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Archived questions from: December, 2006 (see latest in The ex-factor category)

The ex-factor: Help and advice

My ex bf treated his ex gf like a pricess, but not me! Why do guys not treat all their gf's the same...what was wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

31 December 2006 (F) - Do guys treat all of their girlfriends the same? See my ex didn’t treat me like the princess he claimed he treated his ex like. I keep thinking it must be something I was doing wrong and I guess I would get some reassurance if I knew he treated ...

She hangs with her ex bf and I don't like it! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6538 days ago

31 December 2006 (M) - i have been seeing my current girlfriend now for two months. she hangs out with her ex when i am not around and she invites him over to her house even when i am there. i have told her that i don't think it's right but she says they are just friends ...

I met up with one of my exes again and can't remember anything about him. Why is this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6537 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - i have a weird thing goin on. i was in a serious r'ship with a guy goin back 6 yrs ago which lasted 2yrs. we didnt communicate well back then, and we were young. and things fizzled out due to stuff we both had done, he broke my heart, but i probably...

Should I call my ex bf and give a New Year's greeting?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago. He moved away and has a new girlfriend. I am dating now but I have still not met someone special. I will be going to the city that my ex lives in for a few days next week. I had no intention of ...

I'm in a new relationship but my heart aches for my ex bf! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6540 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - About 4 years ago I was dating this guy that I was head over heels for. Unfortunatly we ended up breaking up. We are now both in new relationships but I miss him. I still have strong feelings for him and still love him. I love my boyfriend now ...

My ex bf is dating my best friend and I still have strong feelings for him! What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6481 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - my ex bf is dating my best friend but i still have feelings for him. my boyfriend of 2yrs told me he liked my friend of almost 5yrs. at the time we were having problems but were still sexually involved. my friend knew i still loved him cos i told h...

The mystery woman on his message machine was his ex gf! She wants him back--so what should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

30 December 2006 (F) - I have been with my current bf since the first of July 06. We live together and things were going so good, that is until these phone calls started coming in. There is a caller ID and also an answering machine for messages. Well, this female v...

He has baggage..a lot of it! A bitter ex wife, a pregnant ex gf...who are constantly harrassing us! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

29 December 2006 (F) - i have finally found what i need in a man...but he has some baggage i am unsure of how to deal with! he is married but seperated...due for divorce in feb. he has two kids...the mother causes havoc because i am in his life. he was also seeing a girl ...

His ex gf sent him a christmas card and I'm wondering...is she just keeping him strung along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5914 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been together almost 6 months. He lives 50 miles away, we have our own houses and we see each other every weekend and in the week. He had a girlfriend and they kind of drifted apart after three years - 3 yrs ago (she couldn't ...

I still have that lingering fear that he's gonna change

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6542 days ago

28 December 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a while now and he's been talking about getting a place with me. I'd be totally for it except my last boyfriend acted almost the same way in the beginning but in the end turned out to be really mentally ...

This is a long one but it's worth it..... What is her game?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6539 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - Hi there... I am 25, male, please help. (This may take a while, sorry its so long). Ive been going with a girl for well over a year now, we used to be best friends, and always have been. There was always chemistry between us, but she was wit...

My ex boyfriend just used me for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6543 days ago

27 December 2006 (F) - My ex bf just wanted me for sex and used a lame excuse to break up with me, and i've found out that my current bf's friend is best friends with my ex, so when my ex found out that i was going out with my current bf he gave like some weird look or ...

Worried that my ex will start dating one of my friends!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6543 days ago

27 December 2006 (M) - Worried about my ex and one of my best friends dating. My ex girlfriend has a blog where she mentioned that she can hardly go without a day without talking to him and she calls him her "bestfriend." She goes on to say that he is one of three guys ...

My girlfriend's old boyfriend is always texting and calling her... it drives me nuts!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6541 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - Does i bother anyone elce when your girls old bf is always texting her or callin her, it really makes me mad! he asked her to get ack with him but she said she wouldnt but i already knew she wouldnt. and she works at a store where her old bf is ...

This could really be my happy chance but I'm so afraid of rubbing anyone up the wrong way! I need your advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I wonder if you can help me sort this situation out? I have recently ended a relationship that has been going on for two years with my boyfriend. The problem was that I was never really attracted to him and did not fall madly i...

How do I get the girl I'm seeing to forget her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6081 days ago

26 December 2006 (M) - How do i get the girl im seeing to forget her ex, Her Ex was her first Boy friend she had and first person she had sex with,she love him still But is there anything i can do to make her forget about her ex It doesn't help that they still...

I don't know if I should visit his house this year or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

26 December 2006 (F) - My family and I are due to go to my ex’s (we have all been very close family friends for years) for Boxing Day. My ex and I only split up 1 week ago. He seemed very concerned that I did not hate him and he said that he really liked me and started ...

My ex bf is clingy and always tries to control my life! Any advice on what I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - my ex boyfreind is really clingy. He always wants me to hang out with him and if i go somwhere else he always has to know. I want to be his freind but i can't stand how he always tries to control my life. I don't wnat to hurt him but i don't know ...

I used my ex bf as a rebound and now I feel bad I used him! How do I get out of this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

25 December 2006 (F) - I dated this guy for 5 months.I decided that we werent right for eachother so we started to become friends But then I started dating this other guy who I cought cheating on me so I kicked him to the curb and I used my ex as a rebound.I know I ...

My boyfriends EX is really hassling me, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6543 days ago

24 December 2006 (F) - im not sure how much i can take this but my bf ex is sending me mental she keeps adding me on myspace at school she asking why did i block her on msn and coz the only way to town is pass her house she tell my bf who im going town with and wat time ...

Sex didn't draw us together..it drew us apart! Does it have to do with his fixation on his ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6547 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - I am feeling shell-shocked at the things my ex (who has a neurological condition so there is no tact in his communication) said to me when we split up because they do not ring true at all (he is in his 20’s: I am early 30’s). I have known him ...

Can you guys tell me how this 'friends with the ex thing' works because it has me baffled!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6547 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - Can you guys tell me how this friends with ex things works because it has me baffled!!! How can you truly be friends with an ex when one part of the couple has rejected the other or both parts have? What are the reasons that an ex would want to be ...

He puts his friendship with his ex gf..before me! Should I stay?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - I like this guy but he is not that atractive,he can be anoying most of the time,and his ex girlfriend is still his friend and he puts her befor me all the time,OH YEA and he is a bad kisser.I tryed talking to him about how I felt BUt he just told me ...

He hangs a picture of his ex up but not one of me and we've been dating for 7 years!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6544 days ago

23 December 2006 (F) - After almost seven years of dating, boyfriend wants to hang two large pictures with one ex-wife (but not the other ex-wife)with family pictures. He has one small snapshot of he and I on a high shelf that is difficult to even see. I say this is ...

She wants a divorce, so why does she still want sex with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6530 days ago

22 December 2006 (M) - I split up from my wife 7 months ago and have since moved out. We were married for 9 years and have 3 children together. None of us have met anybody else, I dont intend to. We split because we were having communication problems and could not talk to ...

I want to remain friends with my ex, how can I do this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6548 days ago

22 December 2006 (F) - I am in a current 1 yr. loving relationship and have recently kept running into my ex. I broke up with him and tried to speak to him once;he barely responded.I still care about him and would like to remain friends,how should I go about it!...

Am I selfish because I didn't have sex with him when he wanted it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6549 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - I decided to end my 3 year relationship with my boyfriend because i felt we weren't getting anywhere etc.He txt me asking for me to see him before he goes away for 2 months to the middle east as he's a service man in the RAF.I went to meet him ...

After everything... Should I give my ex this present for Xmas?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6549 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) - Hi , Me and my ex broke up 6 months ago, It was a bad brake up I keeped going back to her. And got shot down. She had a son and I wasn't there enough. Then we all went on a family vacation it was a disaster. We also work together and we don't tal...

I don't need her support, but I do want her back. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6549 days ago

21 December 2006 (M) - My partner of 3 years left me 3 weeks ago saying she wanted to be free to go anywhere at anytime although she is still very fond of me. I have never objected to her going anywhere alone.It was only til 2 months ago she wanted to go everywhere with ...

Should I tell my ex how I feel when she comes over?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6540 days ago

21 December 2006 (F) - Me and this girl have been broken up for about 4 years now. We hooked up when I was a freshman and we fell in love. She was a senior and she had more experience than I had with relationships especially ones that were gay relationships. Well I ended ...

We dated, I cheated, we split and when he broke up w/ his newest gf we kissed - now he's back w/ her and I'm heartbroken

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6550 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - I used to go out with my best friend it wasnt for very long just over a fourtnight. I cheated on him with one of his good friends. We argued for a bit but eventually decided to put it behind us but he couldnt forget, in the end we broke up because ...

My ex wrote me a love letter, took me out, kissed me, and asked me out again but still wants to be alone! What's his deal??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - yes me again!!! Im the one whose boyfriend dumped me two weeks ago saying he loved me and I was perfect but he needed to be on his own !!! WEll the latest is I recieved a letter from him today saying how sorry he was and listing all the wonderful ...

We don't have the same set of friends or go to the same places, so how do I get my ex back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - A guy split with me after a few months but I still like him. Is there any way I could get him back I really like him. Thing is I don't really go out where he lives although he doesn't live that far away, 5 minute drive. We never really saw one ...

How can I get him back without it being obvious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - A guy split up with me and was so rude. Is there any way I can get him back that is not too obvious?? Thank you....

My gf broke up with me. How can I get her back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

20 December 2006 (M) - my girlfriend of seven years recently broke up with me but i really want her back i love her so much what can i do. ...

We broke up as he got cold feet, hes now wanting me to spend christmas with the family as normal, is he trying to get back together ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

20 December 2006 (F) - I dated a man for three years, great relationship, and were talking marriage. I kept putting on the pressure for a proposal, he got cold feet, and ended things mid-August. We had no contact for about two months. Then he contacted me, we talked, ...

Did I get over her to fast or her me!? I do want her back though!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6550 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) - is my ex girlfriend over me so fast or am i over her so fast? ex Girlfriend, 1 week after us splitting she's now makeing plan's to move in to her own place and start a life alone. she made plan's in the past week to live with my brother gir...

He broke up w/ me and said it's because I wasn't independent - but I'm not clingy at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - My man broke up with me about a month ago. He just decided he didn't love me. We are both in late 20s. I am having such a hard time not over analyzing everything I did to make the relationship go downhill. As, he has told people, he just wanted ...

My gf keeps lashing out at me and saying I helped to split her and her ex, so I should hurt, too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with her boyfriend of 3 yrs 2 months ago and is with me. We've known each other for about a year and i liked her straight way and she liked me but she was with the other guy. The relationship she was in wasnt good so she kinda ...

My fiance's ex is nasty, sets double standards, and is infringing on our family life!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - My fiancee is scared of his ex and lets her control what and how he is when he has his son over our house (2 times per week and every other weekend). Examples, she smokes in her car and house, yet tells my fiancee that we cannot smoke in our house ...

His ex is very nasty to me, but he doesn't want to say anything b/c of their son!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6550 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - My fiance and i live with my son and his. His ex lives with her husband about 100 miles away and only sees their son 1 in 3 weekends. I love this lad as my own, have never had a problem with him. Yet she talks to me like i'm a piece of cr*p. My ...

My ex and her new guy won't stop harassing me! Would it be harsh to bring them to court?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) - Sorry for the repost but i really need advice on this ... So heres the deal, ive posted on cupid before regarding the breakup from my ex after nearly 5 yrs and also when she met a new guy (a mate) within 2 weeks of the breakup. 2 months have now ...

Just tell me if she misses me like I miss her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

19 December 2006 (M) - My fiance broke up with me in the end of july, we had been toghether for 5 years and engaged for a year and half would be two yrs on dec 24. At one point she broke up with me before 2 yrs ago for two months and then begged for me to come back. Now ...

Did he just use me after his ex dumped him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6551 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - I am so confused! I need some advice as to what is going on here. My boyfriend (early 20's and possibly has ADD - this has a strong bearing on the way he communicates and acts, ie not very well at all and inappropriately at times) and I (31) split ...

My ex tells me things to mess with my head...can you help me understand wha he meant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

19 December 2006 (F) - tonight my ex who is also my best mate came online and started chatting to me first he told me hes in love with his bosses daughter then he tells me to dump my bf or lose him as a friend then i went out to a club and he texts me this 'the best ...

Met up with 2 old ex bfs while on a date with the new guy! Was this fate and why did it happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6552 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Do you believe in fate? I just went on a second date with a guy (whom I think will turn out to be just a good friend) but on the way to the bar I spotted my ex who I was with for 6 years and who broke up with me 8 months ago! He was walking ahead so ...

He treated his ex like shit - will he start treating me like that too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Hey there, I have a boyfriend who is 23. A little less than a year ago, he had gotten out of a 4 year relationship. I asked him why it ended...and he replied "because I treated her like shit". He learned his lesson and explained to me many times th...

Should I call my ex of 10 years to wish him well over the holidays?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6545 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Hi everyone....merry Xmas and happy holidays by the way. I was with my partner for about ten years. We split about six months ago. We tried to remain friends but I guess there was bitterness on my part as he was really the one who ended with it so ...

He split w/ me, but when we're together we still cuddle, kiss and flirt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6552 days ago

18 December 2006 (F) - Im 19 and was with my ex for 2 years. He told me he loved me after 1 month together, and from there we had a really good relationship. We were best friends and both loved each other so much. We split up just under a month ago on his terms. He said ...

My gf is great, but her ex has started calling her b/c he's upset about their split. How do I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6551 days ago

18 December 2006 (M) - Ive known my girlfriend for bout a year now and i was crazy about her from the moment i saw her. She liked me to but she was going out with somebody at the time. She eventually broke up with him and went with me. She broke up with him bout 2 months...