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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:omg i need help!! i cheated on my ex while i was a camp....oh i don't know a long time ago! and after that he hated me for a really long time (like 5 months) but then we went out again, and things didn't work out for either of us. things were kinda ok with us, but we were ok for a little while longer.now since then i have gone out with many guys, but my ex just got his second gf....and i don't know im having such a big problem with this....i mean i still love my ex. but i mean he has called me a whore, slut, and every version of that many many many times! yes i have made sum stupid mistakes like i sent dirty pics to this one guy, and he ended up showing them to my ex, so now my ex is even more mean to me (even though im fixing myself, and im not going to do somemthing stupid like that agian!) i mean i also made out with this one guy, and he got pretty mad about that, and he thought i was more of a slut (this came before i sent the pics) but he ended up just forgeting about it, and we were good untill i sent those pics....but even though he is soo mean to me, he calls me the worst things, he hurts me soo badly! i still love him! i cant get over him! it just wont work! ive tired...but i just cant stop! and i really like this other guy.....but....i still cant stop loving my ex! how can i get over this cruel mean guy?!
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reader, agony_uncle_r  +, writes (26 March 2007):
totally agree with the previous advice, it seems you have no respect for yourself, so how can you expect others to respect you?..your under 15 and sending pictures of yourself to boys and having 'many guys'. your still just a young woman, if you dont want to be called those names then dont act like those things.im sorry to be harsh, its not usually my method but in some cases its neededhe has every right to be angry if you cheated on him, however name calling gets neither of you anywhere and if he doesnt like you then he should just move on and be with this other girlyou on the other hand hun; leave this boy alone, youve hurt him once before, learn some self respect and learn that relationships arent just physical and learn what faithfull loyal relationships are (i know your young, but start how you mean to go on)if you need a deeper talk feel free to ask
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reader, Jendorset +, writes (26 March 2007):
You hurt him, so hes hurting you. If you think you cant get over him, then you need to ask him for another chance. How do you exspect your ex or anyone else to respect you if you dont respect yourself. You even younger than me, stop making out with everyone and sending dirty pics. You will get a bad reputation.
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