A
male
age
51-59,
*ean90
writes:I met this girl I liked a lot, we went out for a few months and wires got crossed and it ended up her finishing with me. I tried to get her back she just played around. Then one day I was with another girl who was just a friend, we bumped into my ex-girlfriends friend. The next day I got a text from my ex saying to meet up. But I had no credit on my phone to text her back the next day my ex came knocking on my door, saying she wanted to get back with me. We got back together until she started been nasty to me. So I decided to finish with her, weeks later I regretted it and wanted her back she said no just want to be friends.6 Months had passed and as she was in another city I mailed her saying I wish it would have worked out between us. I still cared and loved her. She said she liked me soooooooooooo much, anyway you were my favourite.I then decided to tell her I just cant be friends with her, I know I need to let you go I love you care about you and give anything to get you back. But I feel you will never give it another go. So I think its time to move on. Told her to take care. She never replied to my email. I bumped into her twice since at get together but I ignored her kept away because I thought she might have mailed me back and said something like hope you find happiness too. I was hurt that she didn’t. That’s why I kept away from her.Not heard from her in Months then she phones me, oh I was going to delete your number thought you had moved back to Ireland, that’s were I am from. I was very surprised it was her. Thought me emailing her and telling her to move on, and ignoring her would tell her to leave me alone.Can anyone tell me why you think she phoned? It was just general chat. Thought she might have deleted my number months ago. My friends say she phoned expecting me to phone or text her back? What do you think, does she still like me? If you are a girl and I mailed you and ignored you, would you still phone me?Still in love with this girl.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Your affection is really wasted here and there is really no hope that this relationship will work out. It hasn't worked out in the past because she was bad to you and it is time to move on and find someone who treats you with respect. She clearly knows you like her, and she likes that - you are her comfort blanket during lonely moments - she enjoys keeping you dangling. She came back when she heard you had a female friend around because she likes the attention she gets from dating you. It is ok to like someone but it is not ok to let them treat you badly - I wouldn't try to make contact with her again. If you come running everytime she snaps her fingers then years of emotional torture will follow...and it distracts you from finding someone who will treat you nicely.
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