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writes: Hi there's this boy that just moved in my building 3 months ago and he is so cute. We been hanging out and talkin to each other from day one. but i just found out that he has a girlfriend and i really want to be with him. I feel that we have cemistry together and i kissed him but i just dont know how to make him choose me over her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2006): look dont worry i have the same problem with a guy i like. heres what you need to do: ask him why he dint tell you about his girlfriend, hang out with him a little bit more.just do this and he'll prabaly regret not getting with you
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (13 May 2006):
 If the boy is kissing you when he has a girlfriend, how can you be sure that if you get together with him that he won't be cheating on you a few months down the line? The signs don't look good....
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reader, Sexybum +, writes (13 May 2006):
 If you had known he had a girlfriend would you have kissed him? Would your feelings have developed so much if you had known he was already spoken for? Probably not.... Without knowing more about this guy its hard to stereotype him, but here's a scenerio for you (just to widen your view on things)....
He didn't tell you he had a girlfriend because he thought taht if you didn't know he could come to you for intimacy and then go back to his girlfriend when ever he pleases.....
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He didn't tell you he had a girlfriend because he likes you too.
Either way it is odd that he didn't mention her. Especially if you two have been speaking every day and even shared a kiss. Its not really fair for him to keep you hanging in the shadows like this... So you need to take the bull by the horns and find out where you really stand..
Talk to him directly about how you feel. Ask him why he failed to mention his girlfriend to you... Are they going through a rough patch... Or has he lost interest in her and gained interest in you...I know this is the one you want to hear, but bear in mind it might not be the one you hear.
If he does like you then whatever you do don't be his bit on the side, If he wants to be with you he should end it with his girlfriend and give you his full attention. If it turns out that he wants to stay with his girlfriend, then at least you will know exactly where you stand and will then be able to move on. Either way letting him know exactly how you feel is a win-win situation. You get to find out the real truth about how he feels...
Good luck and let us know how you get on!
From sexybum xox
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reader, Aunt Jess +, writes (13 May 2006):
 you cant make him do anything. let him no how u feel (in private) and tell him that nothin can happen while he still has a girlf. if he wants u enough, he'll come running. the reason why he didnt tell u is probably becos he likes u a lot, and thort he wud hurt u by tellin u soooo take this as a massive compliment, and GOOD LUCK! x
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