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writes:Need help ASAP! I have two very great men that both love me. I was in a relationship with a guy for around 5 years, my first high school love. I am now 23 he is 26. We broke it off a couple years ago but still never stopped talking and doing things together. In the mean time I met a very nice younger man which 20 I have dated them . Guy # 1 works alot and I feel lonely a lot when I was with him but he worked because he needs to most the time. I just feel that if he did truely care he would make more time for me as well. There's been many of nights I have set with him while he worked. I like to do fun things, which guy #2 loves being with me and spends all the time he can with me. I have been talking to both but there this has got to stop! I have driven my self crazy and it's not fair to either of them. Guy # 1 is a stable steady guy, Guy # 2 is to but a little more risky with things. I feel like guy 2 knows me better than anyone and I've been able to talk to him even about this situation. Guy # 1 is hard to talk to about things and would tell me we are done if I can't decide. Guy # 2 has stuck by me for 2 years through this and has always been my friend no matter what. Guy #1 has been to but not as much. Please help I am so confused and I don't want to make the wrong decision. Also when I do choose I will always be thinking about the other I did not choose and wonder if I have made the correct choice? Reply to this Question
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reader, Butterflyfly  +, writes (28 July 2007):
 it although sounds like none jumps out in your mind now.you wrote more positive htings about guy no 2 than guy no 1 tho.think about more good and bads or what makes oyu happy with both of them and what you can do without at both of them, if one's to go. it seems to me u have to get a piece of paper split it in 2 and bullet point all the thoughts in your mind concerning this ohhhhh :).unless.. you test them. think about a scenario and how you would want them to react to it and see who is closest to your liking.let us know!!
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reader, Ask Heather +, writes (29 March 2007):
 You`re confused, I`m confused! Guy No 1, Guy No 2, Guy No 1, Guy No 2. I take my hat off to Silence is Golden! !
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reader, Silence is Golden +, writes (29 March 2007):
They say time heals all wounds. Have you forgotten how you felt when you were with Guy number 1?? it obviously wasnt working out and thats why you finished it. You feel so much for him because you have spend 5 years of your life with him. Now that you are not a couple memories of all the good old times are floading back which can be quite exciting BUT deep in your heart you know its not right. Guy number 2 after what you wrote black in white in this coloum is the much better and safter option. He loves you unconditionally. Maybe you feel there is something missing in your current relationship and therefore the confusion. Try talking to guy number 2 about what you feel is missing in your relationship or maybe go away on holiday together and spend some time alone. Your heart will soon tell you where you belong. Good Luck!
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