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writes:Hi, I need some boy advice.I dated boy A, for a good year or so. When boy A finished it, I was pretty distraught. His friend, boy B then confessed that he was "in love with me" and had been for most of mine and boy A's relationship. I didn't really respond, but knew that I had feelings for him too.Three months later, having been good friends with boy B, we slept together. I then didn't see him for a month.. and we slept together again. I realised I actually really liked him. Then, everyone including boy A, found out and I went a bit weird about it. It then became very awkward with boy B. For the last six months, boy B and I rarely talk. We've been back with one another a few times when we're drunk - via his initiation, he even came and knocked on my window in the middle of the night, sober. I'm so confused. I really like him, every time something happens between us. He clams up. Its like he regrets it. I try so hard to be friends, and he doesn't give anything back. I can't work it out. Its torture.Please help!
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (24 September 2012):
 If you can't have a non-sexual non-awkward encounter, then I'd move on. I don't know if he saw someone vulnerable, hurting and easy to pick up, but it doesn't sound from your post like he's made much effort to get to know you. Try one more time-schedule a date with him. If he doesn't show up, he doesn't show interest, or it doesn't look like he's trying, move on, because what kind of love is that? stringalong love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 September 2012): This situation seems to be more complicated. I think there's something real between you and guy B. It's not easy because he's your bf's friend but you both betrayed guy A. I suggest you follow your heart and decide which guy do you really want to be with. Make sure you take the good decision that you won't regret at the end of the day. Be true to your. If you love guy B more than A, choose him. Don't choose A because you feel guilty unless you love him and want to be with him. Good luck girlfriend
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