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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006): I think you can do alot better so show him that...this way your getting revenage and your happy within yourself
merry xmas
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reader, goodbutnotgifted  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 You sound as though you would benifit from a little single time. Soul searching. If me or my friends caught a guy (even one of our own) talking to a girl that way one or all of us would be going to jail for assault. Who convinced you thats how a relationship should go. Sorry for the blatant responce but it looks as though thats all you hear. You should have more respect for yourself than to allow this or any guy to talk to you that way? you deserve better, and I hope you believe that.
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reader, Helen1986  +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Hunny,
Why do you want this bloke back? I know people say treat them mean to keep them keen but if you want to really be happy you should move on. Nobdy deserves to be mis treated.
He is obviously an ignorant person that has no respect for you. I say dont waste your time, just move on and find somebody who will love and respect you
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reader, fuse +, writes (20 December 2006):
Get him back as in revenge? If so hurt his ego. nothing seems to hurt a man like seeing his ex with a guy he know is doing better than himself or looking better by looks or fitness.(from my past experiences) Example if he think he is really gorgeous go find a gentlemen who is three times better looking. If he is in to sports date another athlete. Whatever he does just show him you can get someone of the same standard or higher than him. So he knows you can do better and he was not the hottest thing smoker. If you are talking about getting him back to date its sounds as if you can do better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): Why do you want him back if he was so rude? Did he just dump you, for no reason? Who's feelings changed, first? In all fairness to you, why don't you write back and give us more details on what happened, so we can give you more sound advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): If ask me I would forget him! Sounds like he has little respect for you or himself. Why waste you time on a loser?
Move on have fun. Chances are you friends with your perfect man, but it certainly doesn't sound like this one.
Good luck x
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reader, Nikita +, writes (20 December 2006):
 Hi anon, well when you say get him back, i take it that you mean you want revenge and not that you want him back! If you want revenge then the best form is to let him see that you dont care about him and you're having fun without him. Any other form of revenge, no matter how tempting would make him feel he was justified in splitting with you and he'd tag you as a crazy ex! Just be glad that he's done you a favour in splitting with you if as you say he was that rude and horrible. Go out and party over xmas and get a new bloke! Thats a good enough revenge! Happy xmasx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): Why would you want to get back with a guy who 'rudely' broke up with you??? You can tell a lot about a man with the way they break up with women. If he has not given any particular reasons or just sent you a text or something rather than talking to you face to face then that is rude and cowardly.
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