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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: Hey there,I have a boyfriend who is 23. A little less than a year ago, he had gotten out of a 4 year relationship. I asked him why it ended...and he replied "because I treated her like shit". He learned his lesson and explained to me many times that all women should be treated like gold, and they deserve EVERYTHING in the world. But I've been hurt too many times by too mnay guys and I've been treated like shit. I really care for my boyfriend, and I like him ALOT....But....I'm not sure if he'll turn around and start treating me like shit. He's done it before to someone else....and I'm kind of scared because I never thought that I would like anyone as much as I do for him ever again. My question is...Is it possible for him to start treating me like I'm a piece of shit?....HELP!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): Yes, there is a high possibility that he will treat you the same way he treated his ex once the honeymoon period is over. A leopard does not change his spots over night. He is who he is, it is weather you are prepared to put up with his nonsense and he has been frank with you about his ex. Oh why do we women let these men do this to us again and again and AGAIN.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2006): Until that happens, you have nothing to worry about. It's in his past, and his past alone. AND please, stop calling yourself shit. It's a very rude and disgusting word. Reminds me of dog diarhea (sp?) and other dogs eating it. (EWWW!)
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