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writes: Does i bother anyone elce when your girls old bf is always texting her or callin her, it really makes me mad! he asked her to get ack with him but she said she wouldnt but i already knew she wouldnt. and she works at a store where her old bf is there some times. it drives me nuts to think about it.
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reader, rammsteinfan  +, writes (30 December 2006):
 I know how you feel, and yes it does bother me when my bf's ex calls!
But you should giver her the benefit of the doubt when she says that she wants nothing to do with him! Just let it go, and get on with life!!
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (27 December 2006):
 You need to chill out and trust her. These are your insecurities and they are going to drive her away if you don't curb them. I know it's hard to see someone you love with an ex but this happens: when they split up, the other person doesn't disappear off the face of the earth! People often stay good friends when they split up and this is better than arguing, isn't it?
I understand how you feel but you acting this way ius just going to push her further away and maybe even back into his arms. Let her have her space and when she comes back to you every night, even after all the men she's seen all day, you know she cares for you and you're the one she wants. Don't let him get to you, enjoy your time with her.
Good luck
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