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writes: I dated this guy for 5 months.I decided that we werent right for eachother so we started to become friends But then I started dating this other guy who I cought cheating on me so I kicked him to the curb and I used my ex as a rebound.I know I shouldnt have lead him on to beleve that he has another chance with me But Grrr I just cant get rid of him.I just feel so horrible that I used him so I pretend that I like him again But in reality I just cant bring myself to hurt him again. How do I tell him I still feel the same as befor and I was just using him as my rebound? Also how do I not feel like such a mean person?
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reader, AngelofLove  +, writes (26 December 2006):
 The kindest thing to do is to be honest with this guy. The longer you leave this, the harder it will be for all concerned.
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reader, charmed4eva353 +, writes (25 December 2006):
 I'd defetnatly can say that it is going to be tough. Just sit down and tell him how sorry you are and tell him everything, then back off him for a while till he contacts you, then reasure him that you just want to be friends and nothing more. It is understandable in this situation to feel a bit mean but don't let it get you down. Maybe if you had some friends you could meet up with and spend a night on the town or throw a little house party or maybe just sit in and watch some comedys. you will feel better.
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