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writes: there is a girl at my mans work i've never met her but he gave her a ride back and forth to work for 3 or 4 months i never had a problem w/this.she didn't have a car and i loved him for being so kind.now she has a car and calls the house atleast once a week. she comes up w/any reason to call!any stupid reason! he says nothings going on but i am going crazy! i want to meet her just cause i think it will put my mind at ease,but he acts like he doesn't want me to. what should i do!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell,i met her and she is almost just as i imagined her young pretty and she loves him to death.on one meeting i could tell she is smitten w/him.weather he wants to or plans to cheat is beond his control now.if she keeps up eventually he will have to choose and im so scared of his choice making skills!how do i fix my heart!?meeting didn't help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 May 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you all for your feedback i will try one or more of these suggestions and let you know how it went!thanks again!
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reader, Confuddled +, writes (11 May 2006):
 you should TELL him you are going to meet her... if you cannot meet her than he has something to hide... if it was me... i would make the effort to get me, my b/f and her together and go out somewhere... you have to get to know her... it will drive you even more crazy if it keeps going on... he shouldn't be trying to hide her or w/e he's doing... tell him that if he loves you then he will do this for you... good luck with this!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2006): I smell a rat. Why is he so nervous about you meeting this woman. If he has nothing to hide, why is he keeping her such a big secret. I think you need to tell your boyfriend in no uncertain terms that this is hurting your feelings, and he isnt making the situation any better by hiding her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2006): I would approach the subject with you have met most of my friends and as she seems to be such a good work mate what is the harm in me meeting her why should she be any different to the rest of your friends i have met.And then say if she has a partner we could all go out for a meal.Then see what he has to say about that idea.
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reader, bonym  +, writes (11 May 2006):
 My friend, I think you have every right to question what is going on here though it does not necessarily mean he is cheating. Why dont you just confront this girl, despite what your boyfirend says. Why is he so apprehensive about you meeting her, you should just tell him straight that you want to talk to her, there is no harm in that. Remember he is your man, not hers so if you have any doubts get them cleared up. Dont let her meddle in your relationship, she has nothing to do with the two of you. Confront her and tell her straight. xXx
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reader, petal +, writes (11 May 2006):
Its a tough one i rekon? I would be worried just as much as yourself. I would say that i felt uncomfortable him speaking to someone regulaly who i haven't met. Explain that if she is his friend then she can be yours too. if that doesnt get positive feedback i would tell him you just need some reasurence and if he really cares for you he should do somethng about it and let you meet her. if he keeps saying no then ask him if he hs anything to hide. hes bound to give up if its to make you happy.
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