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Archived questions from: October, 2013 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

Should I have sex with my manager if he want to?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

31 October 2013 (F) - I am 19 and I work part-time as a server. We have this kind of newish manager, he's 31, that started about 5-7 months ago. When he first started working there, I HATED him. I mean seriously disliked the guy. He was arrogant, rude, cocky an demanded ...

My boyfriend said "I love you" so quickly! How long does it take for them to know they're in love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

30 October 2013 (F) - I'm 18 years old. My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months. He told me he loved me for the first time very early in our relationship (2 weeks) and it kinda freaked me out how early he said that. For a while I just wouldn't say it back ...

Am I a total pervert for being turned on by the idea of a cute boy masturbating to a picture of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

29 October 2013 (F) - Not long ago I had an embarrassing moment at my school where I was wearing a thin black spaghetti strap top with just a thin camisole underneath but no bra when someone conveniently decided to snap a picture and thanks to the flash you could totally ...

I think he's interested but hasn't asked me out. Should I suggest something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - Hey I really need a mans advice here. I'm 18 and I'm interested in a man of 25 and I think he's interested in me too despite the slight age gap as we have very similar interests and are in similar worlds of gigging and music etc.. He's shown signs...

I don't want to let go of my ex ... what do his recent actions mean?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4070 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - I fell for a guy just over a year ago and we got together, we were together for a couple of months and everyday he would message me 24/7 and I would message him back, we'd talk until all hours of the morning until one of us fell asleep. It was ...

We have sex but he never cums

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

28 October 2013 (F) - My long distance boyfriend and I have recently started having sex, he has been to see me two weekends in the past month and a bit and both times we have engaged in sexual activities. He can 'get it up' and maintain and erection over me however he ...

In love with 2 guys but they both come in and out of my life

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3927 days ago

27 October 2013 (F) - I'm really in love with two guys, one I met over a year ago we finishd after two and a half months together, it was real sudden and I don't know what happened one day I just got a text saying we were over im really confused especially as hes still ...

How do I tell him I'm ready for him to enter "through the front door?"

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - Hi, So I'm ready to have vaginal sex with my boyfriend. We've done oral and anal. Before him, I had only done oral so he was my first for the backdoor. I'm ready for him to enter through the front too haha The problem is that I'm not sure how...

Am I wasting my time sending her presents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

26 October 2013 (M) - I have a childhood friend on whom I had a huge crush. I met her after 12 years on facebook.. she is studying thousand miles away from me... I proposed her on the 3rd day.. She said no.. Then after one month I sent an expensive leather clutch.....

Should I write him a letter to explain how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4059 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - Is what I'm about to do a terrible idea? I want to write a guy a love letter of sorts. He's a good friend of mine I met last year, and although we hardly actually see each other, I talk to him on facebook and he always responds enthusiastically. He ...

My boyfriend no longer wants to wait

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

26 October 2013 (F) - hi Am 16 and still a virgin. I have been boyfriend since I was 12 but now he is getting impatient and no longer wants to wait I don't want to be a clique (lost virginity at 16) and it's also against my believes, and now he has brought a lesbian ...

He would never like me as much as I do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - There us a guy who has recently transferred to my school, i am really starting to fall for him BADLY. I dont know what to do because hes the new popular guy and am just a quiet nobody, i have him in nearly all of my lessons and am constantly ...

I get self conscious that they joke that they don't want me there, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4074 days ago

25 October 2013 (F) - I've always had trouble making friends because im quite shy, i only really have two friends, one is in a relationship so is always off with her boyfriend and the other girl is really popular and literally everybody likes her because she actually ...

We have a great friendship that I'm afraid to mess up by asking her out

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4077 days ago

23 October 2013 (M) - hey guys, this isnt the first time ive been here, so i hope to keep gettig good advice so, here 's the problem (im a sophmore now, and this story spans the last two ywars, so sorry for length.) Back when i was in eigth grade, i had asked a girl out...

Rejection

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4052 days ago

21 October 2013 (M) - I just commented on a post by a guy who had a long history of rejection. The post tickled my memory all the way back to Junior High School (12 years of age). I was rejected a lot. I've got to say that out of the 15 or so girls in my class 10 ...

I'm having trouble on how to ask this girl out on a date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

21 October 2013 (M) - I'm having trouble on how to ask this girl out on a date. We've been talking for about 4 months now and I her friends seem to think she likes me too. I'm just not sure how to ask without looking stupid if I get rejected. Thanks...

What topic should I use to approach girls? I'm shy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4079 days ago

21 October 2013 (M) - hey... i am 17... i live in india.... and as you will see in my previous question how shy i am. I dont know what to talk to girls and all..... now i will explain you. Previous year i joined a class for studying and there were many hot girls ...

He hasn't made a move in 6 months, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4079 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months and I'm very much in love with him, I've had many boyfriends before but none that I felt so much love for like I do for him. I was in an emotionally and sexually abusive relationship a couple years ...

How much do guys care about acne?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - Hi.. Well here's my question.. I have acne it's not terrible but it is definitely noticeable and I cover up the redness but the bumps are still there... So I am 14 and all guys care about are looks! But how much do guys care about acne ? ...

I hate her for leaving me but giving everyone else a second chance. Is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

21 October 2013 (F) - During my freshman year of high school, my best friend left me in December. She never gave a reason, and was suddenly out of my life. It was tragic, but I wasn't alone. I had my sister, my best friend (who goes to another school), and my mother. B...

She has recently broken up with her BF. She is a co-worker. Should I ask her out on a date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4080 days ago

19 October 2013 (M) - Kind of a weird one here. I work with this girl who I have liked for a while, 5 months ago we got drunk and kissed at a party and it didn't go so well in terms of trying to develop a relationship. I came across too serious and dramatic. So we didn't...

What should I do? My boyfriend is not pleased I am not a virgin.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

19 October 2013 (F) - my boyfriend asked me if i'm a virgin or not.i told him the truth,am not a virgin and he's not pleased at all because he's a virgin.what should i do?...

Can guys look past this hair I have?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

18 October 2013 (?) - I have a strange question. I am a girl and have hair in irregular sopts on my body (lower back, butt, and stomach). Ive went to the doctor and she said that there is no was to get rid of all of it. Im taking birth controll hoping that will help with ...

I've changed after we broke up!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

18 October 2013 (M) - first of all im sorry this may be long.. okay so i broke up with my ex girlfriend 7 months ago and we was together for 18 months she was my first for everything and since the break up i have been saying to girls i like them and meeting up with ...

Why are thinner girls targeted more for what they wear, regardless of the temperature?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4084 days ago

17 October 2013 (?) - Okay, so sometimes skinnier girls are shamed and teased for wearing not very revealing stuff. Where i live it is really hot, so i dont think this makes sense. i mean, if shes in a bikini or something super revealing, i can see the fuss! But i mean, ...

I want to be free and do as I please, Except he gets really jealous.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3673 days ago

16 October 2013 (F) - I have no one to discuss this with and I'm hoping someone out there could help me out. Greatly appreciate it.. So this situation is mixing my emotions up a whole lot! So I've been with my boyfriend about 3months and things are going well! Except he ...

Would it be ok to date her because of our ages?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

16 October 2013 (M) - I graduated from high school last year, and there was a girl I liked who was a freshman. She had a boyfriend for all of last year, so I didn't really get the chance to be with her. I'm in college now, and I found out that she and her boyfriend broke ...

How can I learn to keep dates?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

15 October 2013 (F) - Helo aunts and uncles, i just want to ask a question: how do i learn to keep to dates? I find it difficult always to keep to dates and its really affectin my relationship with others. I've lost most of my friends becos i barely bring myself to hang ...

I don't know if he likes me since we text and I can't see his body language!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

15 October 2013 (?) - I like this guy but I rarely see him so idk how to tell if he likes me. Usually we only talk through text messages so I cant really look for body language. How do I know if he likes me without directly asking him?...

Do I wait and see what happens? or ask him how he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

15 October 2013 (?) - Im 17 and I really like this guy whos almostb19. He knows that I like him and I know for sure that he likes me as a friend. When I told him how I felt I asked if we coild ever go further and he said that he didnt see why not. After that neither of ...

I've had dreams about my teacher crush and I'm confused now!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3542 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - I have a crush on a teacher at my school, he's 25, friendly and good looking. Now, i have liked him since last year, and he coached my soccer team this year. Don't worry, I won't try anything and I've learnt that any 'special' attention he gives me ...

I think I hold a grudge against love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4085 days ago

14 October 2013 (F) - Dear agony aunts, I have a very pondering thought, it's just that: I wonder what good can come out of love, I mean to tell you the truth I kind of hold a grudge against it, I mean every person I've seen around me always fall out of it quickly or do...

I've never had a boyfriend and unsure if he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

14 October 2013 (?) - Im a senior in high school and ive never had a boyfriend. I really like this guy who has already graduated and we talk a lot but im not sure if he likes me back. One time I asked if I could ever have a chance with him and he said that he didnt see ...

I am confused after meeting this guy on holiday

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - I don't really know where to start if I'm honest, I met a guy on my holiday. He is from Wales and I'm from England, so we are 3 and a bit hours away on a train from one another. He has been a self confessed man whore in his past after sleeping with ...

I feel like there's competition and I'll never be good enough for my boyfriend.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have a mutual friend who is really slim, pretty and fun. I've known her all my life and my boyfriend met her through high school. Last week I was in an awful mood and all I wanted was for him to come and see me so I text him...

Things seem weird and off with my boyfriend. Am I over thinking things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - My boyfriend's been really weird and off with me for the past week. I see him every weekend and sometimes a few days during the week when we have time. We usually text everyday for most of the day, (though we're not one of those lovey dovey couples) ...

I cant stop missing him. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4087 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - Hey :) I was in an ldr with a wonderful guy for nearly a year, and things were pretty great. But we were definitely switching off. Well, he more so than me. He went MIA for about a week and i was really worried to find out he was in hospital...

What's with him?Does he hate me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4087 days ago

13 October 2013 (F) - I met him in a summer camp but we go to the same school.He's the type who usually flirts with a lot of girls(even physically touching) so it's hard to know when he really likes you or is just friendly.Despite this everyone in the camp thought he ...

I didn't like how I was few years younger and I am afraid this girl is going to learn about the loser weird me that I was.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

12 October 2013 (M) - hey there i am 17. i am from india and i am studying in college. well as i said in previous question i was a loser and a weird guy in school. Now i have changed in looks but i have become really shy guy. There is a girl from my school she comes in ...

Pregnant by current boyfriend but still have feelings for my ex. Should I keep the baby or give it up for adoption?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

12 October 2013 (F) - So I was 14 and a freshman in highschool, and I had made really good friends with a guy (we'll call him Sam) while I was dating (Max). Max heard a rumor that I was a sleep around and just started to ignore me. I was hurt and ended it with him, and ...

My girlfirend has stopped listening to me ,,,,,

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

11 October 2013 (M) - My age 19 and my partner age 16. I love her for the past 1 and a half year. Until the first half of the year everything was going well,she used to obey me,doesn't harass me etc. But after she changed her school,her character is totally changed. She ...

Am I a stalker for sharing my crush's pictures on facebook?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

11 October 2013 (M) - I used to have a crush whose pics I shared on Facebook and that person got angry with me for that very reason. Am I a stalker for that? ...

I think my friend is flirting with me, but I'm not quite so sure. Opinions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

10 October 2013 (F) - So, I need your guys' opinions on this. So, I think my friend is flirting with me, but I'm not quite so sure. So, I'll tell you guys some of the stuff he does, and you guys give me your opinion. Please, and thank you. Oh and I do like him, i just ...

Is he after a relationship or is he alright being friendzoned with benefits

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

9 October 2013 (F) - I met a guy online with the promise of sex without a relationship. That's great, because I'm a college student that really doesn't need a boyfriend but wants a good time now and then. He lives alone. His girlfriend moved out and he seems pretty ...

How do I dance at the homecoming?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

9 October 2013 (F) - Hi :) so homecoming is this Saturday. I'm going with that mixed signals guy lol and I have like 2 questions. So we have been talking more, like last week he called me and asked to hang out and called me "babe" which of course I freaked out (not when ...

I work with him, like him and don't know what his intentions are

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4091 days ago

8 October 2013 (F) - This might be kinda lengthy, sorry. So I'm 17 and I just started working a job at a restaurant as a hostess like 2 months ago and i work with this really cute boy who's 23. So it's pretty clear that he flirts with me, when he first met me he ...

Should I tell my friend about my personal life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4092 days ago

8 October 2013 (F) - Me and my friend who is a boy got drunk one night and ended up having sex, losing our virginities. We agreed to not tell anyone because if we ever told anyone about any of our other sexual encounters in the past it always ended up in fights. ...

My boyfriend's dad fancies me and it makes me extremely uncomfortable!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

8 October 2013 (F) - I first met my boyfriend's dad when i was 14, i didn't give much attention to him, but he stared at me even then but not as much when i turned 15.. he tries to touch my shoulder a lot and even my breast, he constantly stares at my ass and flirts w...

I have yellow nails from my parent's smoking!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

8 October 2013 (F) - Hi. Both my parents smoke (roughly 5-a-day each). They smoke outside or in the porch with the door open. Recently I have noticed I hav been getting yellow nails no one else has at home because I have the longest nails. I don't smoke! What can I...

Should I go to homecoming without a date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

7 October 2013 (F) - I've been single for a long time and now it's my senior year at homecoming should I go even if I don't have a date ?...