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41-50,
anonymous
writes:My abusive boyfriend dumped me and i am devastated and torn i know it was for the best but im consumed with pain and confusion because i did everything for him i forgave him for cheating on me and getting his ex pregnant then cheating on me with my friend, i forgave him for hitting me i forgave him for putting me down and humiliating me in front of friends and family and for breaking my things when he was mad i forgave him for stealing money from me once i never tried to get back at him or cheated on him and i dont see why after all that he wont even say hes sorry or act like he has any remorse for what he put me through all he can say is your a better person than me get over it he says its not his fault i loved him and put up with it ? this is killing me please someone help me understand so i can start healing
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reader, breathless  +, writes (28 September 2008):
this man is worthless dont waste your time on a loser,you can do a lot better and love someone who loves you in the same way
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reader, Mark123456  +, writes (28 September 2008):
duskyrowe is right! you should not wast you kind and trusting being on this poor exuse for a man!! sorry i mean child!!!!! I cant beleave a woman would put up with that!!! If you are on the coast of australia leave a thread and and i will leave my number! we should catch up for a drink and a yarn.. tisss good to clear your head as i have just escaped from a Similar situation. if i could find a woman that wont yell at me for drinking out of the milk carton would be heaven!!! hope to hear back !!! Mark
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reader, duskyrowe +, writes (28 September 2008):
 Darling why do you want this loser back into your life?
He humiliates you, cheats, lie mentally and physically abuses you. This was not love, this was a complete and utter nightmare and you my darling deserve better.
Please be on your own for a while, so that you can regain your self-esteem, and self-worth that this PONDLIFE had stripped from you. You need to learn to learn to love yourself before you get into another relationship.
Get on with your life and forget all about him, do not even give this scumbag the time of day. Good luck hun xx.
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