A
female
,
*ixie22495
writes: ive been with my boyfriend for a year now and hes cheated twice and hit me 3 times. he was genuinlly sorry but everytime i try talk to him about it he ignors me and the only person i feel i can talk to is another boy and now me and him keep sleeping with eachother and we really have a great laugh with eachother but when im with my boyfriend hes always grumpy and im always yelling at him. what should i do?
View related questions:
cheated on me Reply to this Question Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, melodaea +, writes (17 September 2007):
NO-ONE deserves to be hit in a relationship. Leave him.
A
reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2007): The words LEAVE HIM are screaming out at me and you cannot see it. Why do you put up with this crap behaviour? You deserve better and should go all out to get it. Life is too short and you shouldnt be made to feel this way. Sit him down and tell him just as it is and make sure you dont get hit this time. Have the chat in a place where there are other people, say a pub, not at home alone, he could hit you and kill you. I was a battered wife and it doesnt get better, only worse.
take care and get away today.
xx
...............................
A
male
reader, somewhat_anonymous +, writes (16 September 2007):
You don't know? It is obvious, leave the cheating abuser. You don't need that. If he had been genuinely sorry, he wouldn't have done it, especially multiple times.
...............................
A
female
reader, penta +, writes (16 September 2007):
leave the boyfriend; what you tolerate becomes your standard and he treats you poorly. Never accept that treatment again.
Make sure that relationship is over before you see your new guy. Even jerks don't deserve to be cheated on.
...............................
|