A
female
age
41-50,
*licia
writes:The man who left me for his baby mama got married this weekend. i hurt like hell but i guess for me this was closure.however i am left feeling worthless and not good enough and am consequently feeling sorry for myself. i am in another relationship but i have pointed out to the guy that its on a trial basis as i was with him before and we broke up coz he just wasnt treating me right and i was unhappy.do you think maybe i went back to this guy because i am afraid of ending up alone? what if i do break up with him and noone wants to be with me? i am afraid to find a completely new relationship. i still love my old flame but sometimes when i sit and contemplate i feel he will never change and things will get bad again. he is the sweetest man though there are just somethings that make me unhappy. Maybe i am being fussy. what you think.i am one confused woman and i feel stuck in one place with my relationships. please help.
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (29 September 2008):
 I feel bad for you. You know people are going to tell you that you need to get to know yourself more first, but you are thirty to thirty-five years old! That's a long time to wait to get to know yourself. But that is how the world works-school, school, work, etc. to where we end up having barely ne time to get to know ourselves. You should be more descriptive. What are some things that he is doing that you are getting upset about? If he won't take you out to dinner every night, and this is a problem, yes you are being fussy.
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