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writes:hey! I broke up with my BF of over 18 months over a year ago, he got with someone else soon after but they broke up around xmas time! For the last 2 months I've seen him at least once a week, we get along so well and are always laughing, and we have had sex on occasions. The thing is i really have fallin for him again, i speak 2 him everyday n miss him like mad when i'm not with him, he tells me he loves me all the time and hes ever so sweet! Yesterday when i was over his i accidently called him my BF,i felt rather embarrassed but all he did was laugh, say 'dont go red ya dafty' n kiss me. Am not sure wer this is goin, any1 any idea on wetha u think we'll end up back 2getha? or What my Ex thinks is goin on? Do you think he has any intentions of getting back with me? please help im so confused.
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (29 March 2007):
 Your welcome... Good luck and Let me know how it goes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007): i just wanted 2 thank Wendy for her reply! It was so so helpful! i havent had the opportunity to ask him yet as i feel i need to wait for the right moment but thank u so much for pushing me to do this. Its something i really do need to do! thanks again for your advice! X x x
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (29 March 2007):
I really think you need to ask him hun. There could be a couple of ways this could go...
He's happy to hang out with you and have a laugh and have sex, so why does he need to make any changes ? He could just be doing what come naturally and what he feels comfortable with, and just sees you as a friend with extras, Or he could be acting this way because he wants to get back with you. Only he knows.
The fact he tells you he loves you should indicate that its more than sex, but that could also be to keep you sweet ?
Im not sure why you guys broke up ? Its often the case that because you broke up and you end up meeting up and having sex it just feels natural and it often doesnt go anywhere, but one always falls harder than the other. I couldnt really say for sure which is the case here..... You really should be able to say to him how about giving us another go and not feel embarrased by it... you are having sex and hes told you he loves you, if this is the case then what have you got to lose by asking ? You need to know one way or the other right ? and the only one that knows is him! be brave, ask him, at least you will know where you stand. The signs all sound good and it could just be thats hes a little shy about mentioning it too as you broke up before... It could be a case of both of you wondering whats going to happen.... Go on have that chat, I hope it works out for you.
Take care x x
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