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writes: hey there i am 17. i am from india and i am studying in college. well as i said in previous question i was a loser and a weird guy in school. Now i have changed in looks but i have become really shy guy. There is a girl from my school she comes in my classes and i am afraid that she will tell many people that how i was in the school and then those people will start think same about me. Her mom and my mom are nice friends they talk a lot on phone and my mom tells some of my weird stuff i use to do to her mom and she must be telling that girl i am really afraid and that girl has a lot of attitude
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2013): Hi sweetie, i once had social anxiety. You have nothing to worry about. However please don't be ashamed of who you are, because we all make silly mistakes and di stupid things, but some people are too confident to care. I'm shy too but read online about fakibg confidence - it actually makes you confident. Try your best to smile and say hello to people, believe in yourself, you sound like a lovely guy :) hugs from the UK :) :)
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reader, CMMP +, writes (12 October 2013):
Worry about things you can control, and this is not one of those things.
Besides, people don't really care who you were, they care about who you are now.... Many people reinvent themselves, some do it multiple times. In fact, I could embarrass a number of my friends with things they did when they were younger. Nobody would think bad of them, they'd just have a laugh.
Now, if you're talking about something serious, like spying on girls getting undressed through their window, then that's different. But if you're just talking about being kind of a nerd, don't worry about it.
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