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writes: Me and this girl have been broken up for about 4 years now. We hooked up when I was a freshman and we fell in love. She was a senior and she had more experience than I had with relationships especially ones that were gay relationships. Well I ended up hurting her because I wanted to explore and see what was out there. Well it has been 4 years now and we may talk off and on. She now has another girlfriend and they have been talkin for about 7 months and they are living together right now. Her father just passed away and that is what got us started talkin again because I sent her a message of comfort. It's funny because now I realize how much she loved me and how much I still have feelings for her. I love her but I dont know if i should tell her. She doesnt take any bullshit so I dont want her to think I am coming at her with bullshit.She is coming over to my house and I dont know what I should do or say. I mean she must still have something for me, I mean she wouldnt just come over to my house for nothing. I mean I know she doesnt want sex but maybe she still has hope for us also deep in her heart. Can anyone help me. Should I tell her how I feel? What should we do when she comes over?
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reader, lil_gem +, writes (30 December 2006):
ive been in a similar situation myself abd i never told her my feelings HUGE MISTAKE! so if i were u i would tell her... but b there for her 2 she needs u at this sad time dont rush into it tho x x xgood luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): she needs you right now and she will hate you if she realises that your intentions aren't purely to help her as a friend. help her through it. likelihood is that if she still has feelings for you, they will grow whilst she sees how much you care and things will develop naturally. if she doesnt make a move or say anything she is not interested in starting a relationship with you again, because it is fairly obvious that you still care. good luck. it is really difficult but if you respect her you will give her the platonic comfort she craves from you.
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reader, raq  +, writes (21 December 2006):
 No, i dont think you should say a word. If you loved her that much it wouldnt have taken you four years to say. Perhaps at this vunerable moment for her you are feeling a little guilt for leaving her. Just support her though this bad time and perhaps in time if you still feel the same in 6 months time,then you should consider saying then.
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