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writes: I wrote before about this girl moving next door that works w/my guy. Well, I did what he asked and tried to talk to her to get to know her but she was very short: yes or no! She answered my questions with no responding question. It was a one sided thing.He said she is shy, so I tried again; same thing. In one meeting I could tell she likes him a lot more than a friend, but he says I'm seeing something that's not there.He says she's just shy and that she doesn't like him like that.How do I go about making it clear if she tries anything she'll end up in the lake, without ruining their friendship? I have male friends so I don't believe men and women can't have friends of the opposite sex, but she clearly wants more. Please help!
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reader, Smiler +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Hey there
well sweetie i have to agree with wendy on this one it sounds like your reading more into this friendship than it is? you sound very paranoid sweet? have you been cheated on in the past at all? because that is understandable but even then you can't atr all men with the same brush there are indeed some good guys out there and to me it certainly sound like you have found yours... sweetie loosen up here a little he is only friends with her. if anything was going to happen your distrust of your guy is just gonna push him closer. He comes home to you every night right? so this indicates its you he loves sweetie nobody else. ok. so sweetie try and loosen up a little don't be so paranoid ok.
I hope my advise helped you a little. Good luck. I am always here for you if you ever need a chat or just some more advise ok.
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, Wendyg  +, writes (31 May 2006):
 Why are you so adamant that shes after your man ? She is probably very shy as your man says and needs all the friends she can get. What is it she has done to you exactly ? Has your man ever given you any reason to doubt him ? its not about this girl, its about you, your man and your insecurities, if you are going to carry on looking for her or him to slip up then its going to come back on you.. If you continue to keep this up your going to push your man away. Perhaps you are seeing something that isnt there because you are so convinced already that something is going on. You need to ask why it is that you think he is interested in her and why you dont trust him ?
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