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writes: Im a senior in high school and ive never had a boyfriend. I really like this guy who has already graduated and we talk a lot but im not sure if he likes me back. One time I asked if I could ever have a chance with him and he said that he didnt see why not so I think he might like me. Also he wanted to take me to see my favorite band in concert and my favorite musical. And one time he came to my school just to help me with my homework because he knew I was having problems. Is he just being nice or does he actually like me?
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reader, Miss.Cupid  +, writes (15 October 2013):
 To be honest with you. My senior year I've actually never had a boyfriend throughout my high school years either. So I completely understand your confusion.
You haven't really listed a lot of more signals you feel you receive from him, so unfortunately I cant just go right to the point and give you a yes or no answer.
I can however encourage you to ask him to hang out.
more of on a weekend, or during night.
see if he makes a move. I do feel like something is there, but your still on the friend zone. flirt, make him see that you want more then just a friendship.
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reader, XxCalamityxJanexX  +, writes (14 October 2013):
I think it depends, in my experience often things "just happen" it can take a week or six months... He clearly cares about you a lot and enjoys your company and guys friendzone girls much less than the visa versa. Looking t what you have said it is not a question of if he's just being nice to you because he wouldn't bother if he didn't like you - the real question is how much? For me any relationship where its been naught to 60 has gone very badly and the strongest ones have had a basis first. If you like him: flirt with him a bit, and you'll soon see if whats there is attraction or friendship depending if he flirts back.Personally, I'd say he does fancy you to an extent because most friendships between guys and girls have some level attraction.You need to be careful not to allow him to take advantage of the fact you like him in case he is in a different frame of mind about the type of relationship he wants at the moment. hope this helps. :)x
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