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Archived questions from: May, 2006 (see latest in Three is a crowd category)

Three is a crowd: Help and advice

There's more than meets the eye with my guy's female friend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - I wrote before about this girl moving next door that works w/my guy. Well, I did what he asked and tried to talk to her to get to know her but she was very short: yes or no! She answered my questions with no responding question. It was a one side...

Please help, My flirting is out of control !!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6740 days ago

31 May 2006 (F) - i have a problem, im way to big of a flirt.....and im afraid its makeing my bf jelous! when ever i talk to any guy, i tend to flirt...not on purpous....i just do, and my friends notis it all the time, but i really dont.....though,...

I love her but, I think she might be staying with me just so I don't get hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5787 days ago

31 May 2006 (M) - Hi, I have been seeing my gf for over 4 months now and I am totally in love with her. She says she is totally in love with me and that I’m everything to her. However I sometimes feel that she doesn’t treat me as well as I treat her. I feel tha...

I had a booty call, I got a new booty-call... Now I have a boyfriend but booty #2 tells me he loves me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Hi,I had a booty call(Mike) for the past 2 years.I met his friend at a party and his friend(Todd) started coming on to me,i wasnt really interested but he calls me 2 days later.My bootycall(mike) gave him my number,Todd offered me a part time job ...

My friend went through the 'Mummy Test' and I might have overreacted

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6727 days ago

30 May 2006 (M) - Fellow agony aunts, I have a friend who has been seeing a guy for about a month. Her guy wants a wife and kids - he is at the stage of life where these things should have happened by now. My friend is a few months away from starting her doctorate ...

In love with my ex again but I also love my boyfriend, help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6742 days ago

30 May 2006 (F) - Help me Please... My ex left me because one girl says he is pregnant with him, at that time my ex left me with out any explanation,leaving me nowhere to go, i knew it from our friend and iwas really hurt.... then after 6 months i got my new ...

I really like this girl but she's taken...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6493 days ago

29 May 2006 (M) - Hi I really really like this chick, but shes got a bf that shes quite close to. And to make matters worse she's best friends with my sister. I already told her once how I felt and she told me she thought I was cool to talk to and stuff but she ha...

I'm in a relationship, but my ex wants me back, too!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6741 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - Please help me. I'm in a present relationship now at almost about 4 years. My ex-bf wants to win me back and I love him too. What shall I do? I love them both......

Internet guy Im dating is in a relationship with someone else with a daughter, any advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - i need some advice.i am in a long distance relationship with this guy who i met over the internet.we have been together for six months now and have known each other as friends for a year all together.but just a few days ago he tells me that he has ...

He is sabotaging everything

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

29 May 2006 (F) - so theres this new guy on the scene met him about 3 wks ago now and im really happy with how things are going so far. But y'day morning i chatted to my ex online and he turns round and says oh he's just using you for sex, i rang him but he said that...

Could he snatch my babies if they have his last name?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6729 days ago

28 May 2006 (F) - Hi there, I have a new problem. Im due to hace twins next week. The babies' dad and I split up when I first became pregnant and he has someone new now. I decided I would bring them up myself, I am a mature woman with a good income and these are my ...

Three in a bed, but I don't want to!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6744 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I'm 26, my boyfriend is 29, and he wants us to have a threesome with me and another man. I told him no, and said it would cause harm to our relationship, but he still wants it to happen. I asked him why he wants to do this - and he refused to s...

Left my wife after 17 years, she made me feel guilty so i moved back in but now my new girl is hurting!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

26 May 2006 (M) - I am a 58 year old man. Been married 3 times. The current marriage has lasted 17 years. About 4 years ago I met a woman online who turned out to be the woman I have always wanted to be with. We are truly soul mates. However, when I asked my wife for ...

Great boyfriend that I love, but I also want to throw myself at a hunky guy at work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6746 days ago

26 May 2006 (F) - I have a boyfriend that I love very much. We have a great relationship but I crave passion and spontanity. I have a huge problem!!! I have a major crush on a real hunky, mechanic co-worker. I am the receptionist at an auto shop and whenever I s...

I hate leading this double-life but really dont know what to do!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6745 days ago

24 May 2006 (M) - I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend of 5years and have a beautiful daughter aged 3. I'm 22 she is 22. The problem is that our relationship is gone stale.i find it hard to be affectionate to her eg.kissing cuddling up playing with her hair ect...

I have a crush on my best friend but he already has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6742 days ago

24 May 2006 (F) - I have a crush on my best friend. We just started becoming close and we both like eachother- its obvious. He does subtle things to be around me and never passes up an oppertunity to touch me in someway (innocent, of course!). We are always ...

Is my girlfriend of 5 years cheating or just friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6748 days ago

23 May 2006 (M) - I am currently in a relationship with woman for last 5 years and don't know which way I am heading. In the past she use to go on online chatting and than she came off it. Recently she told me that she came across her college days friend who she use ...

Engaged to someone, but still in love with my ex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6748 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I broke up with my ex 3 and a half years ago, and I'm now engaged to another man who I have been with for nearly 3 years, but I cant stop thinking about my ex. He broke it off with me and now he keeps telling me he misses me and still loves me, and ...

Now my guy is riding to work with the Other Woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6747 days ago

23 May 2006 (F) - I wrote before about the other woman moving her mother in next door. Well, her and mom moved in this weekend while I was at work. Since her and my guy work together, they're also riding together now to save gas. I'm trying hard to be understa...

She made his life but still the jealously and fear wont go away!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6749 days ago

22 May 2006 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months, he broke up with his ex at the beginning of the year and they have a daughter together. She moved up north with the little girl and he goes up and sees her about twice a week. When we first starting dating ...

My friend's girlfriend would be better off with me! She knows it, but still sticks with him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6750 days ago

21 May 2006 (M) - I have fallen for my friend’s girlfriend. The trouble is that they have been together for 9 months and in that time I know he has cheated on her at least three or four times. He’s just one of those guys. We have been getting quite close over the...

Still in love with the "guy I couldn't have". Should I pursue it or stay with my current BF?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6750 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - A few months ago I met a new guy from work who had moved here from London. We got on well but he had a girlfriend. We went out a few times as friends but we were both really attracted to each other. We talked about how much we liked each other an...

Can't help wondering if he's seeing someone else behind my back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6750 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now and have come to a brick wall. He was seeing another girl behind my back for a few weeks last year, but swore that they didn't do anything. They split up when he realised that she didn't really want him...

I like this guy but he has a girlfriend and he hasn't left her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6750 days ago

21 May 2006 (F) - A few weeks ago I met a guy who I was instantly attracted to.We would flirt all the time. and he told me he was attracted to me. All was going well until i found out he had a girlfriend!!!! We did talk about his girlfriend and he said it wasnt ...

Is our love dead?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6752 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - i've been with my fiance almost 5 years. No relationship is perfect but for 3 years we had as close to perfect as it can get. Yes we had our little arguments and issues over things, but nothing that we didnt come to a compromise on, and neit...

How can I make him dump her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

19 May 2006 (F) - I like a boy,but he already has a girlfriend.How do I get him to dump her and make me his girlfriend?...

She cheated on me, i need advice on how to move on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6752 days ago

19 May 2006 (M) - Hello, I seriously need advice. A quick fix if possible. My girlfriend asked me to marry her last year and I said that I was not ready but I loved her and would propose soon. She then moved out and in with a group of single girls. She limit...

My boyfriend talks to this girl he dated, Is he cheating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - I have a hard time deciding if he was cheating with this girl: He told me from the beginning--he speaks to two girls..One he has known since his pre-teens and never went out with. And another--a girl he went out with--he said it ended mutually a...

She's finally leaving her husband, but there's a friend of hers I'm worried about.....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6754 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been seeing each other for four months now. It's a very complicated situation and I am trying to make sense of it and to be sure that I am on the right path with her. We are both in our 30s and have had some experience ...

Been having affair... can't keep on sharing but don't want to give him up! :( help me please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - ive been having an affair with an attached man for over a year now and i love him and he says he loves me but he wont leave his girlfriend because he has 2 children and he wont walk away from them. he says he loves her too but if he didnt have kids ...

Really like this girl.. How do I ask her out??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6754 days ago

17 May 2006 (M) - this girl shows me pictures of her pet horse and wont let anone else see the pictures. she glances at me at often smiles when she sees me. i get on well with hre friends and they appear to like me. at the end of the school year last year we played ...

I slept with my boyfriend's brother and cant keep my hands off of him!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6186 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - i am 23 and boy friend is24 we have been together for3 yaers he is got a brother who is currently staying with us who i had a chemistry and lkast week after a drink when my boyfriend was a sleep we had sex in my bedroom and now we cant keep our ...

Will people get hurt if I go out with my uni-boyfriend who wants me but "has a girlfriend"... ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6754 days ago

17 May 2006 (F) - Hi, I have already posted a message before about me meeting a guy who i am really attracted to and he is also attracted to me-only problem is he has a girlfriend, but he has mentioned that the only reason he is with her is because they have been ...

Best friend blues, please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6751 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I am in love with my best friend but he is in love with someone else. They are making me as their bridge. It hurts me too much. Should I avoid them?...

I want to be there for my brother's but need advice on how to handle mum and step-dad to be, please help. (long but worth it)

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

16 May 2006 (M) - Sorry that this is long. please read Hi, my names Tim, Im 25. My situation is very very complicated but I will try and explain it the best way I can.Im not sure if Its a relationship problem or what but I need help,Hope someone can unde...

My perfect boy has a girlfriend, he said he will leave her... but what kind of a person is he?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - I have a big problem, a few weeks ago I noticed a very cute boy at the library-looks wise he seems completely perfect for me. I soon realised he was attracted to me because he would always give me a smile when I would walk pass-due to the fact that ...

Should i trust his cheating friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6755 days ago

16 May 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year, but have known each other for some time now. Our relationship is great except for one problem, he is still cool with this girl who he helped cheat on her boyfriend. I am usually an understanding ...

He said he was going to be breaking up with his girlfriend, but now he isn't paying that much attention to me....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

15 May 2006 (F) - A few weeks ago I met a boy at the library. At first we would just give each other a smile but eventually we started to talk-I found out he had a girlfriend and was a little shocked when I did find out because he told me he thought I was really cute ...

How can I make a move on a married man I really like?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6728 days ago

15 May 2006 (F) - Listen guys hey how are you? Well I have another problem I fancy one of the Dads at my daughter's nursery, he is really nice, good looking, friendly and I really like him. And he is funny too. I would like to make the first move on to him the only ...

I'm not in love with my BF? Should i move on to my gym love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

15 May 2006 (M) - Im a gay male and I live with my partner of 3 years. I have only ever been in love once and I know what it feels like, and I know I do not love my current partner like I loved my ex. However at the gym we go there is a guy who works there and I am...

How do I deal with my jealous friend??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6757 days ago

13 May 2006 (F) - I am stuck in the middle of a rut betweet to freinds who av being sleeping wiv eacth over for 3 yrs now and now the othere friend has taken an sexual intrest in me and i really dont no wot 2 do as my other friend is a very jelous person. ...

How can I make this boy choose ME over his girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6569 days ago

13 May 2006 (F) - Hi there's this boy that just moved in my building 3 months ago and he is so cute. We been hanging out and talkin to each other from day one. but i just found out that he has a girlfriend and i really want to be with him. I feel that we have cem...

Am I stoopid to thing the guy I'm sleeping with, the long-term-girlfriend guy, likes me.. ?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6756 days ago

13 May 2006 (F) - I've recently been sleeping with a guy who has a longterm girlfriend. When I met him I knew he had a girlfriend, but, as someone with very low self-esteem, I was totally overwhelmed by his obvious interest in me, and we started having a ...

Third person in a relationship is causing problems... what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6753 days ago

11 May 2006 (F) - there is a girl at my mans work i've never met her but he gave her a ride back and forth to work for 3 or 4 months i never had a problem w/this.she didn't have a car and i loved him for being so kind.now she has a car and calls the house atleast ...

I have feelings towards a guy in a relationship.. stuff has happened and I feel bad.. advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6760 days ago

11 May 2006 (F) - i have been friends with this guy for a few years and we have become very close, no one could understand our relationship as they all thought we were having something on the side. but he has been in a serious relationship with someone for about a ...

We broke up and now there's a new guy on the scene, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6760 days ago

10 May 2006 (M) - Ive recently split from my girlfriend of 2 years. She didnt used to like the fact that I had a couple of pints after work each night. She warned me plenty of times to cut it out and i told her that 2 pints per night is no problem to anyones health ...

I have a boyfriend I love a lot, but the other guy has come back to town...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

10 May 2006 (F) - hi, I am with a boy who i love to bits,he is really nice to me and i have been with him for a while now, we are having a great time but things do get a little bumpy some times of course. But, about a year ago i went out with a lad, we went out...

We have been through so much together, but is it time to let him go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6759 days ago

10 May 2006 (F) - i am going out with this guy for 2 years now. i lost my virginty to him which use to be a big deal to me, i trusted him thats why i did not have a problem in losing it to him. I got pregnant and had to terminate it because i was not ready. i later ...

I want to be with one guy, but I don't want to hurt him because of the other... I need help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6760 days ago

10 May 2006 (F) - there are two guys - one of whom (guy a) has been a kind of "friend with benefits" for a while, the other (guy b) i am totally in love with and we hook up occasionally but nothing ever comes of it. the thing is that everytime im with guy a i gen...

I fancy my girlfriends friend but dont want to hurt feelings!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6761 days ago

10 May 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year and I do love her but things have been very grim recently and i went out with her and her best friend last week. I fancy my girlfriends good friend, and i know she fancies me but I dont know what to do ...