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Archived questions from: September, 2012 (see latest in Teenage category)

Teenage: Help and advice

If you won money, how much would you give your guardian?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - Hey everyone, This is not a relationship question, it's a "what if" question. Ok, let's say you are 17 years old and you've been living with somebody like a guardian since you were 16, you don't have any parents, and you pay the person $300 ever...

I'm confused about becoming aroused from dirty talk on a teen site

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (M) - Hey everyone. I recently was on a teen chat room and a guy private messages me. He started talking dirty and at first I laughed but I became aroused. I eventually engaged in the chat and got off on it. After I was done I was shocked and scar...

Have I been friend zoned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - What could it mean when a guy treats you differently than he does other girls or his other friends? Like he may hug/flirt with other girls but he doesn't ever do that to you. Like, this is my situation, but what is confusing is like, we are in the ...

Advice needed on how to meet attractive, feminine women

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

30 September 2012 (F) - I'm a 19 year old female currently studying in college. My sexuality is complicated...I guess I would identify as bisexual but with a strong preference for women. I've been longing to meet a girl and have a relationship (or just hook up as long as ...

Why can't I ever get a guy who cares about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Ok so here I'm going to give a little back ground before I ask the question hopefully so you all somewhaht get a better idea of what is going on. In July, me and my ex broke up because I found out he was cheating. Well, I gave him another chance a...

I've pointed out the red flags but feel like my g/f never gives me a clear answer

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - So homecoming is coming up. I'm not going, i dont really like dances. But my gf is, and im really scared she going to be dancing on other girls since i'm not their with her. My friends keep telling me ,they see her playing with other girls. She ...

Can I regain his trust? He doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn't know if he wants to be with me anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - last week i said to my boyfriend that maybe we should break up but i was stupid for saying it i just thought it would make him happier. ever since i said it things haven't been the same, he doesn't trust me anymore, he says he loves me but he doesn...

My problem is low self-esteem and low confidence. But can I fix it ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - It seems like the root of my problems is low self-esteem/confidence. I think I have gotten a lot stronger, especially with the help of my boyfriend... but how can I make sure that my doubts don't keep coming up in my mind and affecting our rela...

Afraid that losing my virginity will hurt ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - Ok so I'm terrified of losing my viginity. I'm in a relationship he's asked me to marry him but i know it won't last anyway i like this guy in school and i think he likes me back and i want to lose it to him. But im terrified of penetration. How bad ...

Could my comforting her have started something?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

29 September 2012 (M) - So there's this girl on my Cross Country team I really like. She's pretty quiet and never really initiates conversation, but she's really nice when you get her started. A couple weeks ago, she fell apart after a race (took a wrong turn, and she's ...

Help for a shy girl?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

29 September 2012 (F) - I hope this doesn't come out too long, i still feel like i left things out. If there's mistakes sorry this was written on my phone! So last year this guy had a crush on me. He came up to my table one day saying that there were hot girls here a...

Busy schedule , no time for my relationship.. help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Hi guys! My boyfriend and I are super close but with school and work we've been seeing eachother less and we just aren't as close anymore. Were still getting used to a busy schedule, were taking a break. Everything seems to be going downhill. ...

He's depressed how do I cheer him up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for a few months, weve been flirting and have met a few times but it's going nowhere at the minute. Recently he's been feeling down and upset and I don't know how to cheer him up? Like, what to say to him? Any advice ...

We have a lot in common but we bicker a lot. Is it best to leave him alone?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4436 days ago

28 September 2012 (F) - Hello all, to make it sound lesser, I am infatuated with this boy(a friend) that I met not too long ago but before I tell you my reasons why, I'd like to tell you more about him for the sake of the question. So, he's a very intelligent, talented guy ...

I'm having a hard time letting go... help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4436 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - This guy and I went on and off for 8 months. We moved extremly fast, moved in 2 weeks of our relationship., the first time we split he said he wasn't ready to be in a commited relationship, and the pain felt unbearable. 2 weeks after I was just at ...

Awkward situation: My best friend likes me but I don't feel the same, and I want to ask a different girl out who likes someone else! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - "Dear Cupid," I am 15 and I have an awkwad stiuation. One of my freinds likes me, and I don't like her back. She told me she likes me, but she is too good of a freind of mine for me to go out with her. What she doesn't understand is that I'm not ...

Am I wrong to feel jealous that he flirts with other girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (F) - I'm now talking to this guy who is a couple months younger than me. We aren't dating but I get really jealous when he flirts with other girls and he says it's just his personality. It really ticks me off knowing that he knows I like him and I get ...

Silent 7 month relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

27 September 2012 (M) - Me and my Gf been dating for 7 months and we use to talk all day in school and make out in shool. Thing is we never really communicated till the 2 month of us being together. Next semester of school now we in the 11th grade. She moved on the 2nd ...

How can I improve my ballet skills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

26 September 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. This isn't a relationship question, but if you can provide, I'd love to receive some advice on the best ways to improve my ballet, leaps and turns mostly. I aspire to audition for the musical theatre program at my school and my fr...

Really heavy menstrual bleeding. Is this normal for my age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4437 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I'm fourteen, and I've had my period since I was 11. It's been on and off which I know is normal, but it's recently settled down, and this month I've had a really long, heavy period. It started on the 11th and hasn't stopped since. It started off ...

I feel for a senior, and I thought he felt the same way about me, but when he left for college, he told me I meant nothing to him. I miss him and I'm heart broken, how do I get passed this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4427 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - This might be long, but I'll try to keep it short.. At the beginning of my sophomore year of high school, I started dating this guy who was a senior. He was on the football team, captian of the restling team, popular and of course gorgeous. But I ...

Why does he get an iPad? It's not fair!

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 4266 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Today I came home from school and found my little brother with a brand-new iPad. I am so freakin jealous of him! My parents said its only "because he needs a certain app for social skills." (he has aspergers so he needs help) I still don't ...

I feel depressed and lonely because I don't have a girlfriend to cuddle with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

25 September 2012 (M) - Every day i try to look for some good girls to date and that im interested in,but every body is taken. Some girls just not attracted to me at all. All my friends have GFs but me. Last week i went to my friend house and his GF came over and they was ...

My long distance boyfriend changed his relationship status from 'in a relationship' to 'single'. Is he cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4438 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - I'm in long distance relationship with my boyfriend. He is Australian and I'm Indian. We both are sixteen years old. We met on facebook 2 months ago and he asked me for relationship after 1 month. I love him alot. Everything was going perfect ...

I've decided not to speak to this guy anymore after he said when he's with me he feels like he's talking to a baboon. Am I right in deciding to do this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Before I go into details as to why I'm asking this question. Let me first ask the question aha, exactly how right am I for deciding this? You see, I am a sixteen year old girl, you know I'm young but a lot of people, well, grown ups say I'm matu...

How do I tell my friend that just because she's dating doesn't mean that everyone wants to date

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

25 September 2012 (F) - Hi. Yesterday i took my best friend to the restuarant to eat. While we were there..a certain guy who works there asked for my numbers and i told him that my phone just got destroyed so i had no cellphone at that moment (i lied). Well sure he didnt ...

Handling school and jobs -- we're growing distant, how do I deal with it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - Hey guys! My boyfriend used to be a lot closer to me and always wanted to talk to me and be with me. He got a job and he has to balance school and now our relationship seems soo distant. I do understand now he has less free time and he must be so ...

Serious Trouble with Two Guys...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I am in high school and have been dating my current boyfriend for roughly 10 months now and live about 30 minutes away, but during the summer we saw each other everyday. I believe that I truly love him and can see us getting married in the future. ...

I fancy famous females as well as guys, am I bi or just straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - Hi! I basically have an issue with my sexuality, I do not know anymore whether I am bisexual or straight. Before around the time of May/June this year, I've always been certain I was heterosexual. I'd never been attracted to a female in the sli...

These two girls are using me for my popularity

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

24 September 2012 (F) - I'm so confused right now. I don't know if they're friends or not. After I joined like, a zillion clubs,these two girls come and I genuinely liked them, and we start being all buddy buddy. They liked the same stuff that I do and I was impressed ...

Did my comment scare him off?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Okay so I was having a Facebook conversation with this guy who I like but he has a conversation and we were joking around when I says " it's weird we haven't talked in ages, I kind of miss you" because we used to be close but then we stopped talking ...

Is it possible that my virgin girlfriend was assexual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4440 days ago

23 September 2012 (M) - Is this possible for my girlfriend to have been an asexual, she hasn't had sex yet and I asked her why that is (just curious why people don't) and she said she never felt that attraction to have sex with anyone until she came to university. She said ...

Suddenly he doesn't seem as interested

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I've been talking to this guy i like for around 2 months, we've met and things were going well but all of a sudden he's stopped texting me as much and his texts don't sound like he actually wants to talk to me. What does this mean?...

I miss my crush but he's going out with girl who doesn't like me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - i have an crush on this boy but he has a girlfriend who is in my class and I've known her since we were like three and for some reason she dosent like me. Anyway i was friends with her boyfriend and had a crush on him(they were not going out then) ...

Maybe I shouldn't have broken up with him over his post?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I had this boyfriend(S),we were together for about 7 months and everything was going fine. i really liked him and (S) was one of the few people i've been with that was good to me. about 4 months into the relationship we had sex. it was the first ...

Both somewhat newly single, but we get along so well!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4440 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Hi agony aunts/uncles. Here's my situation... I just got out of a relationship of 1 year. It started out somewhat mutual but then it became me breaking up with him. I had been feeling off for a while, at least 2 months, and was already done with the...

How do I start talking to him and giving him signals that I like him?

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23 September 2012 (F) - please read this sorry it's long :( im in year 9 and i'v likes this guy from my primary school since year 7. we used to have the greatest conection ever, though i was to young to understand what love was in primary school (he really liked me in ye...

Boy advice needed. He clams up all the time and I can't work it out.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - Hi, I need some boy advice. I dated boy A, for a good year or so. When boy A finished it, I was pretty distraught. His friend, boy B then confessed that he was "in love with me" and had been for most of mine and boy A's relationship. I ...

How can I tell my crush that I'm still angry with him? Or is it best to leave it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - After two years of not talking to my crush, I have been seated next to him. He used me to get rid of another girl, and pretended to have feelings for me. He is now pretending nothing ever happened. How can I tell him that I am still angry with hi...

My long distance boyfriend asked me to share my naked pic, I refused to share and now he is sad. Should I send him my naked pic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend. We both are of same age, 16 years old. He is Australian and I'm Indian. We met 2 months ago on facebook and he proposed me after 1 month. I love him a lot. I strictly follow what our holy book ...

Could he have acquired something that looks like a love bite from a fight?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend was in a fight and got beat up bad but he has what looks like a love bite on his neck would this be cause from the fight ?...

Seems my Bf and his friends bullied this girl at school. So why would she want me to know her connection to my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

23 September 2012 (F) - girl from my boyfriend's past showed up at my shop and I don't know what to think of my bf's reaction to what she said! Sorry if this is long, but I don't know what to make of this! I work as a makeup artist/consultant at a mall. Any...

I am very confused about my feelings for boys/girls and not sure what I am

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4434 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - Hey,sorry for my English,i am not born in England. I have big problem and i have ocd,hipohondria and panic attacts. I am 16 year old female and i questioned my sexuallity since 12 year.Am i str8,lesbian,bisexual,bi curious?Please help,don't be me...

I thought I liked him, but now I'm not so sure.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I'm 14 (Please, no comments saying I'm too young for a boyfriend, they don't help) and I'm going out with this boy who has been my close friend for about 2 years. He's liked me since we were 12 but I wasn't interested in him. Time went on then I ...

Who can I show my boyfriend in a special way that I'm ready to have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4433 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I have a very important query for you all. I'm 17, and have been with my boyfriend for almost four years. I have a feeling I will be with him for a great deal more. He was 18 yesterday, and I am 18 on Wednesday next week. When we first got together...

I'm so confused about my feelings. Is there a chance it could work with him? What are your thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - So here's some background: I'm 15, a sophomore in high school. And there's this guy..lets call him D. So i have known D for about a year. We met in one of my classes last year, but we didn't exactly hit it off. He sat directly across from...

My boyfriend of 2 months creeps me out!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4442 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I have only been going out for about two months. Lately, though, it seems as if every little thing he does annoys me or creeps me out. He's constantly making fun of me and he brings the gift I gave him (a stuffed monkey) weeks ago ...

Is he worth it? Part of me wonders if I should just give him a chance!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4430 days ago

22 September 2012 (F) - I met this guy over the summer and we got on pretty well, but as far as I was concerned we were just friends. However, he started sending me really dirty text messages and basically wanted to hook up with me. I am a virgin and have never had anyone ...

Why is it that only penetrative sex does it for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - So this is a sex question, I was wondering if anyone could help me understand why I can't orgasm from anything other than vaginal sex and very rarely clitoral stimulation with fingers. Basically I've been with my partner for 3 years and we've ...

I think I've fallen in love with my teacher!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4412 days ago

21 September 2012 (F) - I've had feelings for my teacher for over three years and they've only gotten stronger. I think I'm in love with him and I know I can't do anything about it (I'm clever enough to figure that out). But it's become harder and harder to keep it in, ...