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I hesitate to get involved with him when his ex is still in the picture

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Question - (21 November 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 November 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ebeccaa writes:

Hi, quick question.

I've been talking to a guy I met for quite a while he's so nice we haven't been out on a date yet he keeps saying we will.

The thing is he's still so involved with his ex, I'm not sure if I want to get involved in a mess like that. A while ago he put on facebook he was having dinner with her and when I looked on her profile her photo was her and him kissing. I asked him if he had a girlfriend and he said no they're still friends thats all.

He also didn't speak to me for a while, so I text him saying 'stranger' and he said his ex said I messaged her on facebook..I didn't. He also told me they've just been away for a weekend and ive seen the pictures.

I really dont know what to think, I like him but I dont know if its a good idea to get involved with him when his ex is still clearly not over him and he's still so much involved with her.

Opinions please?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (22 November 2014):

Honeypie agony auntOh, don't just back away, run, girl.

He is NOT single - he is two-timing the both of you. And the worst part, you already know this. You don't go away on a week-end with your EX gf is you are "courting" another girl.. Come on, use some common sense.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2014):

I'd stay well away from them both.

Don't get sacked into some drama.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2014):

When did they break up? They sound like they're stilll together. I'd steer clear myself...

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