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writes: My partner of 3 years left me 3 weeks ago saying she wanted to be free to go anywhere at anytime although she is still very fond of me. I have never objected to her going anywhere alone.It was only til 2 months ago she wanted to go everywhere with me.I dont need her support but do want 'her' back. What can I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2006): Okay...
So while you were together, you both continued to date one another right? Like you both did things together i.e. learnt scuba dive together, took dancing classes, repelling classes...??
It is crucial for any relationship to maintain the dating; the time together to keep the friendship and romance alive.
More often than not; the woman needs this.
Were you a very busy man with work and then keeping work relationships...alive? Hey it happens and is more common than people would believe.
With this, a woman can feel overlooked, unappreciated and will begin to distance herself. Especially when the monster of insecurity gets to run rampant after time and again...you going out with mates or work mates takes precedence over the woman of your life-the one you are to love.
I am sure this happens to alot of men as well as we have more and more numbers of women who are business oriented.
Discussing priorities BEFORE committing to another is also a very wise conversation to have.
People change and grow and it takes to committed people willing to give the right amount of time and energy to the relationship to keep it ungoing.
I say get some couple's counselling to air out the issues before taking it slow and begin dating one another again.
Best Wishes and Hope this all works out.
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