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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

I'm having a hard time living without my ex. Help please.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5887 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - myex boyfriend broke up with me around sep 15 and im having a hard dealing with him not calling me and talking to me anymore. i just recently saw him at a event and things happened that shouldnt have happned, I was doing really good before i saw him ...

Do I hang in there, or leave him until the divorce is finalized?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I am 27 years old and dating a 30 year old man for 4 months now. He is legally separated from his wife and they are currently going through a divorce. They have been separated for 4 years. He has asked me on several occasions to be patient with ...

Has she really changed or will she hurt me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - My ex-girlfriend and I broke up at the end of May, about 4 months ago. I was extremely hurt because of the things she had done that were unfair to me, and I never contacted her over those 4 months. She contacted me a few times about random things, ...

My husband's ex interferes with our marriage! Any advice?

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30 September 2008 (F) - I hae been married to my husband for two years. His ex-wife has been a constant interference in our marriage. At one point he was discussing our relationship with her and getting advice, he also was talking to her anywhere from 3 to 6 times a day. ...

Why won't he just come back to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I was with my ex for almost 5 yrs and we were engaged to be married and have a daughter together. He left me over a year ago and started dating someone else within a couple months. For almost that whole relationship we've been sleeping together and ...

Am I just being pathetic? I think I should have moved on by now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - hey, I was my girlfreind for about 5 months, shes my best freinds sister and we were in secret for literally the whole of the relationship. A lot of people had worked it out, and obviously we both told our close friends. The problem is my be...

Are these feelings real or am I using him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I was dating this guy for 1 1/2 years and we really loved eachother, but it just didn't work out. We had a great time together while it lasted though, so it really wasn't to bad. Well anyway, we have been broken up since about the end of May and I ...

Shall I go back to my ex-girlfriend and move on or stay with him - the person I love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Well how shall I ask my question, that’s a big question already but yups why not start by introducing u to my story. I always have been known for being so down to earth and outgoing, well that’s what friends and ex- partners say about my persona...

How can I get my ex off my back without letting on that I have a new boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello, well, my ex bf tell's me he still loves me, but i have a new bf now, but no one knows cos were keeping it quiet for a bit to see how it goes. so my ex bf dosn't know, and i can't tell him. but he keeps telling me he still loves me and tht he ...

I've tried everything to forget about him, but nothing seems to work. Please help.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - i am 21, I met this guy when i was 20 and been in love with him ever since. problem is hes got a girlfriend he told me that he liked me sooo much and he wished things wre different. i have tried everything to forget about him, but nothing seem...

Am I too fussy or am I just worthless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - The man who left me for his baby mama got married this weekend. i hurt like hell but i guess for me this was closure.however i am left feeling worthless and not good enough and am consequently feeling sorry for myself. i am in another relationship ...

We have a baby and he keeps cheating on me. I don't know if I should stick with him or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi There, Well the story goes like this. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 yeard and we have a 9mnth old baby as well. last year while I was pregnant I found out that he cheated on me and that the girl was pregnant. I ...

How do I get her to stop before I do something stupid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi, everyone! ok i have a big problem. im married to a great man who has a child by another women. they had him when they were teenagers and now we are in our early 20's. the childs mother is crazy! my husband didnt have any parental rights {wasnt ...

We broke up as he wanted to examine his feelings and focus on himself, so we cut all contact! How can I get him back if we don't talk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hey guys So .. my boyfriend of a year broke up with me month and a half ago. We completely stopped talking and seeing each other. He said, he needed time on his own, to think about his life and focuse on himself. I tried to understand and I...

I can't get over this one girl!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - i had a relationship of three years with a VERY attractive girl,although a loved her and i know she loved me we were going to have to have a long distance relationship and i felt all we had was a physical relationship..so i ended it.now i can see ...

My ex suffered a terrible tragedy. How do I support him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My ex suffered a terrible tragedy and now I don't know what to do. My ex of 2 years decided to finally pick up his stuff the weekend before I move (I have been asking for 2 months, he lives 2 hours away and I am moving 1 hr further away). H...

I can't escape seeing him so what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5888 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - So, about 9 days ago my boyfriend(we will call him jack)of three months broke up with me and it killed me, and to make it worse it was homecoming. It killed me but I went to homecoming with my 2 best friends. I started talking to jack again and we ...

He picked me over her, now he's dating her. I still miss him. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i'm pathetic. im still so in love with my ex, since we broke up in february we've been back and forth, and still having sex. we broke up cause he was trying to play me and talk to other girls, he even hooked up with one! the main problem we had was ...

We were forced apart and now I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5885 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I were forced apart. During the first few months we were apart, she lied about me, lied to me, and was flirting with her ex boyfriend. Then when she said that we'd "never be allowed together again" she gave up and dated him, yet ...

Dazed and confused....do I follow my heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I'm very confused at this point. Here's the deal, I'm currently in a relationship that has been going on for just a month. 2 weeks before i got with this guy, my ex and I had just broken up. I would sometimes space out while talking to my current ...

My abusive boyfriend dumped me and I'm devastated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - My abusive boyfriend dumped me and i am devastated and torn i know it was for the best but im consumed with pain and confusion because i did everything for him i forgave him for cheating on me and getting his ex pregnant then cheating on me with ...

Am I a chump? Why am I even thinking this stuff?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Here's my story. I did have sex until I was 25 with a girl who I had pined over for a LONG time. We then had a 2 year relationship which started off great- both in love, it wasn't just physical I think we clicked quite well. Going into the second y...

Please help me on how to deal with family and my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I left my husband, he sent divorse papers to me. He has a girl friend, i don't have a boy friend. Before he gave my family member the divorse papers he told me on the phone he need to meet me to give me my belongings back. he will stay silent then...

Shall I just cut all contact with my ex as it's doing me no good?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi, I have been thinking an awful lot about my ex boyfriend( we split 2 years ago!! i know, together for 8) i feel down and weepy recently- - yes ive been out with other guys - we split as he said he didnt love me anymore and starting seeing ...

Should I get my ex a birthday present?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - we were goin for 2 months we broke up 3 months ago i want to get him a birthday present coz his b-day's in 2 weeks but im not sure i shud we still talk but we aren't as close as we used 2 be i appreciate all the help given thanks x ...

I need my job. So how can I cope with my ex courting another girl? We're all coworkers.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hoping someone might have input on this. I split with my boyfriend about three months ago. I do have to seem him each day because we both work a second job. I felt bad about the breakup at first but am moving on now. Lately he has been a little ...

What do I do? do I carry on trying to get over him or do I try and get him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi... I'm so low and confused....i feel to old to feel like this, but this is how it is! This is a follow on from a question dated 22/8/08 Sex is starting to slow down. Is this normal so early in a relationship?" if you would please read. ...

What do I do if he does not stop this nonsense? We serve on the same committee.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5890 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Thank you in advance to all the great agony aunts who take the time to answer this. I did write in last week about a difficult situation where I am working on a committee with an ex who is being alternately rude and disrespectful. The work I am ...

Do you think there could be any happy ending here? My ex is now with a woman who has done time for drugs, and has a history of domestic violence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5890 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Do you really think there could be any happy ending here? It's been a year now that they have been together. Please read. Her name is T****. My man of 9 years left me for this woman he met. He has never done any kind of drugs and is totally ...

Can I date my ex-girlfriend's friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - Hey, I've been going out with this girl for couple of months but we broke up past summer. We broke up because she said she only wanted to be friends but she still had feelings for me. Since school stared, I've started to hang out with one of best ...

Is there a chance for us? I know I sound selfish but he was my first and only love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i met this boy in 2006. He chased after me for one year and a half and we went out for a while. everyday he would call me and we spoke for 4 hours. he wanted to spend all the weekends with me. but i cheated on him with his friend. he caught m...

Should I get my ex boyfriend a birthday present?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5875 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Me and my ex broke up in June we were goin out for 2 months i still like him so much he was my 1st bf,i think im in love with him.But i no he wants to stay friends. Straight after the break up we remained really close every1 thought we were still ...

I'm happily engaged and want to help my ex with coping after recent divorce, but HOW, when both of us have a problem with impulse control with regards to one another??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5890 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - Forgive me, this post is long, but I feel that there is information necessary so that people can answer my question. I am engaged. I am very happy in my current arrangement and have no wish to leave my fiance. With this being said I have also been...

What can I do to stop remembering that my ex cheated on me? And why did he cheat, with prior intent, and continue to see me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5890 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I am trying to understand why my boyfriend cheated on me. Not just once- but many times, with different girls. These weren't one-night stands after getting drunk, but planned dates. Why was he even with me if he was interested in all these other ...

What do these suprise texts from my ex mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5889 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - I split with my ex 6 weeks ago as he went off wiv another girl. We had a big row about it cos I wanted him back and we were quite nasty to each other. Last week, Id had enough of rowing with him and just decided to be nice and friendly to keep the ...

My ex gf is flirting with me! What's with the change in behaviour?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - My ex of two years has started flirt with me stare at me and be very nice towards me. For several months she wouldnt even speak. I found out she was seeing someone else so i walked away. We work together and see each other perhaps once or twic a d...

Two weeks ago she wanted to have children with me, now she has moved on with another guy, we are all coworkers! Help me channel my emotions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5890 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - I was dating this girl for 7 months, things were going well, until we started talking about things we want in the future. Trying to see if we was eye to eye on those things. Along in the mist of this she got scared saying things was moving to fast. ...

I cheated on her and she now has someone else. How can I get her out my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5731 days ago

27 September 2008 (F) - hi?i just want to get some advice cause i don't know what to do. There is something that i can't let go. It's that i cheated someone. Someone that became special to me. I know that it's not right to love in the same sex but i did. It starts when i ...

Two girls. One's my ex-girlfriend, the other a girl who likes me, but I don't like her that way. What do I do? what does it mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5887 days ago

27 September 2008 (M) - Ok, so here's the deal. About a month ago my girlfriend broke up with me. About two weeks ago, she was acting like nothing was wrong and was all touchy-feely to the extent that people have been asking if we were going back out. Its hard to just...

An older woman who broke my heart, is dating someone else yet I still want her back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5888 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - I started dating a woman approximately a dozen years older than me. She was fresh out of a long marriage. We had a very strong relationship and she said she loved me and did all sorts of romantic things to back it up. The problem was we had me...

Do I give up this great girlfriend to make life easier with regard to seeing my son? Or should I stand my ground?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - Hi I asked for help about a month ago and appreciated everyone's answers but need some advice again. Since my last posting I approached T and asked her to be straight with me regarding how we were. She said she liked me and would like to see i...

Seeing them kiss makes me feel uncomfortable, but I don't have feelings for him. How do I get this out of my mind?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5884 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - Hello. Let me tell you the background of this story first. I went out with a guy in the beggining of this year. We went out for about 4 months and something happened between us so i broke up with him. Our relationship became difficult but we still ...

My boyfriend is still close to his soon to be ex wife and it really annoys me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is still close to his soon to be ex wife and it really annoys me. they talk regularly on the phone, text a lot and meet up whenever they can. she lives over 200 miles away now but she is a threat to my relationship. my boyfriend chris ...

I can't seem to get over this guy I was with for a year.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5881 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I can't seem to get over this guy I was with for a year. He is half my age, has a girlfriend and a kid that he is still with. The whole time he kept telling me it was over for them but he couldn't leave because she would be a jerk about custody. He ...

My ex returned to his ex, it's getting confusing and I can't understand why suddenly he's insisting on being my friend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

26 September 2008 (M) - I'm 27 and had been seeing this 19 year old guy for four months. We had quite a pleasant relationship and I grew very fond of him. Then suddenly he wanted to end it because he said that he can't handle the emotions. He comes from a tough past and ...

What should I do about my ex who says has feelings for me but... loves his girlfriend? She has treated him horribly!

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26 September 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with my ex for 4 years that ended a year ago. We have a 3 year old son together, and he is now dating a girl he cheated on my with. For the last year he has been telling me he still has strong feelings for me. Over the ...

Why do I still have feelings for my best friend's current girlfriend? What do you think about their situation?

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26 September 2008 (M) - Since January I have been really digging this girl that had become a really good friend. I notified this to my bestfriend and encouraged me to go on and try to ask her out. He went on encouraging my feelings toward her. I never got the courage to ...

Did I do the right thing to break up with him? I miss him but he made me feel so unimportant, taunted me, never appreciated/complimented me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5891 days ago

26 September 2008 (F) - I met my bf couple of years back and from then on I don’t remember not loving him..we were away for more than 6 months due to work but then started living in the same city again.. problems started the night of our first anniversary.. he proposed me ...

His wife passed away a few years ago. Is it safe to be with him now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5892 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - almost 30years ago I had a relationship which lasted for 3 years, he was married, we had a child who is now 27yrs old, He chose to stay with his wife and family, My son wanted to meet his father, Contact has been made,we have spoken, his wife pa...

I see the guy I had an affair with every day, he now has a girlfriend while I am single, I can't get myself to date others because I'm stuck on him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

25 September 2008 (F) - (I am completely in love with a guy who works with me. We had an affair for 18 months when I was divorcing my husband and his girlfriend had left him. We are sexualy crazy about each other but, he is not sure if something else is there. A couple of ...