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writes:yes me again!!! Im the one whose boyfriend dumped me two weeks ago saying he loved me and I was perfect but he needed to be on his own !!! WEll the latest is I recieved a letter from him today saying how sorry he was and listing all the wonderful things he thought about me and how I was the best girlfriend he had ever had and how he would miss me more than ever!!! I texted to say thankyou for the letter and he immediately came over to see me. Still apologising that it was over and telling me he looks at my photo everyday still really fancies me, but still wants to be on his own. He then takes me out for lunch, spends time kissing me and basically acting like Im his girlfriend!!! What a confusing postion. I played it cool and when he asked to take me for a drink next week I played cool and said I would text him when I had a free night. Help whats going on with this man!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 December 2006): tell him he is being confusing and that it is going to get really messy if he is honest about what he wants. he is saying all the right things for someone who wants to be your boyfriend but if he still wants to be alone there is something that is not letting him commit. it might be someone else, it might simply be that he wants to have more time to himself. whatever it is, the longer this goes on, you are the one that is going to get hurt. make him talk. he is confused but there must be some method to his madness.
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reader, bellachic385 +, writes (20 December 2006):
 The man is so confused. If he is really saying that about you, than why wouldn't to see you and have you as his gf. I would move on, at least until he can think strat. If guys want you they show it and say it not just one or the other. Good Luck.
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reader, tiny-problems +, writes (20 December 2006):
 lads are from mars! sounds like this lad had feelings for you when they broke up. most of the time, its something you can get when you break you. i call it a 'flash back' because you start having feelings for the person you broke up with. i had a flash back 1 year after i broke up with my boyfriend. its very strange. i wouldn't get concerned about this. the lad probably wanted some space or was going through something that has now finished. but if you still feel the same way i would give him a go. but tell him of how this confused you and all that.
good luck!
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