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Archived questions from: March, 2007 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

Best friends for 7yrs a couple for 3 and a half yrs, Hes the one.. but suddenly he ended it! How can I get through this!!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

31 March 2007 (F) - I have/had been going out with my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. We met 10 years ago and were best friends for 7 years before finally getting together. He had always had feelings for me but I never felt the same until 3 1/2 years ago when we decided to ...

We broke up after 5 years, shes my one true love, should I leave the door open to get back or cut all ties ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

31 March 2007 (M) - Should I cut off all all contact with my ex or is it worth keeping open lines of communication? We were together for 5 years. We lived together and owned a home. We were best friends and were making plans for marrige. I came home from work one da...

Dating 6 months and he tells me he doesnt feel the same anymore! How can I get him to like me or move on!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

31 March 2007 (F) - My boyfriend that i have been dating for 6 months all of a sudden tells me one night that he doesn't feel the same way about me that he used to and he thinks we should break up. All of my friends had been telling me for a long time to break up with ...

I broke up as she was getting hurt, shes taken it badly and now I think she might hurt herself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

31 March 2007 (M) - i just broke up with my girlfriend.... and she is taking it too seriously..... i tried to explain the reason why i am breaking up with her but she wouldn't listen to me.... the reason why we broke up was because she was always getting hurt anytime ...

We broke up as he cheated, He said we can be friends, but where do I draw the line as I was so supportive to him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

31 March 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of six months and I broke up. He cheated on me. But i still care about him!!! I can't seem to let him go. He said we could still be friends but it was up to me and I said yes. He's going through a REALLY hectic, stressful time in his ...

I have started missing my ex again and thinking that we have got what it takes to work things out.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I have started missing my ex again and thinking that we have got what it takes to work things out. I think it would be a waste to not work it out. Bascially I still love him, and he is not showing any signs of anything, apart from he is angry at ...

Is it normal to chase a girl for 2 years that you've only been with for one month?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

30 March 2007 (M) - hello Is it normal to run behind a girl for 2 years that you had a relationship with for only one month? Why does it feel like I have to? I've got no control over my feelings. Is this romance or madness? thank you...

I'm sure his ex will think he cheated on her with me but that's NOT the case!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I saw my boyfriend for the first time in a while yesturday and we were going to keep it a secret us seeing each other as he has just come out of a relationship. his ex girlfriend has moved on already and has got a new boyfriend, when he came to mine ...

What can I do to speed up the process of getting back with my ex!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - Help! Right as I thought I was getting over my ex, he came back into my life. At first he started saying don't do anything with any other guys, then he said do what feels right. He says he is confused and not sure what to think about me and him. I...

My ex is upset, my friend is upset, how do I fix things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - So, me and my ex were texting each other...things were going great...we were joking around and then he said, "hey, well my sister told me that she found out that I fingered you." And then I freaked out because his sister is my friend...and now ...

is there evidence of couples getting together after a long struggle of distance and silly problems...?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6436 days ago

30 March 2007 (F) - I met an amazing guy last year and we were dating for a month before he went to Fiji for 6 months. This was originally planned before we even met, and I wanted a relationship from him, but he insisted it wasn't a good idea because he was going to ...

Is this too soon to be getting engaged ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - me and my boyfriend were dating for seven months an we split up for two years we are now getting back together and he wants to marry me and i want to marry him but be engaged for about two years is this too soon for our relationship?...

Im so confused who to pick, guy number one or guy number two!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6317 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - Need help ASAP! I have two very great men that both love me. I was in a relationship with a guy for around 5 years, my first high school love. I am now 23 he is 26. We broke it off a couple years ago but still never stopped talking and doing ...

How can you stop loving someone!!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6436 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - How do you stop liking/loving someone? Thanks to people who reply to this question....

My ex keeps running away all the time, could it be that shes jealous ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

29 March 2007 (M) - My ex girlfriend lived with her friend for 5 years but when her friend was going to get married my ex got upset and ran to her other best friend, but now she is married she is running away again. What does this mean?she went to spain to escape came ...

I want to date this guy but dont seem to trust him, is it because my ex ran off with my cousin ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - i have two problems...1.i was seeing this guy who i loved so much for 7 months recently he just stopped showing interest in me and suddenly broke up with because he says he has fallen for my cousin who is also my best friend.my cousin claims there ...

My current BF has become uncomfortbale with me seeing my Ex, hes making me choose!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - I have an ex bf whom I am friends with. We talk on the phone sometimes and have dinner or coffee sometimes. We have not been a couple for 6yrs. My current bf whom I have been with for 9months has a problem with my friendship with my ex. He feels ...

Not heard from her in months! She rang me! Why ? Thought we had moved on!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

29 March 2007 (M) - I met this girl I liked a lot, we went out for a few months and wires got crossed and it ended up her finishing with me. I tried to get her back she just played around. Then one day I was with another girl who was just a friend, we bumped into my ...

4 years ago his girlfriend killed herself, Hes still hurting over it, how can I help him, I truly love him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

29 March 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much but he has a problem I genuinly don't know how to help him with. 4 years ago, his girlfriend killed herself and we have just gone past her anniversary recently, which has really got to him. He still feels like he co...

She's split up with me to get her feelings for her ex bf in order. Should I wait for her or just move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

28 March 2007 (M) - I was dumped by a girl I had been seeing for 2 months last week. She said it was because she still loved her previous b/f. She knows she can't go back to him but said if we stayed together she couldn't have feelings for me until she sorted her head ...

Having sex with the ex and spending time with him... Do you think he has any intentions of getting back with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - hey! I broke up with my BF of over 18 months over a year ago, he got with someone else soon after but they broke up around xmas time! For the last 2 months I've seen him at least once a week, we get along so well and are always laughing, and we have ...

I think he's going back to his ex gf and I don't want to lose him! What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6438 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - Right, basically and this is the basics cz i am in a very very very complicated situation. My ex of 3 yrs got back in contact with me about a yr ago, and he still has feelings for me and i feel the same about him but at the time he had a girlfriend. ...

He dumped me got with her straight away, now he wont dump her for me and says hes confused!!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - Hiya, i was goin out with this lad for nealry a year, we had some rocky times, a couple of weeks ago i found out he was txting a girl which i new from school, that now goes to his college. i broke up with him on friday nearly 3 weeks ago and 2 days ...

She's trying to blackmail me, but it wont just effect me other people will be involved! Please advise what to do ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

28 March 2007 (M) - I would appreciate your help and advice on this. my question is do you ever have to stand down your grounds if someone try to blackmail you? lets say that action may effect other poeples and thier families emotionally? I can't just bac...

We split 2 years ago, Should I try and win her back ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

28 March 2007 (M) - Would you try win your girlfriend back even though its 2 years since split up? My ex still keeps in touch, she moved to spain for a while and sent me a text to keep in touch. she once said i liked you soooooooooooo much its a shame we argued all ...

His ex wife is making our lives miserable...what can we do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

28 March 2007 (F) - My fiance and I will be getting married this summer. Our relationship is great and, I believe, we have done an amazing job of combining our immediate families. (we both have children from previous relationships.) The problem is his narcissistic ...

How can I get over my guilt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) - Please can somebody help me get over my guilt. I once betrayed my best mate, I slept with his ex girlfriend and she had our child, why I dont know. What came over me I guess I was feeling low and she was there offering herself to me and I took wha...

I never stopped loving her, in fact I am STILL in love...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - in love after a recent breakup..... Recently (feb '07) my partner ended our relationship because I became emotionally detached and this hurt her very much. Unfortunately I was dealing with a traumatic issue that came up and I was having a difficul...

How can I help her? What can I do to make her feel better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6440 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) - hi, i will really appreciate any unbiased help with this. Me and who is now my ex, met in 2004 in autralia when we were backpacking. in a few weeks we were having a live in relatioship. and we haven't looked back. i moved to canada, here ho...

How can I get back with my ex? I've been a right prat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) - me and my ex have split 4 months ago due to certain incidents, I was a rite dick to be fair. We had a brief moment where things were going well. I've changed so much since we split and I realized how much she means to me, we have a baby together i ...

My ex bf gives me nasty looks and I don't know why he's doing that! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6440 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - Whenever I see my ex, he either gives me weird, nasty looks or whispers to his mates about me. I dont understand why he is doing it, we split up nearly 2 years ago because he left me for someone else, so it should be me that has a problem with ...

We have split and hes making it really hard to sell our jointly owned house! Would getting a solictor be too aggressive ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6440 days ago

27 March 2007 (F) - I finished with my partner of five years, two months ago, mainly because he was physically and verbally abusive. He is a serious control freak and hates the idea that it's me who has finally finished. He's seeing a psychologist for his anger and ...

My girlfriend said she would never get back with me, so why does she still contact me!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) - My girlfriend said she would never get back with me!! I wrote an email, i love you but we have to move on now. take care. So why does she still phone me????? Seems that when she is lonely and things go wrong in her life she comes to me Plea...

Shes my first girlfriend and I think shes too good for me! Im worried that Im going to do something stupid and lose her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

27 March 2007 (M) - hey guys!! I am 20years old and have just got my first girlfriend, she was my friend before for about four years. Four years ago when we first met she told me she liked me but at the time i was arrogant n thort i could do better because i had ot...

I think I'm still in love with my ex as I can't stop thinking about him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6439 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - Hey there. I am very confused and dunno what to do. My first love and I went out for nearly 6 years, it started out really well, we got engaged after 3 years and I thought I would spend the rest of my life with him. But things changed. We are ...

My ex was mean to me after I cheated on him - how do I get over him??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - omg i need help!! i cheated on my ex while i was a camp....oh i don't know a long time ago! and after that he hated me for a really long time (like 5 months) but then we went out again, and things didn't work out for either of us. things were kinda ...

I'm married but find myself thinking of my ex! It's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - I just don't know why I feel this way about an ex. He is now with someone else and is happy. He always smiles at me when he sees me and comments on how lovely I look. We finished 4 years ago. I am married to such a wonderful man and love him with ...

He seems to think he has a right to look at his ex's mail. What do you think ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - my BF and I were at his ex's house picking up his son and she wasn't home. I felt strange going in but they both asked me to as they didn't see it as a problem. while in her house, my ex proceeded to look through her mail and stuff she had laying ...

She said lets move on, but still wont stop contacting me!? Im confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6437 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - Hi just want some advice on a relathiship with my now ex-girlfriend. I lived in Ireland and came to visit my gran while here i met a girl, she said she would like to get to know me so it would be better if i moved over here to England, i dd and when...

Im feeling so ill since he told me he wasnt " in Love" with me, how will I ever get over this ??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6441 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - i have been seeing a fella now for six months though we do know each other many years. we are both separated and going through transitions but he now holds my heart, at the weekend he told me he loves me but not in love with me and i am ill over it. ...

I cheated and the guilt is killing me!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6441 days ago

26 March 2007 (M) - I cheated and the guilt is killing me. I was away on business, my fiancee and young baby at home. Me and my ex met up for a drink, literally to say hello and see how eachother was getting on. We had a few too many, and as i hadn't yet booked a hot...

My ex called to meet up with me and then stood me up! What's up with this guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

26 March 2007 (F) - my ex got bk in contact...he arranged wiv me that we'd go out last nite at hlf 6 but it me 4 me to ring him 2 ask if he was still cmin but didnt show up!!! what is goin on? y arrange something wiv me? hes 25 by the way...

I so want us to work but I can't seem to get his ex out of my head.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6440 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over 9 months now, and we had the most amazing time together. We were friends for over a year before we got together and I am so in love with him. The problem? I can't get his ex girlfriend out of my head. I don't ...

Do people sometimes keep a tie with their ex because they want to keep the door open to sleep with them again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6437 days ago

25 March 2007 (F) - I was going out with a guy for a couple of months. He ended it. I told him I would back off and wished him well. For some reason he seems to really want my friendship but I am finding this a tall order. Things ended in a rather hurtful way and he ...

Huge trust problems with my partner. Can anyone advise me on what I should do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6438 days ago

24 March 2007 (F) - I really need an answer to this problem... I am a very honest and devoted person and seem to have alot of trust issues with my partner. He hides alot of things from me, and lies alot. He has kids by 3 different women which I went thr...

She assures me she loves me, but Im not sure how to act as she keeps feeling suffocated!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

23 March 2007 (M) - Hmmm. I'm a little confused here. So around January, the most amazing 6 or 7 months that I've had w/ anyone. My girlfriend broke up w/ me almost w/o a warning. No fight, no bad feelings, nothing. She freaked out on the phone and after crying hys...

How do I tell my bf thats hes dull and boring and that I want to date my ex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - I'm emotional troubled. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. I got with him right after I broke up with my ex. Our relationship is so dull and boring. We can't even hold up a 10 min conversation on the telephone. So in the end I've ...

I just recently saw my ex after 10 months, we had sex, now he wants friends with benefits!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6229 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - I just saw my ex-boyfriend after 10 months today. We haven't talked that much in between, but all of a sudden started talking again and made plans to meet today. We hit off pretty well, and we both were flirting with each other A LOT. And then he ...

I cant get over him, we broke up last summer and I still cant deal with it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

23 March 2007 (F) - I can't seem to get over my Ex boyfriend. is there anything I can do? I find myself wishing he would call and the reason we broke up was he is moving to another state. We broke up last summer and i thought i would be over it by now. What shoul...

How should I say sorry and ask to start over??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6444 days ago

22 March 2007 (F) - I have been broken up with my ex for almost five months now and I have been getting on with my life, am really busy with friends and am beginning to feel happy with myself and my life again. But I cant shake the feeling that I want to give thi...