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Archived questions from: November, 2014 (see latest in Sex category)

Sex: Help and advice

I sexted another girl ....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

30 November 2014 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend 5 months now and i have really strong feelings for her but a while back i did something i'm not proud of...i sexted another girl.This is my first relationship so I don't know how things work or what could possibly ruin ...

Why am I so mismatched with men sexually?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3643 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I'm looking for some sexual advice cupids, from both men and women if possible. I am a 29 year old woman and I've had six sexual partners, but I've always had the same problem - I don't really like the feeling of sexual intercourse. How...

I want sex as a Christmas present and I want her to fulfill my sexual fantasies! How do I say this to my wife?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3649 days ago

29 November 2014 (M) - My wife keeps asking me what I want for Christmas, but I'm a bit nervous about asking for what I really want - sex. I want to have sex more often - I think she does too. The issue is last Christmas - after copious research - I bought her lingerie ...

How can I be more gentle with my boyfriend in bed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

29 November 2014 (F) - I am mostly a calm, gentle person, except in bed. I always assumed that being wild, perhaps even a bit rough and aggressive is what guys like and my previous partners have been very happy with that. Today I'm in a relationship with a guy for 6...

Good sex versus Bad sex. Why is she so unwilling to try to oral?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

28 November 2014 (M) - I'm writing this for guidance. I've been dating my girlfriend for just 4.5 months now. We are in love and talk about how we're definitely going to marry each other all the time. She asked me if I wanted the relationship originally. my g...

It felt like he was trying too hard and I didn't enjoy it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - Sex life has beeen a bit up and down with my boyfriend lately for a variety of reasons - stress, tired, diet, living at home with his parents, masturbation lol. So we had a talk about putting more effort in (mostly from his part). last night we had ...

Problems climaxing? Any possible causes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3651 days ago

28 November 2014 (F) - Hey all! Just a quick question I need some guidance on: my long-time girlfriend and I find ourselves in the sac a lot, and while there's a lot of passion and love going on all around (and, to be brief, some real magic work going on from her! W O ...

Should I fake liking sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

27 November 2014 (F) - Hello everyone so I need an advice, I'm 23 years old and have been living with my husband for 5 years, we have 2 kids. I love my husband we recently got married through church (Catholic). Anyways so here's the thing, he has been the only man in my ...

My Gf does not want me to see her naked when we make love. How can I help her to overcome this issue?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

27 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend is overweight and its not from over eating its from a medical condition that runs in her family. I have told her that i understand thats she is over weight and have told her that i dont have any problems except when we make love. S...

How can I make being on top work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3614 days ago

26 November 2014 (F) - Hi, I have this problem: My boyfriend loves me on top. I don't like it. I get tired and can't orgasm from it - I never had problems achieving multiple orgasms, but when I go that road my whole body spasms and I need him to "carry me through". When ...

She seems easily distracted during our lovemaking

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

26 November 2014 (M) - I would appreciate some insight (help) from some ladies. I am in a relationship that is going well in almost every way. We are getting pretty serious but I have a concern. I am 56 and she is 52. We have had an active sex life but she doesn't seem...

He's 29, I'm 20. I don't know if I can trust him. Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3654 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6-8 months now. On our sixth month, we broke up for about a month. No contact at all. Then we got back together. He told me that during our break up he slept with this other girl. Slept with her a coup...

How do I tell my new partner I want to be tested for STI's?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3655 days ago

25 November 2014 (F) - Hello, I have recently entered a new relationship after being in a previous relationship lasting roughly a year. My last relationship ended because of lots of trust issues. Anyway I want to go to a sexual health clinic and get tested for STIs. I ...

Am I too tight?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

24 November 2014 (F) - Hello, I'm a complete virgin, never been fingered or touched at all.. Whenever I've got Into situations (being alone with a guy etc) I've always completely freaked out and sometimes started crying.. I don't want to let the guy down. I'm scared of ...

The first 5 minutes of sex are enjoyable but then the experience goes downhill!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3656 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - Hi guys. Please can I have some advice. I recently lost my virginity, not in a relationship, and have had sex a couple of times since then. I enjoy the first 5 minutes but after that I just feel frustration that I can't orgasm and also...

He always wants sex and has to push the boundaries every time

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3651 days ago

23 November 2014 (F) - PLEASE someone help me.. My husband is sex OBSESSED! We have been together 10 years and don't have any children. We have always had a very adventurous sex life and there isn't much we haven't tried. The problem I have is for the last 5 or 6 years, e...

My wife won't have sex with me anymore and won't tell me why not

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3653 days ago

23 November 2014 (M) - I think the title says it all. We have been married for 7 years, together for 10 years, and the sex went from twice a night (which is normal in a honeymoon phase) to never over the course of 2 years. Over the last 5 years we have not had se...

How can I tell in advance if a threesome will mess things up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3657 days ago

22 November 2014 (F) - I'm unsure about whether or not to have a threesome (ffm) with my boyfriend. We have a solid relationship. Used to have some issues but we've worked through them. I know he would love to have one and I'm not closed off to the idea at all, I think it ...

How do you tactfully raise the question of STD testing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3659 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - I have only had sex with one person in my life, we were both virgins and never slept with anyone else. We broke up a few months ago. I was not very concerned with getting any kind of disease from him because we were our 1sts and only partners, b...

We have a great sexual relationship but she will not touch me below the belt!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

21 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year we have a great relationship we started out as best friends grew into a sexual relationship, talking about marriage kids I will 9 yards. Let me start by saying I'm 34 years old she's 10 years my ...

I don't know how to bring it up calmly and not make it sound like I'm attacking my boyfriend's erectile issues

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

21 November 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for several months now, and he's very sweet and caring and loving. But we have not had sex yet, like the real deal start to finish. He has a problem getting and keeping it up, a problem that he's already seeking professi...

How can I get myself to squirt?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3658 days ago

20 November 2014 (F) - Hey everyone.... So this is rather a different question but I need some advice. Ive been wanting to squirt for the longest time, and I believe I did so tonight. I followed some tips, and when I did orgasm I pushed out instead of holding back. I felt ...

Is this normal in sex? I'm new to it and have no confidence in what I'm doing!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3660 days ago

19 November 2014 (F) - So i have a question for the guys! If you have sex with someone and use the pull out method (i know not entirely sensible but sometimes it happens) is it normal to finish yourself off as it were?? This happened on a recent conquest of mine and being ...

When it comes to sex she calls the shots

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

18 November 2014 (M) - My girlfriend Is controlling sexually she keeps rejecting me every time if try to have sex. It's destroying our relationship so much, I try to talk she won't We have sex 1time a month on her command. It is destroying my masculinity Help me flip...

Does a blow job require this in order to feel good?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - Guys when a girl gives you a blow job, does a girl have to deep throat for it to feel good for you. Answers from guys only please. ...

Weird feeling during sex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

17 November 2014 (F) - So when my boyfriend and I are having sex, I swear it feels like something is moving inside. I feel like my stomach or uterus or something is moving when there's thrusting. Yoy can hear it too. It sounds like a stomach gurgle kinda thing. I'm not ...

Is it common for women to lose interest in anal play after childbirth?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3662 days ago

16 November 2014 (M) - Ok for the ladies out there that have had a baby, how has this affected your enjoyment or preferences to anal sex? I'm just asking because my wife does not see in to anal sex at all since the birth of our first. She would ask for it at times and ...

Can a relationship work when it starts with sex on the first date?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Does sex on first date ever lead to a relationship? I met "Al" two weeks ago and the connection was amazing. We didn't want the date to end so we hung out on his roof and then, his place. One thing led to another and we slept together. I have NEVER ...

My fiance and father of our child has revealed that he has fantasies about having sex with other women. How am I supposed to cope with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3663 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - What would you do/think if your fiance who you just had a baby with says he fantasises/wants to have sex with other women! One of the woman he sees around work and talks to. Hes never cheated as far as i know and says he only would sleep with oth...

My guy even takes his phone into the shower! Whats going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Ok so almost every morning before my guy goes to work I'll catch him looking on his phone and then get out of bed. Either going to the bathroom or in the kitchen. After awhile he'll either shower or stay gone for some while. I know he's masterbating ...

Sad and confused. Wish I'd never met him. He was my first boyfriend, so why did he fail to give me support after he promised to help me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - Hey aunts I'm really sad and just confused. I'm a 23 year old college student who works part time. I've never had a boyfriend before, I just always thought if I waited than the right guy will come alone and I than too will experience my first bo...

Do I believe him or not? My older married lover says he'll leave his wife when I finish college.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3647 days ago

15 November 2014 (F) - My older, married lover tells me he will eventually leave his wife once I finish college. He has brought up the idea of having a baby together recently. Does this mean he is serious about our relationship and would having his baby be a good choice? ...

I've been supportive about my husband's cross dressing. So why has he resorted to tells lies to me now about his activities?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3659 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Ok so I have known that my husband was a cross-dresser since before we got married. When he first told me about it, he started making craigslist posts to meet up with others to experiment... He never told me about it but I found the posts... He ...

Two weeks ago my husband joined a gym, and now he has no energy left for intimacy. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3666 days ago

14 November 2014 (F) - Just a quick one really... My husband and I have been together for a good 4-5 years and we have always had a good sex life (3-5 times a week) up till about two weeks ago when he joined a gym. I'm all up for him going and getting fit feeling bett...

How do we get our sex life on track again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3661 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - Me and my other half have been together for 5 years we have only just got married about 4 weeks ago. Our relationship is amazing we get on great, but I have noticed a few times that our sex life has changed. When we first got together it was amazing ...

This ONS seemed different ...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3665 days ago

13 November 2014 (F) - DISCLAIMER: I came out of a long term relationship 8 months ago, have no desire for a relationship and am simply having a bit of fun before I get too old! And yes I'm always careful. One night stands.. Am I right in thinking that it's usua...

What are the chances? Is it really possible for a man to be addicted to a woman sexually?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Hello everyone. I have a question. Maybe everybody can give their view point. Is it possible for a man to be sexually addicted to a woman? For example, your boyfriend says he loves you but is having sex with another woman on the side becaus...

We're getting married in 5 months. Am I asking too much to want fire and passion in our relationship? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3667 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I need your advice. I have been with the same man for over three years. We have lived together and shared money for two and a half of those. I am 24 and he is 28. "Joe" is the "perfect" man. He is chivalrous, hardworking, selfless...

Do guys need to see women naked?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

12 November 2014 (M) - I find I can do without porn and don't want to support any porn sites. But if I go a long time without atleast seeing naked women, I start feeling bummed out, hollow, empty or dead inside. Is that normal? Could it have something to do with being ...

Is it possible to go back to getting to know someone slowly after being intimate?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3667 days ago

12 November 2014 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 3-4 weeks, and we've had 6 or 7 dates. I met him online, things went a bit wrong before we even met because of big differences in life style that I pointed out. For example he is very well off and I earn a moderate ...

What kind of dirty talk do guys want to hear?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3652 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - My boyfriend has asked me to talk dirty during sex, I'm very up For it but I'm quite an awkward person, if any guys are reading this what kind of things would you wanna hear?...

My man won't put out but wants me to please him only!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - In need of some advice please! So I've been in a relationship and living with my bf for over 2 yrs. and we just had a baby (he did not want to have the baby) we didn't have much sex at the end of my pregnancy cause he said it's weird...it drove me...

Lost his boner when I got on top... reasonable excuse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3668 days ago

11 November 2014 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 4 years, yesterday was our anniversary, actually. Anyway, our sex life has been generally pretty good except for me riding him. I've NEVER had problems with it in past relationships but for some reason our bodie...

How do I find the right type of relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3663 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - Confused. So I have a good, old friend. We caught up in summer. We hooked up(kissed cuddled etc) and have kept in touch a lot. We had made plans to meet up soon. We live in different towns. We went on what seemed like dates in the summer and he was ...

Herbal supplements for suppressing male libido?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3664 days ago

10 November 2014 (M) - I'm 18 years old, straight, and have never had a girlfriend, this hasn't bothered me until recently when I've begun to notice that my sex drive has seemed to increase as of lately. Now I realize that for most men an increased/regular sex drive is a ...

Is he just taking things slow or not attracted to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3670 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - There was always some chemistry between a friend of mine and I, but we never acted on it. I know when it comes to romance he is quite shy. This other guy who is a close friend of ours (the one who introduced us to each other) would often tell me ...

I have no experience and don't know how to ride a guy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

10 November 2014 (F) - hi, i'm almost 22 years old and i've small boobs. my waist size is 37", butt 48" but my boobs are too small and plus I've no sex experience so don't know how to ride my man. am so nervous about my breast size and how to ride :{...

How does one go about securing a friend with benefits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

9 November 2014 (M) - I am recently divorced. I'm not ready to get into a relationship, I still have anger over my wife's decision to divorce me. So I've been looking for something that seems somewhat popular these days, a friend with benefits. I've been looking ...

How can I let a friend down without hurting his feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3670 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid,I have question well I dated this guy for awhile but our relationship never went no where the sex was a no go I mean as person he was awesome but his manhood was smaller than his eyes could see.Just last week I spoke to him over the ...

How can this situation be addressed? He still lives with his family and we get no privacy when we visit his home.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3671 days ago

9 November 2014 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year and half and love him to bits but there is just one thing getting me down. He is still living at home with his parents and siblings and when I go to his house we have no alone time and have to do ev...