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writes: A few weeks ago I met a guy who I was instantly attracted to.We would flirt all the time. and he told me he was attracted to me. All was going well until i found out he had a girlfriend!!!! We did talk about his girlfriend and he said it wasnt really working out and that they really should break up but havnt as of yet! I thought to myself well he has a girlfriend-and so its really wrong to go after someone who does and he cant be a really nice person since he is flirting with other girls etc etc etc but i couldnt help myself so the other day i asked him out and he said yes. I dont know whether he is going out with me as friends or more because he knows i like him!! I'm just confused about what to do....i would really like for him and his g.friend to break up!!
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reader, matron +, writes (21 May 2006):
 Hi,Do you think he would treat you any better than he is his g/f. He obviously isn't in a rush to break up with her, perhaps he's a try before you buy kind of guy, be very careful i dont feel he can be trusted but then if you are willing to see him behind his g/f's back you dont seem to rate trust very high on your list of priorities. This all seems a bit of a game for both of you but believe me someone will end up getting very hurt and it may just be you. There are plenty of single lads out there why waste time chasing someone who is in a relationship, especially when you know it is wrong. Good luck LoLx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2006): He could be flirting with you because he is genuingly in a failing relationship that is on it's way to ending but you have to be careful that he is not simply using you to see if the "grass is greener"; that he has no intention of leaving his girlfriend for you.
Don't allow yourself to become the other women. Tell him your feelings and that if he wants a relationship with you then he has to be single first. Don't pressure him in to ending things with his girlfriend, he should do this naturally if he really does want to be with you.
I think the saying "actions speak louder than words" is very true in this instance. I hope things work out for you :)
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