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writes:we were goin for 2 months we broke up 3 months ago i want to get him a birthday present coz his b-day's in 2 weeks but im not sure i shud we still talk but we aren't as close as we used 2 be i appreciate all the help given thanks x
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reader, michelleAKAmandi  +, writes (29 September 2008):
 You are more than welcome sweetie.
You could always follow giving him the gift with a comment that you just thought it would be nice to get him a gift, and since you do still have feelings for him, it will be fine if it makes your feelings obvious. Just be aware that it may not change anything from his side so you are not terribly disappointed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advice he hasn't got a girlfriend but im worried getting him a present would make it obvious that i still have feelings for him. Also i just want it to be something he'd like coz i still think he's a great friend
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reader, michelleAKAmandi +, writes (28 September 2008):
Hello,
I don't see the harm in giving him a birthday present if you are doing out of kindness.
Are you expecting it to bring you closer? If so, be ready to accept the fact that it may not. If you are still friends with him, I would think it is perfectly fine.
Does he have a new girlfriend? If so, in this case, be aware that it cause him trouble with her. She may not take lightly to the fact that an ex is giving him gifts.
I hope this helps!!
Take care,
Michelle
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