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writes:dont quite know how to put this down... i started university last week. i met these really nice guys n from the min i saw this one i was sort of drawn to him. hes not good looking or anything. we went out a couple of times and i feel like ive known him all my life. i trust him so much and i only knew him last week.were quite alike and i really look forward to meeting him.i reli shudnt like him, i have a wonderful boyfriend but ive not seen him in a while. we talk on msn but he's not met me for long maybe 3 times in a month? i was abroad for 2 weeks and he was 'sik' for one. but i feel so distant from him now but he stil loves me to pieces.we've been together 2 years. i thought i loved him and everything was fine but now im thinkn that i cant if i like this other guy. and i cant be in love with this other guy either. and i wonder how wil i know when im in love? when will it happen if ever? and id be really afraid to hurt my current boyfriend.i feel like the guy i just met is my bf and my bf is my bestfriend. what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2007): I perceive that you have known your BF since high school. Is he in college with you? Or "back home", or somewhere else?. This is common. While you are in college, you will meet many, many new people to whom you will be attracted . Take your time. It takes a long time to know if you are "in love". Love involves much more than attraction. Old words, but always true. You have a long school career ahead of you. Keep your options open. And concentrate mostly on your studies. That is what you are primarily there for. Be careful of making "commitment" statements. You will probably wind up eventually hurting someone or being hurt.
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