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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

How can I end this or what could I do to help him see that he is moving too fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3649 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone. Need some advice. I'm a 45 year old woman from Britain. Divorced mum of 2. Recently things in my life have been a bit upside down for me. It started about a year ago, met a lovely man, we was friends and then we started dating, when I ...

Just as I'd started to move on my ex pops back up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - I dated my ex for a couple of years. I thought she was the absolute love of my life. But the relationship had many problems, and she wound up breaking my heart. I was devastated by the breakup and never thought I'd get through it. I felt completely ...

I know that my boyfriend didn't do anything wrong but just running into his ex ruined our night and his behavior didn't make things any better

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 4 years. 2 girls before me, he dated a girl for around 3 or 4 years. They've been broken up for over 5 years now. They had an awful relationship where they fought, physically and verbally. She pretty ...

I yearn for true love, harmony and happiness, again. But how? Is it too much to ask for?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3631 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - I miss my ex so much. Me and him broke up almost 10 years ago. We both moved on and I got married, divorced and contacted him, and he got in and out of several relationships, but today he doesn´t seem to be interrested. He was my first real...

His ex deliberately messed with our vacation plans

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Right now my partners ex girlfriend is causing a massive family row that for whatever reason she is blaming completely on me, and I don't know how to respond or what to do and I hope someone can offer some advice. So next summer we are planning ...

Are these emails part of a head game?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Why does my ex send bizarre meaningless emails? I broke up with my ex 15 mths ago, I have 2 kids with him, I had to go no contact as he was violent and malipuative and I felt I could not get over him if I stayed friends. He has met someone else and...

Why did my ex contact me all of a sudden when he's still with his girlfriend? He knows I hate him and we are in two different countries

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - My ex and I were together for 4 years, including 1 year long distance. He dumped me 1.5 years ago. I've contacted him a few times and told him how terrible I felt. He's got a new girlfriend 3 months after we broke up. I was desperate. I've said bad ...

Why can't I stop thinking about my ex ever since I found out that he is engaged?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3650 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - I just found out that my exboyfriend just got engaged. We've been separated for about 2 years and 6 months now. We were together for 11 years and I broke up our engagement because I got fed up with his lies and cheating. He tried to get back to ...

She's taking dancing lessons with her ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

25 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend of about 4 months teaches ballroom dancing, and is still learning -of course. Overall, our relationship is good -- we acknowledge we love each other all the time. I don't dance, but that's ok. Here's the problem. Once a week she driv...

Seeing a picture of my ex with a new girlfriend makes me feel like I've been punched in the Tummy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - I was with my ex for 8 years. We broke up around 18 months ago, it wasnt a nice break up but we cut all contact and havent spoken to him since. He pops into my head every now and then but thats all. A few months after we seperated i met someone ...

How important is 'the spark' in a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - How important is 'the spark' in a relationship? I ask because I've had a few relationships, but only had the spark with 2 guys - one was my first love and the second was another ex. He was no different really from any of my other relationships bu...

Confused, but better than most!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I have been married for 8 year and have known my wife for 10. I have a near photographic memory and remember many things that people tell me. 10 years ago I contracted an STD from my wife. She found out she had it from a medical checkup. No big ...

How can I manage being the good stepmother despite the poison his ex pours into their childrens' heads!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone Hope you can give me some advice on my situation..bear with me though as it's quite a long one! I am due to be married next year, my fiancé is a good man, we have been together 3 years etc. he has 2 kids from a previous relationshi...

I feel like we are no longer a family- just outsiders watching him and his family enjoy their time together.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - My daughters father supervises visits between his son and ex wife. He invites her over to our place- and doesn't ask me first how I feel. Their interaction has gone as far as since the visits, he has spent most- minus two, of his days off with his ...

I hesitate to get involved with him when his ex is still in the picture

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - Hi, quick question. I've been talking to a guy I met for quite a while he's so nice we haven't been out on a date yet he keeps saying we will. The thing is he's still so involved with his ex, I'm not sure if I want to get involved in a me...

Do we let this go, not being invited to fiance's grand child's 1st birthday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - My fiancé's daughter had their first child and it's my fiancé's first grand child. My fiancé is divorced. His daughter is close to her mother and her in-laws. I was not invited to the baby shower that the daughter's grandma (her mother's mother)...

My ex is ill so I haven't told him I'm in a new relationship yet!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - Ok, cutting a long story short, a few months ago my ex who still has feelings for me became very ill (we're still friends and have contact at his request). Around the same time I met someone else who's ex treated him terribly and left him/cheated on ...

Is he horrible or mentally ill?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

18 November 2014 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for two years and it was great for 6 months but then something horrible happened to me and I became extremely depressed. My partner helped me through that although at times it was awful, I didn't know if it was all my ...

Dreams have rekindled a wish to see him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3660 days ago

18 November 2014 (F) - I had a dream about a boy I used to see. I'm in a long term relationship now and I'm happy (I thought). I've always held a soft spot for this previous boy. I don't mean I love him. We were never serious and he could be quite unpleasant to me at ...

Does my best friend like my boyfriend? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - So i met my boyfriend through my best friend, they've now gone to uni together and are living in the same house. I was always hesistant to start a relationship with this guy even though i had strong feelings for him. My best friend 'used' to have ...

We have broken up but I know he still loves me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

16 November 2014 (F) - me and my boyfriend are getting back from break up and now he's passive aggressive towards me. I know he still loves me. We've been in serious relationship and he's ready for commitment before but now things changed. He loss his patience, passion, ...

It's our baby's first Christmas so what's the harm in spending it in our home instead of their daddy's ex's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Hello! My boyfriend and I normally spend every Christmas at his ex girlfriends house so that he can spend the day with his son. It's incredibly nice of her to let us spend it there and even more so that her boyfriend is ok with it too. We have ...

Is it normal to feel so guilty when I've moved on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3665 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years two months ago, we did not see each other since then as we are living far apart, but we were texting almost everyday. For me, the relationship has died some time ago, mainly due to his immaturity and ...

Could I get him back or is there any way to help me move on ?? I still have a crush for my ex and now he has a Gf too

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - I need help I think I am still in love with my ex bf. But I can seem to stop emailing him and meeting him I have tried blocking him and it lasts for about a couple of weeks then my heart flutters when he emails me asking to meet. I know it's wr...

Should I go and see him after nearly 2 years apart?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Hello aunts and uncles I had a friendship with a man for just over 5 years. We were both in our late 40s (now early 50s) and divorced, so free and single. We slept together in the early months, but he stopped it because he wanted us to be friends...

I fear my ex is going to die of his drug use!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3666 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I just ended a relationship with a guy who was going through a really dark time - he was on drugs, getting involved with lots of shady people, and he became verbally aggressive with me. That was the final nail in the coffin, making m...

Why is his ex suddenly calling so much and telling him this news?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - I would like your views on this, Aunties and Uncles. My current boyfriend has broken up with his girlfriend for a year now. They have had no contact for about six months now. They were together for three years. About three weeks ago, his ex star...

My boyfriend says I am obsessed with another guy and that he is second best!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3667 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - I'm 33 and my live-in bf is 38. We've been dating for almost 18 months – completely in love…plans to marry, buy a house, have a serious future together. About five months ago, he was using my Facebook account and discovered that I had been looking ...

Why is my ex acting so horrible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - My ex emailed me apologizing and wanting to make things right for our baby. He left us two months ago after she was born. I was confused by what he wanted and said if he wasn't serious about making things right then to leave us alone. He sent a ...

I feel he is almost trying to control me and keep me on a leash while he makes up his mind if I'm "worthy" enough for him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - So my ex and I broke up about 4 months ago. We're long distance, had disagreements on a lot of things that we couldn't compromise on and decided to end it. Since then we've kept in contact and at times it feels like we're still together. The idea of ...

Did I over react? What should I have done?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

9 November 2014 (M) - So i've been dating this girl for about 8 months, in a relationship for the last 4 mo. A few days ago we were hanging out at her place. She was on her laptop and checked her facebook and saw that her "friend" who was the singer in a band that she ...

He ended it over smoking so I quit. Can I get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I was seeing a guy for a few weeks and all was going really well, we got on brilliantly and talked all day everyday even txting at work. I hadn't gotten on so well with anyone so quickly and things were fantastic. Unfortunately a few weeks in he ...

My ex is now saying what I wanted to hear when we were together, but I've met somone new

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

8 November 2014 (M) - I was with my ex for over two years. It was very unhealthy. She struggled with emotional issues, depression and anxiety. I tried everything to be her rock and stand by her side. I fought so hard just to love her and be with her. And I had never ...

Boyfriend was holding ex and kissing her on the face. Did he cheat?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf for about a month. He is my coworker and he left his live in gf of over a year to be with me. I found out that he talks with her either by text or call everyday still. And he still see's her once or twice a week. Works on her ...

I still have all of these emotions for her, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

7 November 2014 (M) - Hi, I am a 19-year-old Briton in need of some advice. Recently I got back in contact with an old crush of mine after having not spoken to each other in just over three years. We didn't meet in person until a month or two of having messaged ...

How can I show my partner he is the most special person I have ever been intimate with?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

7 November 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend and I am in love with him, I love the connection we share and the silly times we have. I have never felt the way I do about him about anyone else. The issue: in my past I have had intimate times with others. He ha...

Cheated on and now stalked

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - I broke up with my on/off bf of 5 yrs in mid sept. He was acting weird so I let him go. I found out in Oct he cheated on my with at least 2 girls this summer. We still were hanging out and he wanted to get back together but after finding this out ...

I want what's best for my daughter and myself

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - I was a few months away from getting married when I found out my now ex had been cheating on me with a mutual friend. She was going out with a friend of mine, and my ex and this guy were like brothers. Basically it all came out when her boyfrie...

I want love and affection but I also don't want to get hurt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - Simple question how can i tell if a guy is interested and want to get to know me or just wants to hit and run i understand that i have a hard time letting other people in because of a previous relationship which has caused me to put up a wall but ...

Is it normal to still miss your ex after 6 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3672 days ago

6 November 2014 (F) - I was with my ex for nearly 2 1/2 years and we broke about up 6 months ago. I was feeling ok until a few weeks ago and now i think about him all the time and miss him so much. When breaking up with ex's before i had always jumped into another rel...

He used to do his own laundry! Is he cheating on me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

5 November 2014 (F) - Is he cheating? My boyfriend of 4yrs and 11 mnths . nowadays constantly takes his clothes to the dry cleaners where his ex works.but before he used to do his own laundry. Is he cheating?...

Why would my ex come back to mind now that he's moving on??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

4 November 2014 (F) - I found out over the weekend that an ex boyfriend has moved to Australia with his new girlfriend. I went out with him about 10 years ago we were quite young but I loved him deeply and he broke my heart. We then had little flings on and off ...

The trip with my ex would ease my physical pain, but I don't want him back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3673 days ago

4 November 2014 (F) - My ex bf and I were together for about 3yrs. During that time I pretty much did every single thing for the guy and supported him in every way. Eventually, he had an opportunity to go abroad to a beautiful tropical place for work, which I sorted out ...

Should I support my husband in reviving a friendship with his ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

4 November 2014 (F) - Married a year and this is both our second marriages. I don't have a relationship with my ex other than child related conversations over the phone. My husbands ex is one of his oldest friends. During our courtship she was rude,intrusive and very ...

My gut is telling me he's not faithful!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

4 November 2014 (F) - Lately, I've been rather doubtful of my fiancé's loyalty. I caught him liking other girls photo on facebook. And suddenly I get all jealous. He wasn't normally like this. For weeks My gut has been telling me that he's not faithful. He gets all ...

I want to talk about things with my ex but this could jeopardize my current relationship, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

4 November 2014 (M) - My wife left me over 20 years ago and took my children with her. This all happened while I was out at work one day and I've never really come to terms with it. I think I understand why she did it, but her actions were too drastic and I feel we could ...

My girlfriend told me details of her bad sexual experience and now I feel angry and jealous. How do I get over this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

3 November 2014 (M) - I need your realtionship advice about this I feel like I am a bad boyfriend. This might be long sorry for it Recently my girlfriend and I started to try have sex. Ofcourse it is too painful for her so wer are just trying right now. I am not rushing ...

I'm bitter about my rich ex-husband, while I don't have much money. Will karma get him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

3 November 2014 (F) - I don't wish anything really bad to happen to my ex-husband, but some Kharma would be nice... My ex and I divorced about two years ago. He was not a good husband-treated me very badly and basically walked out on our son and I when he decided he wa...

My boyfriend doesn't like that I hang out with guys, yet he hangs out with his ex girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3675 days ago

3 November 2014 (F) - So here it is short and sweet. My bf doesn't like me hanging out with guys and flipped out the other night when I did. Only to find out last night that, the same night he was texting me freaking out, he was spending the night at his ex girlfriends ...

Telling my lover about an old sexual experience with someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3674 days ago

2 November 2014 (F) - Should I tell my partner my sexual experiences from the past? I know normally it's reallt up to the person to decide to do what they feel is right and comfortable. Normally I'm pretty open about my experiences and wouldn't mind sharing but the ...