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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: Basically i was with a guy for 2 and a half years up till the beginning of april, he then broke it off with me on the terms that he didnt love me anymore because i had changed and not told my parents we were engaged.i decided to get talking to the guy i cheated on him with when i was on holiday last year, we went from strength to strength and ended up going out with each other for almost a month, but on 25/5/10 i met with my ex after getting back on talking terms and being friendly and he just won the way back to my heart, so i emailed my bf and told him it was over in the kindest way possible, he was ok with it and we are still friends, but now i have decided that i really dont want to be with my ex anymore and i would rather be single, but i had also bought travel tickets to go and see the guy i was with for a month and i know my boyfriend would not allow it because of course the guy i was with for a month i cheated on my current bf with. So basically i want to be single for now but i think i like the guy i was with for a month and wouldnt mind getting back with him while i am away seeing him next month. so what do i tell my current bf in the nicest way? i still want to be friends, but not a relationship anymore.
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reader, Problem.helper +, writes (29 May 2010):
I think if you tell him in anyway he will not want to be friends with you.
I m sorry but sometimes you just can't be friends withsome.
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