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My husband's ex interferes with our marriage! Any advice?

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Question - (30 September 2008) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I hae been married to my husband for two years. His ex-wife has been a constant interference in our marriage. At one point he was discussing our relationship with her and getting advice, he also was talking to her anywhere from 3 to 6 times a day. He always said it was about their kids but I have a difficult time believing what he says. When she is around he acts nervous and doesn't pay any attention to me. He has gone behind my back multiple times and given her exactly what she wants with no regard for me or decisions we have made together. He doesn't defend my when she is cussing me and saying untrue statements. The phone calls have been minimized due to my calling her and threatening to contact her new husband and letting him know what she is doing. I dont trust him and the love I once had is gone. We have a child together and I think children need both parents but I don't know how long I can continue this way. How do you get passed the hurt and resentment to move on and make it work. I just cant do it!

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