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writes:I'm very confused at this point. Here's the deal, I'm currently in a relationship that has been going on for just a month. 2 weeks before i got with this guy, my ex and I had just broken up. I would sometimes space out while talking to my current boyfriend and think about my ex. Without meaning to, i would compare the two of them and there would always be something that i love more about my ex than my current boyfriend. When i would talk to my ex boyfriend, it was like a non stop marathon that would continue until one of us would get either sleepy or busy. When i talk to my current boyfriend, yeah there are times when we have stuff to talk about, but small talk stinks! Last night, my ex called me back and i asked him what he wanted, he said that he wanted to talk about me and we ended up talking about us. It was like nothing had every happened. It actually has always been like that with me and him (I've known him for almost 2 years) And with my current boyfriend, i've only known him for a month and a half now, i feel SOMETHING for him but im not sure if its love. and i KNOW i love my ex, still. My question is what should i do about this? because i've already talked to all my friends about it and they all tell me what i DON'T want to hear. the thing about me is that i ALWAYS follow my heart. and they tell me to forget about my ex because things are great with my current boyfriend. but im so confused, i know i can't have both of them, i'm just not like that. so what do i do?
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reader, x~Optimistic_Help~x  +, writes (28 September 2008):
If you always follow your heart then why are you on here?
Do what your heart is telling you!
If you are not completely sure that your current boyfriend is what you want then maybe it would be better for both of you if you split.
Especially if you are still in love with your ex and he still loves you...
But then you have to ask yurself, " are the reasons we broke up in the first place still there? if so can you overcome them?"
Becuase if they are still there and you cnt overcome them then in the end you will only get hurt again
I hope my advice helped =]
But at the end of the day... only you know what your heart is telling you to do for the best
Good luck =]
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reader, gk123456789 +, writes (28 September 2008):
you are obviously still into your ex. your friends know the guys, and I dont and if they are saying to stay with your current boyfriend and ditch your ex, they are probably right. afterall they know the two guys. never the less you have to end things with one of them. so give the new guy a chance and get over your ex, remember you broke up for a reason. or get back with your ex because you still have feelings for him, but bear in mind, everyone always has some sort of feelings for an ex partner.
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