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writes: my girlfriend of seven years recently broke up with me but i really want her back i love her so much what can i do.
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (20 December 2006):
 babes i think you should move on its hard wen uve been dumped cuz uve gt after effects but she dumped you for a reason, i think you should giv her some space let it blow over for a while and see what happens after breakups ppl genereally need some time apart you dont want to appear to clingy becuase that would only push her away more just relax take and take a breather
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reader, goodbutnotgifted  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 That depends entirely upon the relationship you had and where she has gone now. not enough information, but relationships end, long lasting ones (7years) can have their ins and outs. just go on with you life man and be sure to check in on her hang out with her, daily if she'll alow it, after 7 years she probably knows what your about to say and ready for some spontineity. you sound young, when I was young the concept of time was lost on me, time my friend you have plenty of, take some, enjoy the world outisde the two you and try not to forget her all together or allow her to forget you, but shes a woman or becoming one, and thats a chanaging, misterious but beautifull thing. you want her, I say give her your time, your comitment will be something she has over the other girls, but dont miss out on life yourself obsessing, if she dates you should, she might be just ready to move on, empires crumble, books have last pages and relationships end. you have to remember the good times and make the best, man you can do this.
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reader, JackalGaz  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Without knowing more about the situation i can't really give you any advice other than stay strong and believe and protect your dreams. It maybe the case that your loved one has moved on and you won't be able to win her back but i really hope there is still a chance for you. Can you maybe shed some more light on the situation whether it was a civil/bad breakup as the advice that can potentially be given may not match the circumstances that derived this outcome. Stay strong and good luck buddy.
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