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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex boyfriend says he wants me back but is dating another girl?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - Ok, so me and my boyfriend had been together for 9 months and we found out I was pregnant. His parents through a big fit over it that eventually caused us to break up. This was almost a month ago. Now he's dating another girl and I still love him. ...

Is my ex using me because I'm rich?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3773 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - i want to know if it's right for my ex to be asking me to buy credit for him? He keeps asking me to always give him money or gifts but he has never done same to be before. Im not sure that is how he relates to his female friends. He once told me he ...

Would it be wrong to get in contact with an ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3772 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship with a guy from the age of 16 until I was 19. We made it work by visiting each other regularly. It's been two years since we broke up... It wasn't working. Neither of us wanted to move interstate, I wa...

I'm confused, did he want to break up or not, I need an outsider's opinion.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3767 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - So I'm a bit confused right now. (I posted last week about breaking up) I've been with my (ex) partner for the last five years. He recently done his phase one on his training with the army, we had all these things planned before he was shipped ...

My feelings are all jumbled between ex boyfriend and current room mate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3771 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - Hi. I recebly move in a new house after a recent break up with my 2 years boyfriend. I noticedt hat one of my house mates started flirting with me.one day he suggested to watch a movie in his room. We made out twice it was leading to sex but I was ...

How do we bring our relationship out in the open without people thinking we're having an affair?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - 8 months ago I met a guy named Derrick, he is a police officer and I was doing some volunteer work, we ended up working on a few projects together. He was engaged and I was In a long term relationship. We were hanging out three or four nights a ...

Is it a question of time or is she really just not interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

27 August 2014 (M) - So I was really into this girl who I had been talking with awhile and we went out last weekend and had a great date. It was amazing chemistry and we both really seemed to like each other. The thing is she recently got out of a relationship abo...

Am I totally over thinking this? I don't want our relationship to be based on lies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3775 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - I got married three months ago, and we have been together for a little over two years. I am probably in the happiest relationship out of anyone I know. In the very beginning I didn't want to be official with him because I was so in love with my ...

Ex was on the verge of cheating and blames me for his indiscretion!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - Hi Aunties and Uncles, I was in a relationship with a man for almost 2 years. I recently broke it off with him because he was texting another women. Nothing horribly inappropriate, but eventually he admitted he was attracted to her and started ...

My boyfriend is still close to his ex girlfriend's family. Should I be worried?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - My partner of 3 years still spends a lot of time with his ex-girlfriends mother-in-law, calls her mum and generally spends time with the family. He's kept this from me a few times when he wanted to spend time with them rather than my family. He's ...

My ex will give me money but only after I have sex with him. I need the money but don't want the sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3707 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - I have been trying to start a business since last year, since i am unemployed but lack of capital has been my biggest challenge. Lats month i met my ex, who is financially stable and he promised to sponsor my business. So he wants to give me this...

His ex won't leave us alone.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - What can i do to get my boyfriends ex girlfriend to find somebody else .she wont stop telling that she is still in love with him .And i have told her hiw i feel about it and she dont care about how i feel....

He proposed, but every weekend is taken up with his children ... what if I want a child too?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3777 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - Hi. My bofriend proposed 2 months ago. As he has 2 kids with ex, he spent Saturdays taking them out somewher, dropped them back at their mom's because she doesn't like them sleeping out and on Sunday took them to visit their grandmother from about ...

How do I move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

23 August 2014 (F) - How do I move on?? I met Steven we will call him when I was 17, we have so much in common good and bad I have to admit, bit I have always been in love with him, but we could never make it work as we both had difficult childhoods both our issues k...

Boyfriend's abusive ex girlfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

23 August 2014 (F) - Hi. I feel so helpless to my boyfriend who ive been with for almost 6 months. He has a child at the age of almost 7 months and in he past relationship for 3 years his ex was quite physically abusive and nasty. She has still been doing it since th...

Ex boyfriend sends me a friend request on Facebook after four years of not talking?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3779 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - Ok I have not spoken to my ex boyfriend in almost four years mainly because we had an ugly break up and he was kind of an asshole towards me after we broke up (rubbing his new gf in my face, calling me names) . It was to the point I couldn't take it ...

I don't think he would ever cheat on me but is a cheat always a cheat in your opinion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3771 days ago

22 August 2014 (F) - Hi guys :) I ve been seeing my bf for 8 months now exclusively but i was kinda seeing him (never sex) when he was with his ex. I know its horrible and I feel so guilty. I met her a few times and she was so mean and horrible to him. He said that the...

Love ex-gf but she is dating new guy

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3780 days ago

21 August 2014 (M) - Hi, everyone. My ex girlfriend broke up with me in December because she didn't think I loved her enough. I did love her a lot, but we were both being immature -- she was acting passive aggressively and I wasn't communicating. She texted me once ...

Feeling bad for possibly sick ex. Should I break NC?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3774 days ago

20 August 2014 (F) - My ex and I were together 4 years. We broke up 2 months ago, tomorrow. I broke it off because for several months prior, while I was trying to work things out, he was pushing me to end things, so I did. He acted like he wanted to be set free so I let ...

Why is my boyfriend with me when he isn't fully over his ex yet?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

20 August 2014 (F) - I've been with my current boyfriend for almost a year now. We became friends towards the end of his relationship with his ex. At the time I met him, he was living with his ex but sorting things out to move out and end their three year relationship. ...

He said he would help, we had sex, and now, no help!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3782 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - A fee days ago I asked my ex boyfriend if I could borrow some money from him to invest in my business. He is a millionare so I knew he could spare it. We broke up 2 years ago and we hadn't spoken in 5 months since the last time we met up- mainly ...

He said his ex was better than me and then said he only said that in anger! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - I met a guy via facebook 1 and half years ago. he becomes friend with me .almost from the first he wanted to do phone sex with me. He said he had no girlfriend. we met few times. then one day he told that he had few time did sex with a girl with ...

High school, girls, and phobias, Oh my!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

18 August 2014 (M) - Hello aunts and uncles, long time no see. Like, 2 months. Well, I have a new problem, and this is going to annoy me until I get an answer, so your support would be appreciated. In about a week, 10th grade is starting for me, and by God, I got th...

He never ever was my boyfriend but I want him back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3785 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - I had the biggest crush on a guy from my university for about a year. One day, I met with him at the library and he was sitting with some of his friends studying. I sat next to him and one of his friends stood up and started talking to me. I thought ...

It is possible to be FWB with an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3784 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - Recently an ex of mine has contacted me and we've started speaking again. It's been a couple years since we broke up, and a year since the last time we spoke. We've both had other relationships since each other, so there was time to get over it. ...

I haven't had a real relationship since leaving my abusive ex-husband, and after learning I have genital herpes I'm wondering if I should ever try for one at all

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3785 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - Two and a half years ago I left an almost decade long relationship/marriage to a morbidly jealous psychologically abusive man - he always accused me of cheating, but I never did. I stayed too long, and left at the last minute, before he could suck ...

Boyfriend going away for 2 weeks with friends. I'm afraid he'll get drunk and cheat on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3786 days ago

16 August 2014 (F) - So I have been dating my boyfriend since April and been seeing him since January time. In a couple of days he is going on holiday with his mates to malia. I am really afraid he will get drunk and cheat on me. He cheated on his ex on holiday before ...

Why would he google my exes?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - I just recently found out that three months into my relationship my boyfriend went online and Googled two of my ex's. My boyfriend is not a controlling person and he is self confident - not needy our insecure. I'm not really sure what to thi...

Could I have found the right guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3787 days ago

15 August 2014 (F) - So I have been dating this guy for 3 months and things seem to be going very good. Except that his ex is still in his life he says they are just friends. We hardly fight and he says that when he he's with me that he doesn't think about anything...

I found naked pics of my boyfriends ex girlfriend on his laptop!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - Ok I'm so embarrassed about this situation. Here's the story. Not too long ago I accidentally came across my boyfriend's pornography on his laptop. I swear it was an accident although some people may not believe me. Anyway, I don't care about that ...

Does anyone else thinks that they closeness between the ex and my sons gf is a little odd?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - My son is 23 and has been dating a girl for about 8 months now. She is 22 and has a 4 year old son, Grady. . I was a little concerned with them dating not wanting him to get involved in an ex bf new bf drama, Last weekend we were invited to the l...

I know it's not healthy and I'm trying to move on but it's human to want revenge!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3788 days ago

13 August 2014 (M) - So I'd been dating a girl on and off for 4 months but it became a long distance relationship due to university over summer. We'd talk every day and I'd visit as often as I could - until we had (what I thought was) a small argument. Turns out right ...

My partner's ex is putting ideas into their children's heads. I don't want the drama!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - Hi Just want other peoples opinion if possible! I have been with my partner for 3 years, he is a loving, kind decent man who works hard. He has decided to go back to college in September on top of is full time job. I have just brought a house...

Was my ex boyfriend trying to rub this in and make me jealous with this comment?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

13 August 2014 (F) - Was my ex boyfriend trying to rub this in, and make me jealous with this comment?. I went on a website today, which is where you can discuss films and actors. My ex and I have been going on that website for years. I recently left a message on a ...

Should I pursue trying to date a woman with dysmorphia?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

12 August 2014 (M) - Hi, I just wanted to see what your opinions on this is. I met someone well over a year ago and it was amazing. We got on really well, so much so we had 3 dates on one weekend. When I was at work the next Monday she send me an email and text m...

I want my ex out of my life but will feel guilty if I have to call the police

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

11 August 2014 (F) - My ex boyfriend kept going through my email. He read emails, accused me of sleeping with multiple guys in my past (pretty much any guy). He then would contact them as if it was me to ask them if I had sex with them. He created a fb profile of a guy ...

Why the weekly contact from my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3791 days ago

11 August 2014 (F) - My ex and I were together for several years. We broke up around 2 months ago. Since our BU, which I initiated but he seemed to want it too, he has text me EVERY week. Every single week he sends at least one text message. They never say anything ...

I've tried to stay friends with my ex but he's on my case about everything!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

11 August 2014 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a year ago and since then, he's been on my case about every little thing that I do! He insists on knowing where I go and with who every time I go somewhere and he's always starting arguments about tiny things. I've tried ...

He is breaking up with me for being too controlling.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

10 August 2014 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 and a half years now. We've been so good together everyone always compliments on how good a couple we are. I met mg boyfriend about 6 months after the break up with my ex boyfriend which was awful. He totally ...

My boyfriend is planning to see his ex while I am away.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3789 days ago

10 August 2014 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were having a talk about being honest with each other and what not when he said oh whilst were talking about this i should probably tell you that whilst your away next week im meeting up with 'sarah'. Ive been with my boyfrien...

Why do I still feel so hurt and messed up after breaking with my ex a year ago?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3793 days ago

9 August 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid! Why do I still feel so hurt and messed up after breaking with my ex a year ago? We were together on/ off for 9 yrs! I now believe he had a lot of narcissistic tendencys! He lied, had ex girlfriend he would hook up with behind my back! ...

I'm jealous of my girlfriend's past. She had sex with this guy at our office and I cant seem to get over this

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3790 days ago

9 August 2014 (M) - Okay, so I have been seeing a girl for a month or two now and it is absolutely fantastic, I love her with all of my heart and consider her to be 'the one' for me. There is just a slight thing which I know I am getting too hung up about but I would ...

My Fiance's Ex Is Stalking Him...Should I end our engagement???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

8 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I got engaged last month, and we were so happy. Then, we got a nasty surprise. A girl, whom he had a brief relationship with back before we met has turned up out of the blue, saying she loves him and wants him back and to leav...

Is she hinting around that she's finishing up with her ex or should I start dating others?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3794 days ago

8 August 2014 (M) - Hi, I was dating a girl over a year ago and at the time we both thought we'd met the one. We both thought it was amazing but before we met I'd accepted a job away from home. she was gutted and called it off because she said she simply can't do...

Boyfriend seems to only mention marriage when I am depressed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

8 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I haven't been together a year yet but he already brings up marriage. We are expecting a child, it was a complete accidental pregnancy, I was on birth control and we were using a condom but somehow I still got pregnant (My mother ...

Should the other woman tell the wife?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

7 August 2014 (F) - In a nutshell, should the other woman tell the wife? It's after breaking up with the married man (5 month affair), she does care for him very deeply. He has said his wife has seen several text messages and suspects an affair, and that there have ...

What kind of a relationship am I in?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

7 August 2014 (M) - I was seeing this beautiful woman off and on for the last ten years. 8 months in 2005, 1 month in 2009, and 2 months just recently 2014. Everytime we have sex we never use condoms, and the relationship is always a secret. The reason why we ...

A troubled child and we aren't sure how to help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

7 August 2014 (F) - Hi Hope someone can give me advice. I am 34 with no kids but would love them one day. My partner has an ex with 3 kids (2 are his). The third child, well we just don't know how to help him anymore. I truly don't want to sound nasty, but I...

He promised he wouldn't have his step-daughter over while I recovered from my C-section, and went back on his word

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3795 days ago

7 August 2014 (F) - Id like some advice as im not sure if I have a right to be upset or if its just my hormones playing up. to cut a long story short my partner still looks after his ex's child a few days a month as she doesn't see her real dad so hes kept visits ...

Left me pregnant, got anew catch and texts, he wants to meet

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3792 days ago

6 August 2014 (F) - My Ex, who i had been with for 7 years made me pregnant and disappeared without a word. However, he disappeared with the house rent which i had given him to pay and after a while he emailed me.... i will not hear from him or will rarely hear from ...