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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I was in a long distance relationship with a guy from the age of 16 until I was 19. We made it work by visiting each other regularly.It's been two years since we broke up... It wasn't working. Neither of us wanted to move interstate, I was clingy and jealous, he was disrespectful, and really we just grew apart.He's been with his current girlfriend for almost 2 years and I've fallen head over heels with the guy I'm with.Every now and then, lately it's been more often, I miss him. Not as a lover but as a friend. While we are not good together as life partners and I do not want to be with him in any romantic way what so ever, I still miss him as a buddy though.Would it be wrong to get in contact every now and then? Even just to see how things are in each others lives?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2014): As your boyfriend or as his girlfriend I would not put up with you becoming buddies again. That ship has sailed. You'll only start trouble if you contact him.
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 August 2014):
 I think you should stick to leaving him be. He is with someone else, you are with someone else. You haven't had contact for 2 years, so he is NOT your "buddy" or friend no more.
Focus on your own life, your family, friends and BF.
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