffee, but when it changed to something more, ...

I'm in love with two men! Help me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - I think I am in love with 2 men. I have 3 children by 2 different men. My daughter's father recently came back into our lives physically as he kept contact via telephone. After seeing him again, I think I am still in love with him. The problem is ...

My boyfriend's parents

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6217 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend's parents hate me. I don't know what I did wrong. I ws staying with them for seven weeks in France (where they are from) after we accomodated my boyfriend for two months while he did a work placement here in London. During that stay...

I love her but she dates someone else. Is there anything I can do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

16 September 2007 (M) - i love this girl but she is with someone else.what should i do?...

Do I hold out for this bloke that could make me really happy if he eventually split up with his lass, or leave it now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6247 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - Ive fancied someone from work since i started there 3 years ago, but i new he had a girlfriend, so stayed well clear. about 2 yrs ago he came onto me at an xmas party but i thought he was just drunk and laughed it off, and weve just been our no...

Fantasy or Nightmare?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

16 September 2007 (M) - I care very much for my girlfriend and I trust her. When we go out with friends, she often finds it fun to make out with her girl friends, especially when she has been drinking. Maybe I am crazy because for many people this would be their fantasy ...

He's cheated on me twice and has hi me 3 times... I've found somebody else, but I'm not sure where to go from here

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and hes cheated twice and hit me 3 times. he was genuinlly sorry but everytime i try talk to him about it he ignors me and the only person i feel i can talk to is another boy and now me and him keep sleeping ...