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writes: I am currently in a relationship with woman for last 5 years and don't know which way I am heading. In the past she use to go on online chatting and than she came off it. Recently she told me that she came across her college days friend who she use to fancy. She spoke very highly for him in her email to me and I also discovered that they have been chatting online. She also told me that his this friend has even named his daughter after her name and he wants to meet her. I don't know whats going on and I just need some advise on how to deal with this matter...I hope she is not cheating on me .....as each time she speaks about him she talks very highly of him although she says that she is just friends with him. Please help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, bonym  +, writes (23 May 2006):
 My friend, relax. I personally dont think that your girl is cheating and I am not claiming to have psychic powers but I reckon they are just good friends. The fact you have been together for half a decade (5 years sounds ages when you say that!!) means that there is some substance to your relationship, you must be both very happy together. I am sure if she wasnt happy, why would you be together all this time? I mean, if this fella has a kid obviously with another woman and named it after your girl, thats a compliment. He must just think really highly of her and the fact is, he wont be having kids with her, he has a child, you are with this woman, andmaybe one day you will have your own kids. Listen my friend, if there was something, i.e. old feeling, they are the PAST, you my friend are the present and the future, and dont ever forget that. If she was cheating, do you really think she would mention that he wants to meet her etc etc? Of course not, dont worry my friend. All the best and let me know how things go. xXx
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