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Archived questions from: May, 2010 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

He's threatening to post nude pictures of me on the net!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4510 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My ex and I broke up over a month ago. We had many issues, he was controlling and too jealous, always thought the worst of me and called me names, didn't trust me at all. He's been obsessively checking out my Facebook profile. I blocked him and ...

Why does the man you love need to be so controlling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - My question is why does the man you love need to be so controlling? I was married to him for 29 years. He left me for a younger woman then she died and he came back into my life. I am in her house with him but he wont let me bring my home things ...

Does my ex want to be with me again or not???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5277 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - If you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again, is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? We were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the ...

Any thoughts...? Sexual frustration!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5255 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - My fiancée that I am scheduled to marry within the next couple of months doesn't turn me on the way my exgirl friend use to. My exgirl who I was crazy about was always dripping wet for me day night early in morning and would have orgasms through ...

I feel like she owes me a proper explanation of how she feels at least!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - My ex-girlfriend dumped me after we started University last November, saying she didn't want to be in a relationship at that time. We were together for around 5 months after a friendship progressed and I had helped her through a suicide attempt and ...

Wife treated exes better than her husband!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5263 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - I was reading someone else's question and it encouraged me to post a similar question of my own. My wife and I have been married for about 7 years. When we met, she had a lot of sexy lingerie - about 20 pieces. She also told me she had thrown ...

Girlfriend and I were over before I knew what actually happened! And still don't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Now I accept that our relationship is over.. I'm hurt yes blah blah but I'm trying to move on as soon as I feel ready. More on that in a sec. But my backstory has me asking questions and would love to know if anyone has been through something ...

He is back on friendly terms with his ex again, is he just using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - hi in have been seeing this man for about two months we were friends before but he was with someone someone who he had been with for four years he was really down saying he was only together as the she has a five year old son and he had brought him ...

I'm so confused, have I made the wrong choice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - So i kind of need some advice, i dated my ex for 7 1/2 months and we broke up because he made out with my ex bestfriend and now im with a new guy and i love this new guy but when he is away i brake down in tears i feel like my heart was ripped out ...

Why are his ex-girlfriend's contacting me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I broke up with my ex 5 years ago due to abuse. I was contacted by his ex gf 2 years ago and now contacted my another ex gf about his abuse. Why would ex's contact me? I just dont understand Im out of the picture!!!...

What can I do to ensure my baby is safe while with his father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 May 2010 (F) - I have a three year old boy. His father and I have been apart since he was 4 months old. His father got weekend, overnight visitation about 6 months ago, because he finally completed the 20 hours of supervised visitation. Since then he gets Elijah ...

When we first started seeing each other, I had just recently broken up with my ex-girlfriend. I stupidly brought her into several conversations we had early on.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

31 May 2010 (M) - Hello, all. I have situation, in which, I could use some advice. I have been dating a wonderful woman for a year and a half, we have a lot in common and there exists a lot of love between us. Now onto the problem: When we first started seein...

Why am I still worrying about the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I liked my ex boyfriend very very much, and I let him be my first . But now that we are done I have moved on to other guys, but every time I'm happy, my past comes back, and it makes me feel horrible , and messes up every relationship I have now , ...

I wish I had the life that my ex does

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - i feel lonely at times..my ex and i broke up and we had a year of no contact..i still had feelings for him so i contacted him and we have been talking for almost a year now. I make sure if we are on the phone--i sound nice, happy and busy most of ...

He slept with her after we broke up and now she's acting crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - I've been having problems with a girl who liked my then boyfriend. Basically she's been a real pain towards me and now that we've broken up she's continued. Last night me and my ex were hanging out and I made him tell me what he was covering up ...

I really love him and want him back, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - ok im a 15 year old girl. i really miss my ex boyfriend ( we have been separated nearly a year) and i cant get over him. we had been going out about 4 months when my depression got a lot worse and i ran away a few times. i had previously been ...

Should I get his parents involved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5265 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - So I dated this guy for two years and we broke up about a year and a half ago. I guess you can say I led him on recently but after a little while, I realized I didn't want him back. I've tried severing ties with him several times but he's resorted ...

Lost my virginity to him and now we don't even talk!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

30 May 2010 (F) - Its been almost over a month since I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend, and now we don't even talk. And yet i'm still stuck on him. I can't get him out of my head, I tryed to move on, but every thing reminds me off him. I know i'm not in love, so ...

Having doubts after break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - I ended things with my long distance boyfriend of 1 year, a month ago. The distance was hard, we were fighting a lot the last 2 months, and I figured it was best to end it. We haven't spoken since, as I decided no contact is best for me to heal, ...

My ex is pregnant, why is it suddenly churning me up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - I broke up with my last girlfriend around 8 months ago, we parted on good terms. We still kept in touch went for coffee and stuff (we were friends and colleagues before we started going out.)I knew she had got back together with her previous ...

Is having pictures of his ex and visiting her profile inappropriate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Hi, just wondering if I'm over reacting. My bf, and I have been together for almost two years. He has pics of his ex and it began to bother me. He claims it meant nothing and said he would get rid of his album. He gave it to his mother. Well, my...

Ex says she wants distance but then tries to make contact?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5281 days ago

29 May 2010 (M) - My ex girlfriend broke up with me in February and said she wanted time apart but we can still be friends hang out, talk etc, over those months of being on time apart we argued because I found myself still playing the boyfriend roll while working ...

Hi obsessed ex has been making MY life hell forever, is there anything I can do here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Okay i need some help with this one. I've been with my boyfriend just over a year. We're in a long distance relationship between the Uk and the US and ive just spent 5 months over there with him. (Let me explain the story) He split up with hi...

Boring boyfriend or my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - i dont know what to do im torn between two men. my ex and my sons father, who stepped out of our lives for 5 months who is now back trying to get back together with me. or my current boyfriend who is great and would do anything for me but yet is ...

5 years later and I still wish things had worked out differently!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend broke up with me 5 years ago, since then there hasn't been a moment that I wish things had been different so that we might still be together today. There have been other men who have implied their interest in me but I can't pursue ...

The ex...is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5280 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - if you finally start talking with an ex again but he isn't ready to be in a relationship again---is it ALWAYS black and white that they just don't want to be with you? We were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the ...

Should I attempt talk to him, even out of curiosity???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

29 May 2010 (F) - Basically, I found out I was the "other woman" in about a two year affair. The kid was older and I kept my virginity, thankfully. He had always had a "mystery" to him - he disappeared for three months without a trace and reappeared wanting me ...

How do I tell my boyfriend I just want to be friends...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Basically i was with a guy for 2 and a half years up till the beginning of april, he then broke it off with me on the terms that he didnt love me anymore because i had changed and not told my parents we were engaged. i decided to get talking ...

I want to have a relationship with her..but she says she is still needing closure with her ex..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

28 May 2010 (M) - i met kim in 2005 she was married then. sarah is now divorced 3 years and started having a long distance realationship with a fellow right after her divorce. that realtionship dissolve 8 months ago after 3 years on back and forth travel. then i came ...

Aprehensive about moving with my boyfriend..and now starting to consider getting back with first love who is still keen..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5280 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - Hi,I have been in a long distance relationship for the past two years plus but recently my ex-boyfriend has gotten back in contact with me and told me he has feelings for me and he knows I have a bf but he asked me think about getting back with him. ...

My ex has no respect for me and his family say our baby is not his!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5282 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - hey guys, sorry if this is long but im at my wits end and really need an unbiased opinion on my situation! Basically, Im 26 and am a single mum to a 7 week old baby. The father is someone who I was seeing last year but we split before i knew i ...

Did I mess things up by sending a pic?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - My ex and i were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..no one cheated..i think we did really love each other..it was petty stuff that i think we can get over from just learning from mistakes etc..i know what ...

My boyfriend's ex broke his heart, she seems to want him again, should I worry??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

28 May 2010 (F) - my boyfriend's ex girlfriend really hurt him when it came to the end of there relationship and now she is starting to talk to him again and i really dont like it but i know he wont do anything and if she made any form of move he would tell her to go ...

First love keep trying or give it up!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5278 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - I don't know where to start. I was married at 17 and have two children. We have been married for 30 years now. When my first child was about three months old I met the brother of my sisters boyfriend. There was an instant connection, but i was ...

His ex's facebook page says they had sex, he denies it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5283 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - My boyfriends cell phone is always going off with phone calls and text messages (mostly work related), on a few occasions he has left the room and it was late at night and it was his ex texting him. I asked him about it and expressed my concerns. He ...

Do I have a right to ask him not to send a postcard to the girl he loved before me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5279 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - I'm going away for the weekend with my boyfriend. He told me to bring a pen to write postcards with. He has a female friend whom he used to be in love with before he met me, and I know he will want to send her a postcard, he sent her one a year ago ...

Everyone I date is always in my ex's shadow

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5230 days ago

27 May 2010 (F) - I went out with a guy for a loooong time and we broke up three and a half years ago because it wasn't working out. this was mainly because we were quite young and at uni so living in different places. we stayed in touch and i guess i've never really ...

What's the best way to show her I've changed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5283 days ago

27 May 2010 (M) - So my ex and me have been talking and she just wants to be friends and that me being paranoid, jealous and other things has put her off me. I feel such a fool and trust me I know I was wrong and I just want to show her that I have changed and I'm ...

I hope I didn't blow it by sending this picture of us to him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - My ex and i were with each other for almost 4 years and a year of no contact after the break up..no one cheated..i think we did really love each other..it was petty stuff that i think we can get over from just learning from mistakes etc..i know what ...

Still in love with my ex...what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5284 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Last year I met a guy I had a relationship with for 3 months. He was perfect for me, except for the fact that he didn't want marriage. We decided to see other people, but were still "together". I ended up leaving him for another guy who did want ...

Are guys bothered by their friends dating their ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - A few years ago, I was "casually" seeing this guy. Long story short, he was a jerk and didnt want a relationship and was just using me so I ended it. A year later, he called and asked if we could still be friends and we hung out once and talked. The ...

He abused me but I still think about him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Right here goes! I have recently well 11 weeks to be exact got out of an abusive relationship with my alcoholic ex bf,it has been really hard as he is very volatile and caused trouble at my house by smashing every single window and it wasn't t...

Was it a terrible idea to send my ex a picture of us when we were together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

Should I go to my partner's son's birthday party when his ex will be there and all the family who all know each other well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - My partner's son is having a surprise birthday party next week. And i will be in the same place as his mother (my partners ex) and my in laws who all know each other and have history and i wont know any one there. I dont know whether to go as i ...

Should I leave her if my partner's ex continues to harrass me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - Hello Everybody! I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 15months, 3 months into our relationship she started talking to her ex again and regularly meeting up with him on dinner dates. i nipped that in the bud and out of courtesy for me ...

My girlfriend broke up with me, but things are confusing.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5273 days ago

26 May 2010 (M) - I met this girl from a dating site a couple of months ago now, I was the first guy she dated and we got on so well that we started seeing each other straight away. We dated for only just over a month, but everything was perfect, even spent a weekend ...

My current bf called his ex "My Whore" Is this something to be alarmed about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Okay, so maybe I'm over reacting and being stupid idk. Perhaps even worrying too much but... I decided to ask for other people's opinion. I've been in a 5 to 6 months relationship with my bf/fiance whom when i met had broke up with his ex gf/ex ...

Why is my b/f upset that I'm not bothered by his interactions with his ex wife?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5285 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for a little under a month. We went on numerous dates and took things very slow before that, so all in all it has been about 3 months. Our first conversation lasted 6 hours...and I learned that he has full custody of ...

Can a vindictive narcissist go to one who just gives up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5282 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - Ok so I am not sure if any of you can help me with this issue.... I have a narcissist ex. We have broken up twice now. The first time he was the vindictive type. He would ask around about me, hold my stuff hostage, drive by my house, text me, etc. ...

I lust to be with my ex's brother just once...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5284 days ago

26 May 2010 (F) - So for years now my ex's boyfriend’s brother and I have always gotten along really well, we have so much in common and enjoy the same things. But soon discovered I had a bit of a crush on him, but ignored it due to being with my ex and didn't want ...