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writes: i have been friends with this guy for a few years and we have become very close, no one could understand our relationship as they all thought we were having something on the side. but he has been in a serious relationship with someone for about a year and a half. i also became very good friends with his girlfriend particularly round the begining of this year. i have developed feelings for this guy and we happened to kiss a few months ago while he and his girlfriend were having troubles. a few days ago he told her and now ive almost lost two friends and i still cant help these feelings i feel for him but i feel like the bad guy in the situation. what should i do??? Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (11 May 2006):
 My friend I am sorry to hear that you have been made out to be the bad person in all this. Last time I checked , it takes 2 to kiss, so the other guy is equally to blame. How is he towards you? I can see why your friend will not like the sight of you right now, she will be hurt and feel very betrayed but my dear, despite your feelings, you cant really act upon them because if you do you will be the "wicked witch" in everyones eyes for messing up your friends relationship. My friend, what you need to do is show your freind how remorseful you are and try your very best to patch things up. As for the guy, leave well alone, for now at least. Good luck and all the best. xXx
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