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writes:"Dear Cupid,"I am 15 and I have an awkwad stiuation. One of my freinds likes me, and I don't like her back. She told me she likes me, but she is too good of a freind of mine for me to go out with her. What she doesn't understand is that I'm not attracted to her, I mean, I love her to death, but she's like a siste to me. On the other hand, I really like this one girl, but she has stuck me in the freindzone I have known her for about 2 months, and liked her for about one. Well, anyways, she already thinks that I'm cute, smart, and funny, even though I'm a little strange (but so are most of her freinds. She has brougt me food, hugs me alot, and other stuff. The other day, me and my freinds were walking in the hall and we heard her saying to one of her freinds, about a guy she likes, and I know for sure it isn't me. I want to ask her out, but i have no idea what to do, and the only class I have with her were I have any time to talk to her is band (she's on dance team), but I also have band with the girl that likes me (percussion) and I don't want her to get her feelings hurt. What do I do?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (27 September 2012):
 To be honest the girl with the crush on you will be hurt... and there is NOTHING you can do about it. You just are not attracted to her that way and that's OK.
As for the girl you think you like... well if she does not feel about you the way you feel about her (put yourself in your friend's shoes) then there isn't much you can do to make her like you "that way"
but you could ask her to spend time together (just the two of you outside of school) and maybe she can get to know you better and will change her mind.
You could write her a note if you don't have a lot of time to talk to her... slip it to her in class with your phone number and ask her to call you after school to talk about it.
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