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30-35,
*ellyy
writes:Its been almost over a month since I lost my virginity to my ex boyfriend, and now we don't even talk. And yet i'm still stuck on him. I can't get him out of my head, I tryed to move on, but every thing reminds me off him. I know i'm not in love, so what is it. What should I do. Should I try talking to him again, or should I just let it pass.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): Your age says 13-15, if that's really your age, you really should've thought what you were doing with him, before you did it. Because, if you're not in a commited relationship with a guy, or haven't been with him very long, you shouldn't lose your virginity to him. You've lost it, so I can't really tell you it was a mistake because i'm sure you've learned your lesson but, you gave him your virginity so it's going to hurt a lot more to be away from him. If you guys were to just have been hanging out, maybe kissing, etc. it wouldn't be so hard. But since you had sex with him, that's why it's bothering you so much. He was one of those jerks, who act like he really likes a girl, and convinces her to have sex with him- then leaves. You fell for it, Im sorry this happened but, you need to really try to move on.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 This guy is a predator and you are one of his trophies. It is all over for him and he has moved onto the next conquest.
Treat it as a baptism of fire into the adult world. Learn from this mistake and be wiser.
Go out and meet other guys and soon you will find a a better guy and you will won't feel the pain anymore.
Forget about him . He is history now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2010): You have shared something with him. he will always be your first. He has moved on sweetie just let it go.
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reader, Jessmca  +, writes (30 May 2010):
 Okay so a lot of guys just want sex, but then there's the guys you find who will stay with you.. you found that 90% who just want ass. He just wanted sex from you, and hey! He got it. I have been through the sameeee thing girl. And the best thing to do after it is find another guy. Go crazy with em! Talk to tons of guys to get your mind off that jerk, let it pass! Don't fall for it again if he tries to sweet-talk to you. Completely get him OUT OF YOUR LIFE. Act like you guys never had sex. Take this advice, because I did from my best friend and guess what? I found an amazing guy. And so will you if you take my advice! Good Luck!!xoxo Jessica
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